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ORIGINAL: Sundowner
So please (pretty please) - how do I tell if she's slave or sub (I assume there's a difference)? How does the answer - if I can work it out - affect how I might behave?

This is not a "tell me how to do stuff" post nor an "omigod I can't handle it" post - it's a "what's your view/experience/advice" post - this place so often comes up with comments or suggestions which really are helpful.

don't use bablefish
it sucks, and not in a good way.

How about buying a dictionary?

[:D]

GoddezzT`