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RE: on command? - 9/23/2005 7:01:13 AM

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However she will be required to get to the point of orgasm and then hold it until given permission to release.

that is how i was trained..to have it taken to the point of climax...then denied to release until He thought me worthy. i have never been able to climax easily with stimultion. not until ability to climax and actually release was "taken from me" was i able to climax easier. before i was "on command/demand", i would go weeks with out climaxing...sad i know. i guess this was an "easy" training because of my total submission and need to be told what to do and when.

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RE: on command? - 9/27/2005 9:06:59 AM

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yet it so doesnt fit...is a Pavlov's dog type training thing....
i hope this helps a bit....as personal experience

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RE: on command? - 9/27/2005 9:12:40 AM

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LMAO....I know so many women who fake it....I find it funny to think that their Doms dont know the difference.....Hell I can SEE that they are not really cumming....

ROFLMAO

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RE: on command? - 9/27/2005 2:13:34 PM

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Ok at the risk of being thought a fake or somehow psychologically duped. I can cum on command with some physical stimulation. I can also not cum despite massive amounts of stimulation. I spasm in both cases, sometimes they are stronger than others. For me it was a matter of first learning how to cum and cum and cum and then learning how to control it. Yes it's a matter of mind and technique and 'training' for want of a better word.

I've never cum with no physical stimulation, but then that doesn't sound like much fun to me, however I have seen someone who could cum from a squeeze of the finger and if she was faking then she was doing a pretty good job and who cares? If it brought pleasure to her and her Dom then good on them.

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RE: on command? - 9/29/2005 1:28:27 PM

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I have heard Masters talk about training me to cum on command. I am so curious how this is done, is it a positive reinforcement sort of behavioral training or does it involve something more? Any insights anyone could give me would be most appreciated.

And Subs out there, are any of you trained to cum on command, and if so what is it like? Is it more like you can't orgasm during stimulation until you have permission or could you be walking down the street and your Dom/Master says cum and you just explode out of the blue?

First I have to say.. Love the henna..
Second... my old Dom wouldn't let me cum with out hearing him purr in my ear.. he started doing this because I can just go and go and go... so he would get me almost there and quit.. after awhile he would lean over and purr in my ear.. After doing this for awhile.. well all he would have to do 'anywhere' is purr...

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RE: on command? - 9/30/2005 6:57:13 AM

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mindfucking,,,,, hells yeah ,,, certainly does sound like one anyways... and fun to boot. would i want something like that, sure would because i think it would be fun to try at least.

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What people forget that the orgasm occurs in the brain NOT in the genitals.

I guess this gives a whole new meaning to "mindfucking", huh?

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RE: on command? - 10/5/2005 11:57:20 PM

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Oh...the wonders of hypnosis.

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RE: on command? - 10/6/2005 12:28:30 PM

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This is one of those things that I've always been skeptical about.

Ditto.

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RE: on command? - 10/6/2005 12:31:16 PM

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What people forget that the orgasm occurs in the brain NOT in the genitals.This is why some women can come from nipple stroking/pinching alone.

Strictly speaking, nipples are genitalia as well.

I don't know where your orgasms occur, but mine do not manifest themselves soley in my brain. If they did, my genitals would be sorely disappointed ~grin~

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RE: on command? - 10/6/2005 12:37:49 PM

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One can come soly from fantasy and such, men can do, ever had wet dreams? however to do so on comand, while possible, i dont think it is easy.

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RE: on command? - 10/6/2005 3:59:13 PM

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Oh yes...the wonders of hypnosis and the mind. What the mind believes the body will feel. With an orgasm, this is especially true. Think of the male and female orgasms in two different lights. The male orgasm is mechanical, a series of events and hormone releases. The basic idea is that the male orgasm is mechanical that effects the mind. The female orgasm is the reverse. The stimuli activates areas of the brain and in response the brain activates the orgasm. It does not need to be the physical stimuli, but rather the mental image. Hypnosis is just a way to unlock that image and channel it.

Hypnosis on command is a wonderful tool and fun at parties too.

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RE: on command? - 10/6/2005 7:42:14 PM

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Greetings,

I found this an interesting question having a degree in psych. This is called operant conditioning. Pavlov taught a dog to salivate at the sound of a ringing bell. Can work the same in humans just a matter of conditioning

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RE: on command? - 10/7/2005 6:43:57 AM

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Greetings,

I found this an interesting question having a degree in psych. This is called operant conditioning. Pavlov taught a dog to salivate at the sound of a ringing bell. Can work the same in humans just a matter of conditioning

Eating and cumming are two differant things. Unfortuntely, I can still live without orgasm. And while we are takling about Pavlov, I think it's important to remember that salivation is an autonomic response where orgasm is not.

I think you could apply operant conditioning to female lubricant, much as you can apply it to a man getting erect. But to have that culminate in, well, culmination strikes me as not particularly likely.

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RE: on command? - 10/7/2005 8:09:32 AM

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This subject is verrrrry interesting. I occasionally have an orgasm when I dream about sex. I know it's real because I usually wake up mid-orgasm. That takes care of the first step--cumming without stimulation. Can my mind & body be conditioned to make that leap to the second step--cumming on demand? Easy, no, but it's certainly an experiment for which I would be a willing participant.

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RE: on command? - 10/7/2005 1:15:39 PM

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sounds wonderful