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jimmyd45 -> leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 10:22:16 AM)

for the first time in my life i have a sub who is married to someone else.  it is important that when she is disciplined that i not leave bruises or marks on her ass.  normally i use a paddle or a tawse , but what in your opinion gets the point across, yet leaves hardly any marks? 




daddysliloneds -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 10:25:10 AM)

seems that good old fashioned, denying her of your presence would work best!




CelticPrince -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 10:25:44 AM)

kimmy,

Might I suggest that you set up a new dynamic that does not include punishment.

CP




ownedgirlie -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 10:28:36 AM)

Know yourself and your submissive.  Then you will have your answers.

Markless Ideas:
Clover clamps for the nipples.
Clit clamps.
Wartonburg wheel
Suction devices
LARGE dildos and plugs
Tweeze pubic hair
Prick the tongue and squeeze lemon on it
Clothes pins along the labia
Figging
TENS unit
Ice inserted into dark caveties





RedMagic1 -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 10:30:07 AM)

Violet Wand
Wartenberg Wheel
Corner time
Murga




peppermint -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 10:32:30 AM)

The worst punishment i've ever gotten is not being allowed to read books for 3 days.  The punishment didn't even leave a little bruise to the body, although the mind forever remembers. 




domahpet -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 10:36:36 AM)

sorry, i just dont feel like wanking today[:'(]




colouredin -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 10:37:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domahpet

sorry, i just dont feel like wanking today[:'(]



Really? i feel like wanking every day :P




SensualPassion41 -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 11:06:42 AM)

I chuckled to myself when I read ownedgirle's response.  Those activities you listed would not be punishments to me at all!  They would encourage "bad behavior" on my part  <batting eyelashes innocently and smiling>




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 11:15:32 AM)

Make her spend an hour with the person she's cheating on.




jimmyd45 -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 11:20:07 AM)

my thoughts exactly.  she enjoys all of those but hates spankings.  thats why the question what to use that does not mark her too bad. 




ownedgirlie -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 11:30:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SensualPassion41

I chuckled to myself when I read ownedgirle's response.  Those activities you listed would not be punishments to me at all!  They would encourage "bad behavior" on my part  <batting eyelashes innocently and smiling>


LOL

I hate that wheel.  I really, really hate that wheel.  [&:]

Then again, if my Master is genuinely unhappy with me, he could drop a feather on me and it would hurt.  That's why it's critically important for a dominant to know his/her submissive.




CalifChick -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 11:32:39 AM)

Make her listen to rap music.

Cali




chathamvahere -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 11:47:46 AM)

Ownedgirlie you think like I do:)




SteelofUtah -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 1:55:46 PM)

Great Punishment

Marriage Counceling.

That will teach her.




Sunnyfey -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 2:19:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Violet Wand
Wartenberg Wheel
Corner time
Murga



Red honey? Whats Murga? forgive the newbiness but I have seriously never ever heard of it. BAck to your regularly scedualed thred, sorry Oppy, I just had to ask.




kinkypuppy2 -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 2:26:36 PM)

Not a good place to go... Replace then with a sub that is not cheating on their spouse.....




clover0320 -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 2:44:10 PM)

He never said that she was cheating. For all we know, her husband may not share the same interests and be just fine with her submitting to someone else. There have been plenty of people around that submit to someone that isn't their spouse with their spouse's permission.

~Just my thoughts~




colouredin -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 2:45:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: clover0320

He never said that she was cheating. For all we know, her husband may not share the same interests and be just fine with her submitting to someone else. There have been plenty of people around that submit to someone that isn't their spouse with their spouse's permission.

~Just my thoughts~




In which case why does the fact she is married lead the OP to mention he cant leave bruises on her bum? seems to me like infidelity




clover0320 -> RE: leaving marks on a sub (3/2/2008 2:56:21 PM)

Maybe hubby doesn't want to see the marks? I was just giving them the benefit of the doubt. 




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