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Dnomyar -> RE: who is chasing who (3/6/2008 10:54:16 AM)

I hope that you get well soon Omega.




hiswetness -> RE: who is chasing who (3/6/2008 3:28:18 PM)

i emailed my Master first....this month it will be a year that we have been together!!! The only problem is he still remembers it word for word and teases me about it...sigh...




domiguy -> RE: who is chasing who (3/6/2008 4:35:42 PM)

I like it when women take the initiative to introduce themselves to me...It's a nice and refreshing change of pace....It's also nice to know if I ever fall on desperate times that I have pussy stacked up out here like cordwood.




heartcream -> RE: who is chasing who (3/6/2008 8:59:54 PM)

Hey BossyShoeBitch, (oh, and by the way, I read all of SimplyMichaels posts too, he is very entertaining) a quick Google search and I found this:

"It was the ancient Egyptians who first figured out that the solar year and the man-made calendar year didn't always match up.

That's because it actually takes the Earth a little longer than a year to travel around the Sun — 365 days, 5 hours, 48 minutes, and 46 seconds, to be exact.

Therefore, as the hours accumulated over the centures, an extra day was occasionally added to the calendar, and over time the practice became more or less official.

It was the Romans who first designated February 29 as leap day. Later, a more precise formula (still in use today) was adopted in the 16th century when the Gregorian calendar fine-tuned the calculations to include a leap day in years only divisible by four, i.e., 2008, 2012.

Another stipulation ruled that no year divisible by 100 would have a leap year, except if it was divisible by 400. Thus, 1900 was not a leap year ... but 2000 was! Go figure.

St. Bridget's Complaint

It is believed this tradition was started in 5th century Ireland when St. Bridget complained to St. Patrick about women having to wait for so long for a man to propose. According to legend, St. Patrick said the yearning females could propose on this one day in February during the leap year.

February 29th in English Law

According to English law, February 29th was ignored and had no legal status. Folks assumed that traditions would also have no status on that day. It was also reasoned that since the leap year day existed to fix a problem in the calendar, it could also be used to fix an old and unjust custom that only let men propose marriage.
The first documentation of this practice dates back to 1288, when Scotland passed a law that allowed women to propose marriage to the man of their choice in that year. They also made it law that any man who declined a proposal in a leap year must pay a fine. The fine could range from a kiss to payment for a silk dress or a pair of gloves.


Sadie Hawkins Day

In the United States, some people have referred to this date as Sadie Hawkins Day with women being given the right to run after unmarried men to propose.
Sadie Hawkins was a female character in the Al Capp cartoon strip Li'l Abner. Many communities prefer to celebrate Sadie Hawkins Day in November which is when Al Capp first mentioned Sadie Hawkins Day.


Greek Superstition

There is a Greek superstition that claims couples have bad luck if they marry during a leap year. Apparently one in five engaged couples in Greece will avoid planning their wedding during a leap year."
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I have heard it is important to rid oneself of superstition in this day and age. It makes a lot of sense to me, but it is not easy when the superstition is really ingrained.

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Dnomyar
Im to shy to write anyone first.

Oh Dnomyar, some guy wrote me pretending to be you not too long ago, thought ya should know.




Real_Trouble -> RE: who is chasing who (3/6/2008 9:13:41 PM)

It seems to me that this would necessarily be a question of personal preference; "subs" and "doms" (pick your gender as you will) are definitely too broad of a social group to make useful characterizations about them beyond the obvious. 

There may be trends in preference, but for every rule, there will be exceptions, and then probably exceptions to those exceptions, and so on, ad naseum.  I would suggest that perhaps in general (with any number of possible reasons) that women are more likely to be chased than to chase.  However, see the line at the start of this paragraph, as it is hazardous to believe any generality too strongly.

So, in short, no, it's not wrong, but no, I wouldn't necessarily bet money on it, either.  In my personal case, I have both initiated contact and had it initiated with me, though as I age, I tend to be much, much more particular about who I would be willing to chase... but again, it is personal preference in the end, and opinions will run the full spectrum on both sides.




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