LadyHugs
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Dear theworkinggirl, Ladies and Gentlemen; For one, regardless of how sincere either of you may be; I have seen similar relationship and some on more solid ground break up within a year. Sometimes, the hardest decision to make is to look to the future and a batch of 'what if' scenarios. I would have to ask myself -- what is the hurry. I would also look to the fact that it would be a tad bit difficult to do CBT on someone without his bits. That said -- being in a similar position of a chap who was seeking to be free of his male genitals; I finally granted a scene with him and had him sign permission slips, legal liability release forms and insisted on witnesses being present. I will go fast forward here a bit--I had the chap blindfolded and gagged and had a flag to drop if he changed his mind. I got into my surgical garb, sanitized his area and heaped crushed ice and packed his whole genital area, bowl under the testicals and packed in ice also. The fun began in taking out my other tools... a 4 x 4 piece of wood, a nice juicy mellon, an axe, blood stained apron, blook soaked face mask (courtesy of my butcher); had prepared duct tape that was formed like a __||___ and pulled out a pickle jar of clear thick syrup. Inside, two lovely calf testicals from the ranch who just neutered some calves or can use hard boiled eggs and some color dye, drawing mauve veins and coated in applesauce. I pulled out my trusty axe--and then with help from my audience 'in on the scene'--the axe dropped on the mellon, it's juices splattered on the parted thighs, the chap dropped the flag. (A bit late you may think). I then placed the duct tape on the 'surgery site' and took needle and thread and pulled the skin via duct tape tight. Of course the ice has melted by now and feeling returned--perfect timing to feel the tug of the sewing up of the surgery site. My, my--the chap was struggling and thrashing all about--glad I had horse hobbles holding the chap down. Mind you--this chap did want the total removal of his male genitals--testicals and phallus. Now--he wants to change his mind? Bit late. Fast forward, blindfold comes off, he sees what he 'thinks' is his pickled testicals and my bloody gown and mask--rubber gloves as well. My, my what words. Thank goodness for a gag. I then ripped off the duct tape with the fake stitches, cleaned his area up a bit. Unfastened his restraints and the first thing he did was reach for his goodies. The look was priceless when he found his male parts were still firmly and healthy attached. Panic replaced by relief. Moral of the story--no matter how much someone wants to do something radical to their body, a Dominant does not have to feel obligated in doing such. Dominants have rights to consent or not. Dominants can give one heck of a mind fuse blowing scene and both parties can go from it happily. Should this chap continue to demand radical body change through removal of his genitals and I should add, this applies to women also... Have them do it with real medical professionals in a sanitary hospital and setting. Not one dungeon is sterile enough and nobody has enough medical insurance--even doctors; if a chap desides to change their mind. You're welcome to use this scene as to satisfy the craving of this chap also. Just some thoughts. Respectfully submitted for consideration, Lady Hugs
< Message edited by LadyHugs -- 3/3/2008 8:09:02 PM >
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