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hopelesslyInvo -> RE: blackmail Illegal? (3/5/2008 12:55:40 AM)
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not even a lawyer could give you sound advice based on how little we know, there's little any of us will be able to do aside from saying good luck as is.
your profile is nicely blank, i'd remove all remaining info or skew it from our vision, then without giving any personal or definitive details to us that would make you further uncomfortable, and retaining complete anon status, perhaps you could better explain the situation.
what i think we still need to know is
what she is able to do, having personal info is a lighter possibility, as it would simply be her word against yours, and would be in full deniability of just some idiot messing around with you. the question is, does she have photographs that can be used to ID you, or other incriminating things of this nature. you need not go into details, i'm only curious what sort of weapons she has against you.
also i think i need to know about her, and your involvement with her. how did this whole fiasco get started and under what conditions, what sort of character are we dealing with, and do you think she'd even go through with it at the risk of burning her own ass as well? light details are sufficient. i ask of where she lives basically just to know what sort of laws she is bound to, if you can simply confirm she lives in the US that would be enough. this is a "she" right?
basically we need some personality info on this girl, so that we can try to figure out what sort of things may "srping the trap", just hinting the notion of stopping could cause the wrong person to explode.
till i know more the best advice i can offer, even though i won't recommend you take my advice as being sound, would be to simply tell her this cannot continue.
you can try to apologize or soften her up, tell her you hope she enjoyed what you were able to give, all sorts of things of this nature.
or you can stand firm, tell her this can go no further, and you will not be able to meet anymore demands. cancel your CC, all that jazz. and if she seems like she's going to retaliate, remind her that every action has a reaction. i'm sure if she's smart she'll know of some of the legalities, and that if she goes through with it she'll be breaking the law, as she would be doing so already aside if not from your apparent consent. keep in mind your consent doesn't exactly make it legal, but your consent could be the cause for false claims and dropped charges in court. mostly i'm sure that while you both might feel she's holding something over your head, if she follows through she might tarnish your reputation, but the gloves would come off if that happened, and the reprocussions she would face would be more than just reputation.
take it allllllll with a grain of salt, hell take the whole damn salt shaker. for all i can make of the situation, perhaps the best advice is to keep paying, or better yet, speak with a lawyer. if you wish to hold information from everyone, then perhaps you'll have to go looking into things yourself.
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