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Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:14:14 AM

PrrfectPet

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Hi!

I am not new to Collarme..but I am new to the forums.

I have had a recent slew of emails coming from folks that I just can't understand.

I have enclosed one below...i'm not sure how to deal with this type of message..and honestly i am rather disgusted by the behavior of the sender.

Does anyone see this as a productive and or acceptable message?

<email deleted>

Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks,

perfectpet

[Mod Note: please don't paste received emails into the forums. If someone sends you abusive or harassing email, block the sender and report the email to support]

< Message edited by ModeratorEleven -- 3/5/2008 10:25:43 AM >

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:15:35 AM

GreedyTop

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first.. remove the senders name.

second: ignore it

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:17:02 AM

kittinSol

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You shouldn't have posted this on the forum; it's against terms of service, and I suspect it will get pulled pretty quickly.

If you have issues with an other member, there's the ignore button, the block sender, and the report post/message to the administration of the site.

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:19:33 AM

domahpet

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says shes been a member since 2005,
dunno why shed call you out like that lol

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:22:53 AM

Justme696

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block and hide the sender

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:23:29 AM

PrrfectPet

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Thanks for the comments, I pulled her name from the post.

I didn't realise that we couldn't ask for advice in the forums, my bad..

Also.. Is there a survey or something to fill out, my post says im vanilla..and thats silly.

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:26:00 AM

DesFIP

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You're young and cute. They all want you and because they're a bunch of asses, they've gotten their panties in a twist when you turned them down.

Set up your mail filters to help restrict the flow of stupid emails as much as possible.

Block, delete, rinse, repeat.

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:26:29 AM

KyttynTheMynx

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Youre vanilla for a reason doll.... We all started there. Gotta post more and work from the bottom up!

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:27:23 AM

kittinSol

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You can ask for any advice you like; just try not to name people. That's against the rules, and nobody wants to do that, unless they want to be barred from the playground.

As for the cone, you need to up the number of posts you make in order for it to change.

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:27:41 AM

GreedyTop

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pet. you can ask for advice, just don't include names (read the TOS guidellines).

Also, you have to post a certain # of times to get rid of t6he cone (and why is that such a big deal to everyone??? )

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:27:55 AM

Justme696

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PrrfectPet

Also.. Is there a survey or something to fill out, my post says im vanilla..and thats silly.

it is your posting status as mentioned by the post above
has nothing to do with you as a person.

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:29:49 AM

kittinSol

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Youre vanilla for a reason doll.... We all started there. Gotta post more and work from the bottom up!

Trouble maker

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:30:04 AM

PrrfectPet

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LOL. Ok, I get it.

Problem is that message came from a local fellow "sub".. not one that I had ever had contact with even...

I just don't get it.. so yeah I made y CM profile 2.5 years ago... Big deal.. I have had 2 very wonderful relationships with Dom's from the site in those past years..things didn't work out as we were in different places in our lives..and realised we were looking for different things in a D/s relationship.. i'm still friends with both of them.....I just don't get it..

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:31:47 AM

GreedyTop

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all you need to GET is that not every person is right for everyone.

Ignore the emails that you find annoying. Or, like I do, post them (names removed) on your journal.

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:32:05 AM

kittinSol

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I get it, I think... you're a pretty girl.

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:32:44 AM

trappedinamuseum

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PrrfectPet

LOL. Ok, I get it.

Problem is that message came from a local fellow "sub".. not one that I had ever had contact with even...

I just don't get it.. so yeah I made y CM profile 2.5 years ago... Big deal.. I have had 2 very wonderful relationships with Dom's from the site in those past years..things didn't work out as we were in different places in our lives..and realised we were looking for different things in a D/s relationship.. i'm still friends with both of them.....I just don't get it..

I had someone write to me today that all subs should be toilet slaves. I don't get it either...but, I don't let it bother me. Really, in the scheme of things, does it matter?

No...forget about it, and move on.

Welcome to the boards.

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:33:05 AM

KyttynTheMynx

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Shhh kittin...I didnt realize i did that till ya showed me...

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:37:56 AM

faerytattoodgirl

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advice: dont give me your phone # unless you expect me to call you right away!!

wait....thats a warning...

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:39:26 AM

mnottertail

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punch on the gold and the scales will fall from your eyes

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RE: Advice Wanted: Mesage Protocals - 3/5/2008 10:41:40 AM

GreedyTop

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

advice: dont give me your phone # unless you expect me to call you right away!!

wait....thats a warning...

I thought you meant it as a promise :)

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