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Oumae -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 4:07:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


Do any femdoms here recall ever being turned on by a sub behaving the way subs are often portrayed in femdom porn: crawling around pathetically, saying "yes Mistress" robotically, slobbering on her feet, talking about how worthless he is, or just sitting there like a lump?

Akasha


I like them crawling sometimes...and foot worship can be nice.... but the worthless pathetic bit does nothing for me. I prefer to see a strong man struggle with himself and then give in to crawling to please me.

Oumae



LadyAngelika -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 5:25:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Oumae


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ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger

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I love when I push them to the point that they avert their eyes... and then I make them look at me. <weg>


I love that point too...because when they think I'm gonna lower my eyes, they getta wink instead. Priceless. HAR!


- The Ranger



That wink would cost you! [;)]

Oumae


Of course it will, which is why he does it! Teetering on a little brattiness huh?

- LA



LadyAngelika -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 5:26:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
In a follow up to "It must be the week to tease Akasha with imagery of men in bondage and helplessness," a pre season hockey game featured intermission clips of the recent "boot camp" the NY Rangers attended as part of their training camp. They did a real military boot camp, and the clip they showed was of hockey players blindfolded and led by teammates, relying them to trust them as they manuevered them through an obstacle course.

Blindfolded hockey players? Obstacle courses? Team building? Why can't they send them to *my* boot camp!?

Akasha


And of course you taped this for your friend LadyAngelika, right? ;-)

- LA



LadyAngelika -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 5:27:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Oumae


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


Do any femdoms here recall ever being turned on by a sub behaving the way subs are often portrayed in femdom porn: crawling around pathetically, saying "yes Mistress" robotically, slobbering on her feet, talking about how worthless he is, or just sitting there like a lump?

Akasha


I like them crawling sometimes...and foot worship can be nice.... but the worthless pathetic bit does nothing for me. I prefer to see a strong man struggle with himself and then give in to crawling to please me.

Oumae



Strong man struggling... what lovely thoughts to start the day with... <weg>

- LA



Oumae -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 5:50:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: Oumae


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ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger

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I love when I push them to the point that they avert their eyes... and then I make them look at me. <weg>


I love that point too...because when they think I'm gonna lower my eyes, they getta wink instead. Priceless. HAR!


- The Ranger



That wink would cost you! [;)]

Oumae


Of course it will, which is why he does it! Teetering on a little brattiness huh?

- LA


Lol...true.... just might not be the sort of payment he expects.



Oumae -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 5:51:06 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: Oumae


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


Do any femdoms here recall ever being turned on by a sub behaving the way subs are often portrayed in femdom porn: crawling around pathetically, saying "yes Mistress" robotically, slobbering on her feet, talking about how worthless he is, or just sitting there like a lump?

Akasha


I like them crawling sometimes...and foot worship can be nice.... but the worthless pathetic bit does nothing for me. I prefer to see a strong man struggle with himself and then give in to crawling to please me.

Oumae



Strong man struggling... what lovely thoughts to start the day with... <weg>

- LA



Yes!

Even better to end the day with the reality [:)]

Oumae



lonewolf05 -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 6:54:13 AM)

DMSO? explain.. what is this? i have several things i am allergic to in foods..

wolfie


p/s
i can't smell.. SHE might by bothered by it but "I" won't. "I" am the one always stuck with cleaning out the hog pen coz i DON'T smell, when i was a kid back home.----yes, i AM an ole farm boy...






Misstoyou -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 8:40:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger

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I love when I push them to the point that they avert their eyes... and then I make them look at me. <weg>


I love that point too...because when they think I'm gonna lower my eyes, they getta wink instead. Priceless. HAR!


- The Ranger



You obviously haven't found the right woman yet. [:D]



Misstoyou -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 8:45:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Blindfolded hockey players? Obstacle courses? Team building? Why can't they send them to *my* boot camp!?

