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dollparts85 -> Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:16:42 PM)

When they are not even your Dom...I just told this Dom who pmed me that I was not interested and he said:

"You will obey bitch..this daddy needs his daily cum and you will help...understood"

nice, eh? I get this constantly by wanna-be Doms online...They just start talking to me and start ordering me around LOL wtf...I'm not just going to follow orders from someone I do not even know.




lateralist1 -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:26:16 PM)

Who knows. Perhaps for the same reason that male subs think I'm going to do what they want because lots of women do.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:31:28 PM)

Thats up there with them thinking that because I am female, I will obey them een if I am a Domme. Some men think anyone will obey them, if they raise their voices.  Think of it as the same clueless behavior that goes with people talking to someome who speaks a foreign language and thinking if they talk LOUDER itll make a difference...

DV




Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:32:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dollparts85

When they are not even your Dom...I just told this Dom who pmed me that I was not interested and he said:

"You will obey bitch..this daddy needs his daily cum and you will help...understood"

nice, eh? I get this constantly by wanna-be Doms online...They just start talking to me and start ordering me around LOL wtf...I'm not just going to follow orders from someone I do not even know.


Well since you said he PMed you, I'm gonna assume you were either in chat or had somebody do a chat request with you.  Basically, my view towards chat is that it's a lot of bullshit for the most part.  

The fact is that many people that are bored will go into chatrooms and attempt to entertain themselves.   Basically, you don't have to obey anybody who you don't want to, even more so since they are not your DOM.

You will always encounter idiots like these on the internet.  Don't let them get to you, simply block or ignore them and move onto somebody else to PM or Chat with.





ProlificNeeds -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:32:10 PM)

Wankers, they figure "Hey I'll give it a shot and if the b!tch puts out, great I get my jollies!" If you tell them to shove off, nothing lost.
Surprisingly(to me) there are those out there who feed the HNG's.




xxblushesxx -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:33:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire
thinking if they talk LOUDER itll make a difference...


huh?[:-][;)]




OTKkindaGirl -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:40:57 PM)

maybe because they actually find newbies that do exactly that, so in a trollers eye, what's it gonna hurt to just treat everybody with disrespect if he eventually gets what he is wanting from some poor "unsuspectingsubfrenziedeagerwannabeesubmissiverightnowicanhardlywaitfordirectionandhowthisallworkskindagirl"
.... i'm just sayin'  [:)]




SubbieOnWheels -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:45:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OTKkindaGirl

maybe because they actually find newbies that do exactly that, so in a trollers eye, what's it gonna hurt to just treat everybody with disrespect if he eventually gets what he is wanting from some poor "unsuspectingsubfrenziedeagerwannabeesubmissiverightnowicanhardlywaitfordirectionandhowthisallworkskindagirl"
.... i'm just sayin'  [:)]


Ow! that hurt my eyes and my head!

But you have a point.




OTKkindaGirl -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:47:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire
thinking if they talk LOUDER itll make a difference...


huh?[:-][;)]


This makes me chuckle quite a bit.... Back when i first started out and would take phone calls in my oh so eagerness to please, i was dumbfounded the first time i was being yelled at with the command of getting on the floor and kissing his boots!  i couldn't help but laugh and i hung up.  oh the lessons we learn in the beginning when we first start out. 




indigo302 -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 12:51:01 PM)

You will no doubt get less of that if you take all references to being new and inexperienced out of your profile.

Heck, i hardly get any email at all, but maybe that's because i'm old .. i think they are afraid of the old ones :)




OTKkindaGirl -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:00:39 PM)

i cant tell if that is a complaint or not but maybe if you put that you are new and inexperienced you could really yank some chains!  *gigglez* 

just a suggestion..... i'll never tell, if you don't
[:D]




KatyLied -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:07:41 PM)

quote:

"You will obey bitch..this daddy needs his daily cum and you will help...understood"


I think you could have some fun with this guy.
I still think that the reason guys try these lines is because they have received a response to them in the past.  So thank those who have gone before you for this honor.




dollparts85 -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:09:12 PM)

hehe since I put that I am new and inexperienced in my profile my PMs have increased by about 10 times LOL




Kana -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:10:29 PM)

You must wecognize


Its the power of the one twue dominant
your knees buckle of their own necessity
and your mouth opens





dollparts85 -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:11:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

"You will obey bitch..this daddy needs his daily cum and you will help...understood"


I think you could have some fun with this guy.
I still think that the reason guys try these lines is because they have received a response to them in the past.  So thank those who have gone before you for this honor.



LOL very true.




bleusparkles -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:14:47 PM)

I feed the HNGs sometimes ... I get horny too, ya know?

Sometimes its fun to play the slut ...




Phin -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:15:48 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: dollparts85

Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them?
because they are fucking idiots...




OTKkindaGirl -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:17:43 PM)

*gigglez* at dollparts

it doesn't seem like you need anymore, i was making the suggestion to indigo, but maybe it is better that she doesn't know that.    shhhhhh




KatyLied -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:19:20 PM)

quote:

I put that I am new and inexperienced


Tell us how many are making offers to:
1) train
2) mentor
you?




ITGirl68 -> RE: Why do Doms think that just b/c you are submissive you must obey them? (3/4/2008 1:20:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

Wankers, they figure "Hey I'll give it a shot and if the b!tch puts out, great I get my jollies!"


::nodding:: Agreed.

Also, I read (on another CM thread) the opinion that some people send rude/abrup/abusive email messages or IMs the same way that some people used to make obscene telephone calls! If I were in a comic strip, that remark would have illuminated a lightbulb over my head!

- Angel




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