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honeygirl -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 12:51:25 PM)
Hey! I just got that too! What a sad and funny loser. quote: ORIGINAL: organicgirl my newest email: "Kneel and open your mouth" that was it.

Justme696 -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 12:51:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: organicgirl my newest email: "Kneel and open your mouth" that was it. I think every female on here gets that. At least the ones I know..had it. I think it is a late valentines message.

mnottertail -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 12:51:33 PM)
A motherfucker could show a little class and say, 'please', since it's his first email to you and all, I should think. Ron

subJuneJM696 -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:05:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp quote: ORIGINAL: organicgirl my newest email: "Kneel and open your mouth" that was it. perhaps it was a priest wishing to prepare you for the blessed sacrement...one never knows... don't like priest either :P

subJuneJM696 -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:20:30 PM)
Hey! I just got that too! What a sad and funny loser. quote: ORIGINAL: organicgirl my newest email: "Kneel and open your mouth" that was it. i asked him ones if he had any respect for himself and me when he mailed me 'neel and open your mouth' he thought he was very respectful talking to a submissive that way (lol)..big loser indeed

NormalOutside -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:27:54 PM)
Don't be insulted or angry when you get "kneel, slut!" emails. That approach truly works on some sluts, and it is those people the dominant's are searching for when they send those messages. If that's not the "pickup line" you prefer, just delete the email or reply "no thanks" and move on. Emailing back "you're a bad person I hate you that was so rude" or getting all twisted up inside isn't the answer. You're on a site where that approach is welcomed by many. If you're not in that crowd, don't be surprised, just deal with it.

Bloodrose88 -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:36:01 PM)
to the Op: after perving your profile, you seem like a really nice girl, but there is one statement in particular that bothers me, and may be part of the reason that you are getting so much rudeness. "I wish to have a Master or Mistress, whoever collars me first." To me, this sounds kind of desperate, although you probably didn't mean it to sound that way. It sort of sounds like you don't care who collars you, as long as someone does, and thus, the annoying Uber-Doms are drawn to you.

Justme696 -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:38:10 PM)
quote: Don't be insulted or angry when you get "kneel, slut!" pardon me? I don't want people that don't ask for it to be called like that. I am pretty sure in real life...the person saying that wouldn't have much teeth left if he said that.

organicgirl -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:39:25 PM)
quote: Don't be insulted or angry when you get "kneel, slut!" emails. That approach truly works on some sluts, and it is those people the dominant's are searching for when they send those messages. If that's not the "pickup line" you prefer, just delete the email or reply "no thanks" and move on. Emailing back "you're a bad person I hate you that was so rude" or getting all twisted up inside isn't the answer. You're on a site where that approach is welcomed by many. If you're not in that crowd, don't be surprised, just deal with it. Well I would never respond with anything like that! Anyone who would is probably just projecting something or other. I totally understand that it's a strategy, it just makes me laugh. And it's also kind of sad, because it seems to me the kind of girls that go for that, are looking for something as equally insecure as the doms writing the initial emails.

colouredin -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:42:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NormalOutside Don't be insulted or angry when you get "kneel, slut!" emails. That approach truly works on some sluts, and it is those people the dominant's are searching for when they send those messages. If that's not the "pickup line" you prefer, just delete the email or reply "no thanks" and move on. Emailing back "you're a bad person I hate you that was so rude" or getting all twisted up inside isn't the answer. You're on a site where that approach is welcomed by many. If you're not in that crowd, don't be surprised, just deal with it. welcomed by many? works on some sluts? Oh dear why if she is offended by it cant she message back and say so? i know that I do its highly offensive, I dont care if it works on some I dont come here to be offended and so if someone says something like that to me I am within my rights to message them back and tell them where I would like them to go. Manners cost nothing, many of those messages are sent despite profiles telling people not to.

organicgirl -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:48:44 PM)
Guys picking up chicks in bars wouldn't get anywhere if they just walked right up to a girl and said "hey wanna have my babies?". Which is like the best vanilla equivalent I can think of. Sure many 'sluts' love to be told to 'kneel and open your mouth', in private, with candles burning and music playing in the background. Its an intimate thing you do with someone you are close enough to do that with. Using it as a pick up line is just plain tacky. Just my opinion. Imagine what kind of dates they would get if that DID work?

trusting -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:53:08 PM)
'coming on too strong' can mean many things to many people... there are people on CM that enjoy this sort of attention, they are the ones probably here to treat their boredom. there are also also people (like myself), that want to be treated as a submissive, not simply a screw. i would advise you to redo your profile as it screams 'fresh, new, in a hurry to be collared and willing to be collared by the first to come along'... no offense, just my personal opinion hugs hope this helps!

colouredin -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 1:53:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: organicgirl Imagine what kind of dates they would get if that DID work? Oh i would assume deep and meaningful life patners at the very least

subJuneJM696 -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 2:46:28 PM)
when someone approach me like that they get my answer, after that it's over and further mails won't be answerd or are blocked..

Volcano -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 2:51:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: colouredin Unfortunatly some people see the site as a way to get a quick shag and flex there "im the most powerful person in the world" muscles... And then again, some people have been told "You aren't dominant enough" when they don't come on strong right at the beginning. I've gotten that one, and I just shrug it off and move on. For others, it's a serious blow to their pride. Being rejected for being "too dominant" (or so they see it) is better for their egos.

subJuneJM696 -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 2:56:51 PM)
strong and right isn't the same as beiing an asshole

defiantbadgirl -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 2:58:04 PM)
I often have men tell me they miss me the second time they contact me online. I usually ask them how they can miss someone they have never met in person and only talked to once. Then I offer them some friendly advice about not sounding desperate. That's when the endless round of apologies starts, followed by more desperation. Some people have serious problems.

colouredin -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 3:00:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subJuneJM696 strong and right isn't the same as beiing an asshole I agree, and i dont think strength comes with demand, i see it as the guy trying to get wank fodder, if you dont give it them then you get "you arent a true slave/sub" to which i respond, if being a true sub means reacting to that then no i must be a total fake and ill revel in that if it keeps my integrity. I would assume that many of the people who do respond to it are just after the same thing so good luck to em. I just wish someone would create a site specifically for it, "join up chat dirty wank away" something like that so the little srotes were all pooled together, there is a real gap in the market.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 3:04:22 PM)
I see the whole thing as the Dom equivilent of what I described in my above post. They're desperate and trying to mask their desperation.

mnottertail -> RE: Coming on too strong (3/2/2008 3:08:37 PM)
Jesus H. Christ!!!! Stop the insanity!!!!! Doesn't a goddamn one of you just drop to your knees and start sucking? Gotta kiss you after we come in your mouth, gotta roger you when you are on the rag 'cause you're horny'. Merc of Mercnbeth: RIGHT HERE!!!! The notion of women's submission is wholly fantasy, they are just dominating from the long way 'round. Q.E.D. Can't make a fuckin' dime out here anymore, I tell ya. Ron

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