Akasha


And of course you taped this for your friend LadyAngelika, right? ;-)

- LA


Add me as a hockey-lover. Peeling off those layers of Pilsbury Dough Boy uniform and padding to get to the fine toned body underneath...and their coordination on skates on the ice...

Sigh. I'm just a bitter woman, at the moment, in my leg cast. lol

Go Sharks! (Well, one can always dream, right?)



thetammyjo -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 12:48:29 PM)

*laugh*

This is one reason why I dislike blindfolds or other such toys, need good lighting, and generally train my slaves to look at me most of the time -- I have to see eyes! The eyes say so much.

Now Fox, my slave, would add that the dominant's eyes say so much too. He can tell from my eyes what type of play or contact he's in for. It took him a bit to figure it out but now he uses that to ready himself -- can be taking a firm stance, removing his glasses, or kneeling down. You know what, that actually encourages my attention.

And I like that ad you linked too, AAkasha.



AAkasha -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 12:57:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha
In a follow up to "It must be the week to tease Akasha with imagery of men in bondage and helplessness," a pre season hockey game featured intermission clips of the recent "boot camp" the NY Rangers attended as part of their training camp. They did a real military boot camp, and the clip they showed was of hockey players blindfolded and led by teammates, relying them to trust them as they manuevered them through an obstacle course.

Blindfolded hockey players? Obstacle courses? Team building? Why can't they send them to *my* boot camp!?

Akasha


And of course you taped this for your friend LadyAngelika, right? ;-)

- LA


I would be happy to send you a copy on dvd! Just say the word!

Still, they didn't show enough of the good stuff. I mean, don't they blindfold and tie up guys and throw them into pools and stuff? I want the good, hardcore bondage stuff! I want BOOT CAMP!!

Akasha



UtopianRanger -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 4:14:40 PM)

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You obviously haven't found the right woman yet. [:D]



Oh... but I promise you I have.... she's just a tad bit far away ; }



- The Ranger



MsPurrmeow -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 7:47:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkashaDo any femdoms here recall ever being turned on by a sub behaving the way subs are often portrayed in femdom porn: crawling around pathetically, saying "yes Mistress" robotically, slobbering on her feet, talking about how worthless he is, or just sitting there like a lump?
Akasha


Instant Turn-OFF!

It's a shame that many male submissives follow this as a way to attract Dominant Women.

Now, shows me a strong, well-dressed polite man at that singular moment in time where there is a shiver of vulnerability and it belongs ONLY to me. Now, THAT is a turn-ON that will keep me purring for days!

Meow,
Purr






thetammyjo -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/26/2005 9:20:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsPurrmeow

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkashaDo any femdoms here recall ever being turned on by a sub behaving the way subs are often portrayed in femdom porn: crawling around pathetically, saying "yes Mistress" robotically, slobbering on her feet, talking about how worthless he is, or just sitting there like a lump?
Akasha


Instant Turn-OFF!

It's a shame that many male submissives follow this as a way to attract Dominant Women.

Now, shows me a strong, well-dressed polite man at that singular moment in time where there is a shiver of vulnerability and it belongs ONLY to me. Now, THAT is a turn-ON that will keep me purring for days!

Meow,
Purr



I completely agree.

There's not much that is sexier to me than a well-behaved man who I see stand up for himself and for others, who is kind to everyone and who feels confident who then precedes to walk over to me, kneel down, and offer himself to me.

Of course, this is only after we've talked and he knows its ok to do this. It would freak me out if a stranger did it.

I also like the (hard to describe) why a submissive will look at me, look down and then look back up while still having a slightly bowed head. So hard to describe. Its a subtle thing that someone can do that is, in my experience, a good signal of being more on the submissive side.

As another comment: why would I (or any other dominant) want someone who was worthful, icky, a worm, etc?



lonewolf05 -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/27/2005 7:02:50 AM)

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singular moment in time where there is a shiver of vulnerability and it belongs ONLY to me.

