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master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 6:21:36 AM

DomcdmissRena

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is it an act of submission for a dom to perform oral sex on a slave if it brings pleasure to the dom it seems to me that as long as the slave is preforming as the master/mistress demands then it would not be submissive

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 6:23:11 AM

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It is not a submissive act unless you wish it to be.

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 9:27:23 AM

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I am very orally inclined and thoroughly enjoy oral sex....in My household though I refer to it as him offering his penis for my oral pleasure.

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 9:27:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomcdmissRena

is it an act of submission for a dom to perform oral sex on a slave if it brings pleasure to the dom it seems to me that as long as the slave is preforming as the master/mistress demands then it would not be submissive

If it's what the Domme wants to do and it's not a limit of the sub, who's place is it to judge that there's something "undomly" about it? Each couple has their own dynamic and if it fits within theirs, it's not for me to tell the Domme it makes her less of one. A former Mistress of mine greatly enjoyed giving me pleasure that way whenever she wanted to. I never viewed her as less of a domme for doing so, if anything I think she was more of one for being herself and not feeling constrained by some self proclaimed group's standards of what acts a domme should include in her play with her sub.

If you do a search, you'll find a fairly long thread on the subject within the last year regarding whether or not a domme would perform oral sex on her sub. I think it was titled "Do you suck his cock?" or something similar. You'll find that many dommes said that "yes" they did indulge in this activity while others did not. It was a lively discussion.

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 9:33:22 AM

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I say it again: I get a huge dominant thrill from having someone's very delicate parts between my very sharp teeth!

Plus, the reactions amuse the hell out of me.

There are no dominant or submissive acts, only intentions.

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 9:44:03 AM

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I say it again: I get a huge dominant thrill from having someone's very delicate parts between my very sharp teeth! Plus, the reactions amuse the hell out of me.

There are no dominant or submissive acts, only intentions.

You are sooo right Lady Hibiscus! I always enjoy hearing your view points on subjects such as this. Those sharp teeth can just be another form of CBT when taken in that kind of context. It's all a matter of how one chooses to look at things.

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 9:51:50 AM

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It also means that my dates (who are other tops, remember!) are reeeeeely careful about what they ask for!!

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 9:57:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomcdmissRena

is it an act of submission for a dom to perform oral sex on a slave if it brings pleasure to the dom it seems to me that as long as the slave is preforming as the master/mistress demands then it would not be submissive

I love giving oral to both male and female subs...

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 10:56:43 AM

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In a word (NO) it is not an act of submission, if the Dom enjoys it, after all giving pleasure is up to the Dom isn't it???

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 10:59:27 AM

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I do it for teasing purposes only.

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 11:39:03 AM

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Hmmm, let's see; there are times (like just after orgasm) that the sensation is too much and the pleasure crosses the line to pain... if the dominant chooses not to back off for the squealing, squirming submissive's benefit; who's in control?

Also, when recieving oral; a man is in one of the most vulnerable positions he can be in. At that point, a woman is free to give him indescribably pleasure or change his gender at a whim... who's in control?

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 1:22:43 PM

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Hmmm, let's see; there are times (like just after orgasm) that the sensation is too much and the pleasure crosses the line to pain...

That sounds really familiar... I some how remember the words being hissed... "ssseenssitive.." I smiled and said "I know".

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 1:44:26 PM

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I think it is an ultimate act of power. I mean... what would a guy give for a good head job, no matter where it ends up? I mean that is power... The teeth and sensitivity is also power, but of a different kind... or is it? Hummm... I might have to try that again and see... hehe...

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 1:48:42 PM

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I don't think its a submissive act at all. pet and I have had this discussion many times. I enjoy sucking, he in turn must suffer with it. Its somthing I enjoy, a challenge, and somthing I feel brings two people even closer doesn't it always when you blow your partners mind? Mysecret master plan is to turn rubberpet into a pile of goo for my control *Giggles with an evil glint in her eye*

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 1:53:41 PM

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I don't think its a submissive act at all. pet and I have had this discussion many times. I enjoy sucking, he in turn must suffer with it. Its somthing I enjoy, a challenge, and somthing I feel brings two people even closer doesn't it always when you blow your partners mind? Mysecret master plan is to turn rubberpet into a pile of goo for my control *Giggles with an evil glint in her eye*

i like my prase better: "puddle o' sub"

Neener-Neerner-Neener!!!

Edited to add a *giggle* when i realized how much that phrase can be a double entendre in this particular conversation. Methinks i needs me a cold shower.

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 2:00:36 PM

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I routinely engage in oral sex with my submissive partner, but never on my knees :-)

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 2:04:31 PM

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I routinely engage in oral sex with my submissive partner, but never on my knees :-)

I laughed when I saw this... checking my mental Rolodex for memories... and yup, you guessed it, not on my knees...
It just fits in so nicely with my oral fixation.... I could only bite him and be just as happy, but I find when I play the sub, I get such different sounds depending on the placement...

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 2:12:37 PM

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I'm obsessed with penises, so fiddling around with one in my mouth is much the same as fiddling around with one in bondage or smacking one, or . . . why is it so warm in here all of a sudden?

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 3:12:39 PM

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For that matter, if you get a sub close to coming via oral, then you will find out who the beg-or is and who the begg-ee is. Having been there many a time myself, I can tell you that there is nothing submissive in a Domme's control over someone like that.

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RE: master/slave oral sex - 3/2/2008 3:47:21 PM

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The best part of giving a male sub oral is, getting him to the point of cumming then smack his pee pee with my riding crop and watch it go limp.

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