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Why? - 3/4/2008 1:25:02 PM

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Over in another forum there is a thread about removing testicles. Not having any of those little items myself, I am somewhat perplexed by that fetish. I have rarely seen women who are into having their bits removed, or even been thrilled at the prospect of having their uterus yanked out. Those females I know who have had major surgery like that have needed hormone replacement therapy to maintain some interest in sex.
So.. why do I see an interest in removing male jewels come up more often?
Is there eroticism in being a eunuch? Or is the point that one must remove eroticism to serve someones needs?
I am truly perplexed

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 1:31:50 PM

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Having them; and gonna keep them; and exercise use of the motherfuckers until they pat me in the face with a shovel, you can color me equally perplexed.

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 1:39:21 PM

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Really can't say but, as an adult, it's too late for him to develop as a male Soprano even if he does the deed.

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 1:42:52 PM

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Wouldn't he have to have an Italian background as well?

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 1:45:35 PM

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i am a woman who has often thought/fantasized about being nullified...having my clitoris and the surrounding tissue removed. it's about being reduced to merely an object for the sexual pleasure and service of others, with not even the slightest thought or desire for direct pleasure. i have actually wanted to start a thread about the subject for a while, but didn't think it'd be well-received. so, i can certainly understand why a male submissive may have such a fantasy or desire.

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 1:54:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Over in another forum there is a thread about removing testicles. Not having any of those little items myself, I am somewhat perplexed by that fetish. I have rarely seen women who are into having their bits removed, or even been thrilled at the prospect of having their uterus yanked out. Those females I know who have had major surgery like that have needed hormone replacement therapy to maintain some interest in sex.
So.. why do I see an interest in removing male jewels come up more often?
Is there eroticism in being a eunuch? Or is the point that one must remove eroticism to serve someones needs?
I am truly perplexed

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http://www.eunuch.org/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=72433

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 1:59:39 PM

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It's difficult for me to understand how one would choose the ablation of such a defining part of the body as the testicules, the clitoris or whatever, and the permanent loss of pleasure that would follow, for the sake of possibly what could only be temporary mental fullfillment. But then again, that's just me.

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:06:45 PM

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It's difficult for me to understand how one would choose the ablation of such a defining part of the body as the testicules, the clitoris or whatever, and the permanent loss of pleasure that would follow, for the sake of possibly what could only be temporary mental fullfillment. But then again, that's just me.

why the assumption that the fulfillment reached would be temporary? also, one has to remember that not everyone desires direct physical sexual pleasure/orgasms and the like, and may find such abilities to be not only annoying but detrimental to a fulfilling sexual life.

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:07:05 PM

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I have a friend who has never felt an orgasm in her life. She gets no kind of sexual stimulation from any sort of touch to her genitals or breasts. By age 45, all that was pretty standard for her, and she continued to enjoy being submissive. The a couple of years ago she had to have a major surgery to remove infected parts. She is still submissive because that is all she knows how to be, but there is no sparkle for her anymore. I tend to think hormones have a lot to do with how we feel about ourselves, and how we relate to our partners a lot more than we may think.
She is a really nice lady. I hope she gets her spark back soon.
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

i am a woman who has often thought/fantasized about being nullified...having my clitoris and the surrounding tissue removed. it's about being reduced to merely an object for the sexual pleasure and service of others, with not even the slightest thought or desire for direct pleasure. i have actually wanted to start a thread about the subject for a while, but didn't think it'd be well-received. so, i can certainly understand why a male submissive may have such a fantasy or desire.

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:07:54 PM

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if your born intersexed like me...it is a must to remove..and when i save the $2k required (most of that 2k is hospital bills the surgery is only $500+$150 anasthetic).

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:08:11 PM

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The'll get my nuts when they pry them from my cold dead fingers!

Add me to the list of the perplexed

Jeff

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:11:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol

It's difficult for me to understand how one would choose the ablation of such a defining part of the body as the testicules, the clitoris or whatever, and the permanent loss of pleasure that would follow, for the sake of possibly what could only be temporary mental fullfillment. But then again, that's just me.

why the assumption that the fulfillment reached would be temporary?

Which is why I said "possibly temporary" - there's no denying that there's a strong risk that one may regret it in later life. It's pretty much a point of no return. It's also why I said "it's just me" at the end of my post :-) .

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:13:19 PM

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Remove them?

But....what would I play with?

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:16:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

The'll get my nuts when they pry them from my cold dead fingers!

Add me to the list of the perplexed

Jeff

Is that where they are now? Explains the typos, sweetie.

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:17:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

The'll get my nuts when they pry them from my cold dead fingers!

Add me to the list of the perplexed

Jeff

Is that where they are now? Explains the typos, sweetie.

Oh gawd... moan...

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:18:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I have a friend who has never felt an orgasm in her life. She gets no kind of sexual stimulation from any sort of touch to her genitals or breasts. By age 45, all that was pretty standard for her, and she continued to enjoy being submissive. The a couple of years ago she had to have a major surgery to remove infected parts. She is still submissive because that is all she knows how to be, but there is no sparkle for her anymore. I tend to think hormones have a lot to do with how we feel about ourselves, and how we relate to our partners a lot more than we may think.
She is a really nice lady. I hope she gets her spark back soon.
Kyst

what do you mean by her "sparkle"? perhaps she is simply depressed or physically drained from her medical situation...perfectly understandable in her case. if she was never orgasmic or sexually responsive to begin with, what "sparkle" relating to sexuality is she missing?
also, being submissive is not about sexuality for many of us. it's just a personality trait and a natural way one may have of interacting in the world around them.

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:19:16 PM

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Remove them?

But....what would I play with?

I don't know... what are your ears like?

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:19:45 PM

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You could still play with them. A small crystal jar with balls rolling around on the inside would make a great sound.
Kyst

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Remove them?

But....what would I play with?

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:21:12 PM

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also, being submissive is not about sexuality for many of us. it's just a personality trait and a natural way one may have of interacting in the world around them.

I turns me on, to think of submission when I tickle my clit. Couldn't be without it

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RE: Why? - 3/4/2008 2:24:35 PM

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Depressed is a adequate word for what I see in her now. She is naturally submissive, and is quite used to catering to her people. And even though for her submission was never about sex, it often had sex as a component. She may not have gotten orgasmic from sex, but it did make her happy. I think now without her parts she feels less "womanly", if you can understand that. I know that a few of my other female friends who have had the surgery felt similarly without the right combination of meds.
Once again, I have all my parts in working order so it is hard for me to relate to what I am told.
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I have a friend who has never felt an orgasm in her life. She gets no kind of sexual stimulation from any sort of touch to her genitals or breasts. By age 45, all that was pretty standard for her, and she continued to enjoy being submissive. The a couple of years ago she had to have a major surgery to remove infected parts. She is still submissive because that is all she knows how to be, but there is no sparkle for her anymore. I tend to think hormones have a lot to do with how we feel about ourselves, and how we relate to our partners a lot more than we may think.
She is a really nice lady. I hope she gets her spark back soon.
Kyst

what do you mean by her "sparkle"? perhaps she is simply depressed or physically drained from her medical situation...perfectly understandable in her case. if she was never orgasmic or sexually responsive to begin with, what "sparkle" relating to sexuality is she missing?
also, being submissive is not about sexuality for many of us. it's just a personality trait and a natural way one may have of interacting in the world around them.

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