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i keep seeing this kind of stuff posted all over the net. all those cute poetic sayings...but really? does such a thing REALLY exist or am i just too damned anal?
"I" have never experienced any shivers or other such things i read about.

is this real and or am i just too anal to understand?

thank You
woofie



Jasmyn -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/27/2005 8:56:08 AM)

quote:

Do any femdoms here recall ever being turned on by a sub behaving the way subs are often portrayed in femdom porn: crawling around pathetically, saying "yes Mistress" robotically, slobbering on her feet, talking about how worthless he is, or just sitting there like a lump?

Akasha


Me ;) except the last one! lol.. I don't do lumps.

But I am turned on by these acts, not because they are doing them, but because *who* is doing them...



LadyKim -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/27/2005 11:51:56 AM)

AAkasha,

YES! YES! YES! YES! YESSSSSSSSS!!!

A lot of subs ask me what it is that I like, and my number one answer is reactions!!! Yes, I have a love for floggers (probably why I own 19 of them.... lol), but I'll get bored quickly with flogging a sub if he just lays there or acts bored himself. I feed off a submissives reactions to fuel what happens next with him.

My favorite thought is of a boy I owned not too long ago that is a true alpha male type. He has a job where he literally barks orders all day, and has an extremely DOMINANT personality with the rest of the world; however, when we would be one on one, he would duck his chin down and rub his head against my arm or chest and meow for me with the most submissive look I've ever seen. Man...... thinking of that still gets me going all this time later.

So....... heck yeah.......... reactions are HUGE for me!!! Loved the billboard. How yummy is he!! Makes me want to grab a crop and circle him!!! LOL!!!



AAkasha -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/27/2005 12:09:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lonewolf05

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singular moment in time where there is a shiver of vulnerability and it belongs ONLY to me.

========

i keep seeing this kind of stuff posted all over the net. all those cute poetic sayings...but really? does such a thing REALLY exist or am i just too damned anal?
"I" have never experienced any shivers or other such things i read about.

is this real and or am i just too anal to understand?

thank You
woofie


They aren't cute poetic sayings, they are the reality for many femdoms who are in loving, sensual relationships.
The reason you have not experienced this is that you yourself state you are not sexual, do not get sexually aroused, are not intimate, are not romantic and don't believe in love. Apparently you get your pleasure from service only, and that's works for you.

Man of us get deep pleasure from romance, love, lust, sexual desire, passion, sexuality, arousal. These all tie into our power exchange. Don't discount these feelings -- they do exist, and even though you can't relate, a great many people get enormous pleasure and satisfaction from them.

Akasha



MistressJan -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/28/2005 5:38:15 AM)

AAkasha:

Thanks for these refreshing posts. I am enjoying responding to them.
Reactions play the communication role for my sub and I. We have been together for a year now. We are engaged. We don't use Safe Words.
I had him at a play party this weekend, and he was beautiful. He has been trained not to scream, but he finally did after Domme put a but plug in his butt. It was fun to hear him scream.
I use reactions to see if I need to back off, or if he is in any danger because he is a strong, well-trained slaved.
At one time, he served two Dommes. I have an idea on how they trained him, but I am in their debt and gratitude for producing such a fine slave.

Respectfully,

Mistress_Jan



MistressKay -> RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? (9/28/2005 5:50:11 AM)

I too must agree - for me it's ALL about the reactions - why would I bother playing with a submissive if I wasn't getting back something in return.

That thrill of seeing "fear/desire" in his eyes and then watching his resolve when his desire wins over his fears is increadibly powerful... the way his body moves to my touch is arousing... his breathing deepens letting me know that he is with me and trusting me provides the foundation... his gasps and moans are music to my ears and only heightens my arousal further... his endurance for MY pleasure excites the hell out of me... eventually I can't hold my passion down and he is unbound so he can sate the arousal in me.

Without this "foreplay" I can never achieve the same level of arousal - only by unleashing the dominant sadist within me do I reach that intoxicating level of arousal with my partner and only in tasting the fantasies of his masochistic needs does he touch that same level of arousal himself.

His reaction IS the catalist that ignites my passions. The fire cannot build without it.

Lady Kay



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