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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:13:45 AM   
Justme696


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How do you keep them from doing it? 

Satisfy them.....

Oops...is that topping from the bottom?



why did you have to mention TFTB  :(


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:15:16 AM   
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why did you have to mention TFTB  :(



Its TFTB day, didnta ya know? EVERYONE's talking about it, tommorow its Brat day, and then we are gonna have a good old fashioned one true way day :D


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:20:22 AM   
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As for the original topic of the post, I remember one scary post on a CBT thread about cruel and unusual uses for duct tape. . .

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:21:02 AM   
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How do you keep them from doing it? 

Satisfy them.....

Oops...is that topping from the bottom?



why did you have to mention TFTB  :(



I didn't realize it was an issue today.

I probably still would have said it, but...its the thought that counts.

Why's everyone pissy about that term today?


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:23:10 AM   
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Why's everyone pissy about that term today?




There were like 4 threads started about it today i think thats why :D


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:25:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		There's one about bftt, as a shameless departure from the other threads about tftb  .

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:25:59 AM   
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There's one about bftt, as a shameless departure from the other threads about tftb  .



yeah I hardly see that its even slightly linked to be honest, it was refereshing and bought up some new ideas about..... oh wait :P


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:31:27 AM   
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Why's everyone pissy about that term today?




There were like 4 threads started about it today i think thats why :D



That explains it.  I don't read those threads....I roll my eyes whenever anyone mentions it....so I avoid them like the plague.  My comment was in jest/sarcasm. 


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:31:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		speaking as a slave who is banned from this particular activity, No is all it took.  i do have a very high sex drive however so if i have been good (as Wwe don't live together) He sometimes rewards me with allowing me to masturbate once only and in a way that He has just thought up... Interesting and rewarding lol!

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:34:15 AM   
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Justme696,
I don't know if Your question was to Me or not but I will answer from My side. My slave doesn't live with us so unless I tell her she can, she has been told she can't, as a standing order. It works for us, I like keeping her on the edge. My sub/wife, also has the same rule. It works for our family. If it doesn't work for you don't do it. Rather simply. Just My opinion.
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No it was in general
I am curious if the sub always feels the need to masturbate or not. OR is this a one time problem. There are times the "need" is there esp if we haven't been able to get together but she isn't addicted to it.
It is easy to see to a igirl..don't mastrubate..but for how long? And yes..we tough Dom(mes) say..aslong as we say no. I see Your point and I have stated she can only do it if I tell her, she doesn't ask, but sometimes I tease her which is enjoyable.
But the sub thinks..what one doesn't see...didn't happen. IF I can't trust them on this level, I wouldn't own them.
Being a Dom(me) is not just ordering..also maintain the sub...and soemtimes..this can be allowing mastrubation..or just have sex with the sub. I agree that it is more than give orders, a lot more, but for us it is part of it. I do allow it but on My terms not their's.

thank you for your answer though.

PS: if this is not a one time question..then it is not about mastrubating..but about disobedience



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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:36:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Actually thinking about this, i remember back in the day i was with a Dom who had a huge thing about orgasm control, it actually got to the point that even if i wanted to masterbate I physically couldnt cum without permisson (yeah i know i shouldnt have tried but i was tired and couldnt sleep dont judge me, as an insomniac it used to be part of my routine so getting used to not doing it was bloody hard esp as it was a LDR and he would say no all the time just for the hell of it) so after that I didnt even bother. 

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:36:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've never been told not to, or to not enjoy myself while doing so. So its never really been a problem for me, but I guess simply being told no, would work in most cases. Personally I never really got what the partys got out of denying the other person. It only leads the "denied" person cranky, and moody, and such. (No one likes a cranky Kitten)

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:53:07 AM   
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How do you keep them from doing it? 

Satisfy them.....

Oops...is that topping from the bottom?



why did you have to mention TFTB  :(



I didn't realize it was an issue today.

I probably still would have said it, but...its the thought that counts.

Why's everyone pissy about that term today?



I am not pissy...just crying



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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:55:15 AM   
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tell her not to?

willing to bet I am not the only one who comes up with that bombshell

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:55:46 AM   
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I am not pissy...just crying




*hands Jm a tissue (kleenex)


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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 9:57:10 AM   
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Some people out there spontaneously orgasm as well. It's happened to me a few times - how do you stop that  ?!

Look! No hands!


VIDEO!!

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 10:07:12 AM   
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Some people out there spontaneously orgasm as well. It's happened to me a few times - how do you stop that  ?!

Look! No hands!


VIDEO!!


I'm working on it  .

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 10:07:57 AM   
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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 10:11:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		To all the "just say no" responses: IMO, boring and unimaginative.

The OP did say "Creative ways ..."

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RE: Creative ways to keep your sub from Masturbating! - 3/5/2008 10:12:25 AM   
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Just say NO!

Yeah, that was my thought too!
 
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This is true.  Not very creative, but true.  It takes discipline and determination (a lot of both) but, it does work.  It requires the Honor System, too, since my Master isn't with me every minute of the day and i could easily get away with it, if i really wanted to.  But, that's where my guilty conscience comes into play.  Having an orgasm isn't nearly as important to me as remaining diligently obedient to my Master, even when i am alone. 
 
As a former masturbation addict (several times a day), i can say that it is possible to be trained to resist the urge to masturbate.  He does allow me to beg Him for the privilege to masturbate.  He also requires me to ask for permission to cum when He is sexually stimulating me.  It was very frustrating for me, at first, but, it's good now.  The plus side to this is that when my Master does allow me to orgasm, it's so much more intense and pleasurable than anything i ever experienced before.
 
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