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Quick Strap-on question - 9/22/2005 1:08:17 PM   
DFWServes


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Do Dommes often enjoy strap-on play as often as I see it listed in profiles? It seems pretty popular based on those numbers.

Would you mind offering some input? (pun not intentional, I promise!)

Thanks!
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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/22/2005 1:18:55 PM   
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quote:

Do Dommes often enjoy strap-on play as often as I see it listed in profiles? It seems pretty popular based on those numbers.

Would you mind offering some input? (pun not intentional, I promise!)
Thanks!
Yes, I think it is popular, and more importantly, I hope no fem dom is placing it on her profile if she hates it.
I happen to enjoy it, but I do stay away from male profiles who list "force bi" as well as "strap on" desires/interests, because I'm just not secure enough to think I can satisfy someone with desires I've none or extremely remote interest in (finding another man HE can enjoy playing with).
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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/22/2005 3:59:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DFWServes

Out of curiousity - -

Do Dommes often enjoy strap-on play as often as I see it listed in profiles? It seems pretty popular based on those numbers.

Would you mind offering some input? (pun not intentional, I promise!)

Thanks!


I would say yes, there are a lot of femdoms that are into strap on play. But there are also a lot of profiles that are not completely legit, and many of those probably include strap on play.

I used to roleplay fucking a guy in the ass before I really even thought about strapons. It just seemed like a natural progression. I think even open minded, sexually outrageous vanilla women would get a rush from it.

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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/22/2005 7:28:36 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		I don't have anything on my profile as an interest which is not at least a possible future action for me if afforded the opportunity, and yes strap on play is one of my favorite actual hands on(pun?) interests. For me , the possible TPE that arises out of it is one of the things that gets me going..

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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/22/2005 9:13:37 PM   
PetTeacher


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Status: offline 		Strap-on play is a popular request men have for me. It is something I have little to no interest in. As to if it is popular with other dommes, I don't have a clue.

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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/22/2005 10:08:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DFWServes

Out of curiousity - -

Do Dommes often enjoy strap-on play as often as I see it listed in profiles? It seems pretty popular based on those numbers.



I have no idea, but it's not in my interests because it's not my interest. I "take" my submissive, but just in other ways.

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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/23/2005 6:00:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think for many of us ... strap on play is less *sexual* and more about power and control... There is alot of power for a female wearing a dick in my experience and thats where the rush comes from. It's not so much about having sexual intercourse as it is about domination and control of a partner.

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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/23/2005 6:23:13 AM   
MzticStormz


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Status: offline 		I love the power exchange involved with a strap on but since I got my "Feeldoe" lets just say it stepped it up a notch for me.

just google it if you don't know what it is.


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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/23/2005 7:49:25 AM   
FTopinMichigan


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ORIGINAL: Sylverdawn

I think for many of us ... strap on play is less *sexual* and more about power and control... There is alot of power for a female wearing a dick in my experience and thats where the rush comes from. It's not so much about having sexual intercourse as it is about domination and control of a partner.


I understand your take on it, Sylverdawn, but for "me," strap-on activities are about having sex. I keep the strap-on for my special man, but also, I am not opposed to, and even enjoy, insertion play with various toys with those I'm not sexually involved with.

I find using a strapon to be one of the most intimate experiences for me and my partner, and I don't use it as a power tool, or to control. I simply use it for pure pleasure, and therefore keep it for someone special.

So...that's why some toys come with sturdy hand grips too!

K

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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/23/2005 1:46:58 PM   
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I happen to enjoy it, but I do stay away from male profiles who list "force bi" as well as "strap on" desires/interests


While I have no inhibitions that make strap on play a hard limit I DO want to be very clear on what's going on between the subs ears. I don't mind one that is interested in the dominance part that a strap on plays but one that wants to play in my closet while doing it needs to go home.

just the float on my boat

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RE: Quick Strap-on question - 9/23/2005 5:00:41 PM   
brightspot


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She and I use them quite often.

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