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MadameMarque -> RE: Sexual preference (3/4/2008 5:03:53 AM)
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This is something I cannot abide. People insisting that they know what someone else's sexual desires are, better than that person knows.
Let someone else define their own sexuality - I think you can take their word for it. If, at some point, they find that their desires have changed or expanded, that's for them to say, too.
Slaves who adapt to their owners' wishes that they engage sexually with someone to whom they are not sexually attracted, are not to be confused with someone who actually is of that orientation.
You can induce an enjoyment or a fetish for just about any activity, if you link it strongly enough to something a person already finds highly pleasurable. You may be able to get a submissive or slave to act against their own personal sexual preferences, and they may do so willingly, because of their desire to please or obey you, but please don't imagine that by their indulging their owners' wishes, you have "turned" them gay, straight, or bisexual!
And just because you believe someone "really is" a different orientation than you say, is no excuse at all for pressuring them into violating any personal limits they may have, on what sexual acts they willingly engage.
Kinsey's scale: You may be aware of Kinsey's concept of varying degrees of bisexuality, as well as strictly heterosexual and strictly homosexual. On a scale of zero to six, with completely heterosexual on one end, completely homosexual on the other, and middle of the line bisexual, in the middle, he posited that many, though not all, people fall somewhere in between; I think so, too. So, for example, a man might primarily be attracted to women, but occasionally have casual sex with men; a woman might sometimes enjoy erotica featuring males, but only ever actually have sex with women; another person might date according to individual compatibility, with no apparent preference for gender; etc, etc.
Whereas, for a long time, many insisted that you had to be either all gay or all straight, there came a trend, a while back, toward insisting that everyone is bisexual. (Also, by the way, an insistence that everyone is, to some extent, a switch.)
But each person would be the one to know their own feelings. Even slaves who are willingly used sexually to please their owners, deserve the respect of having their word validated, when they say how they feel, including sexually.
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