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DesFIP -> RE: Choosing the ONE (3/3/2008 5:34:31 PM)

For right now, be independent. Date both of them and anyone else who interests you.

But I have to wonder how he will suddenly have all this time to spend with you when he didn't before. And how well he will handle you not having time to spend with him when he didn't handle it well before. The truth is, love isn't enough. He still made mistakes before and he isn't coming up with a plan not to repeat them. You still made mistakes before and you're not working on learning how not to repeat them.



eyesopened -> RE: Choosing the ONE (3/4/2008 2:29:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: clearlightblack

Our lives got so busy there was no Us there was constant missed calls, missed dates, missed time, miss everything.  We never connected and when we did it was constant arguments. No matter what we tried we always seemed to be unhappy in some way. 

How would you choose?


personally, i don't believe in looking backward unless that's the direction i wish to travel.



petpete -> RE: Choosing the ONE (3/4/2008 3:49:27 AM)

Dnomyar makes a real point to observe however i would prefer to draw straws here... Whoever draws the shortest loses..



clearlightblack -> Thank You to Everyone (3/5/2008 6:17:21 AM)

Thank you to everyone who posted. You all gave me some really wonderful insight and thankfully I have been able to decide what I will do.

It happened late in the night hour but I woke up this morning being content to know that the past is now behind me and I can look to the future with bright eyes and an open heart.

Thank you all again.



bliss1 -> RE: Thank You to Everyone (3/5/2008 12:02:49 PM)

I would go with those that say take time for you first.  I would even encourage you to write a journal (I have found this method a great way to talk to myself about what I want and why).

And be patient - I kissed alot of toads before I found my current Sir.  And he has been worth the wait.



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