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Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/5/2008 10:34:15 PM

MissAngelandsub

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Me and my sub have been looking for a female to join us. I have been talking to one girl that seems very interested. I know a lot of the Domme's on here have had bad experiences with thinking they found someone and then them not showing up or what not. It's just this is my I guess really my first time finding someone that was interested in us as a package. Just wanted to share lol I am just about over the top with giddiness.

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 5:32:57 AM

Dnomyar

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OP Take it with a grain of salt. Talking and meeting them in person could be very different.

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 3:45:41 PM

MissAngelandsub

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Well, lol you hit the nail on the head lol she deleted her profile and I have no clue why....Why can't people just say they aren't interested?

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 3:54:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAngelandsub

Well, lol you hit the nail on the head lol she deleted her profile and I have no clue why....Why can't people just say they aren't interested?

When you find out, please let me know. This has happened to me more than I can say.

Either that, or their "job" fell through, hmmm...so you only wanted me if the job was there? what about us? can't you still come be with me, can you offer me to come be with you? thought you were in "luvvvvvvv"....LOL

or the fav..."someone" (put name and relationship here) died and I just can't; leave them now, handle it, etc.

now of course I only get these excuses "after" they went poof...and circle around and beg me to talk to them again, which I usually don't do because they usually do the same thing again. This always seems to happen with guys over seas, in other countries, or far away states.

I've learned that a lot of people only want a virtual relationship. When it comes to actually following through, or they've found a better deal or whatever, they disappear.

Can ya tell I've about had it?...LOL

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 3:56:49 PM

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That sucks. Sorry about that.
Better now than later, though, huh?

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 4:14:19 PM

MissAngelandsub

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Well, it was so spontaneous we just talked one night and she said she would talk to me today because she had to go to bed last night. She is from the US I just don't get it. She didn't lead me on like she was going to come see me just one night talking and she poofs on me. Profile deleted from CM. *sighs* when you think you found someone that you would be compatible with it falls through lol. Well, back to surfing profiles again I guess. LOL

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 5:37:33 PM

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if i were you i'd not be holding my breath and waiting on something to happen. if it does, it does, if not, don't waste your time wondering why. join in on the forums and have fun. that's about all you can really count on, getting at least one good chuckle a day here.
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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 5:40:12 PM

MissAngelandsub

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Well, ever since I joined this site even when I was trying to be submissive I have been on the forums they have taught me a great deal and I love reading them. I guess being the first person that seemed interested it got my hopes up but I guess that is why we never stop learning.

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 5:42:30 PM

bleusparkles

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Giddy is sweet. Please don't become jaded just yet ....

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 6:16:25 PM

MissAngelandsub

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lol well I will certainly try not to just going to be more cautious from now on.

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 6:21:50 PM

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It can take years to find the right sub/slave for you. It is nothing to be rushed into thats for sure. I knew my present sub a year before I would go and meet him and then I didn't take him as a sub for another year after that. Many subs won't wait that long and thats fine by me, I figure if its worth it they will wait if not they can go elsewhere.

Good luck,
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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/6/2008 6:43:13 PM

MissAngelandsub

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Well, I didn't expect to run full steam ahead and move in and all that..lol I just was hoping that I wouldn't be the one going..."where did she go" But I know about the waiting and getting to know each other. I rushed relationships in my past and I won't do that at all in the BDSM scene because it takes more trust on both sides in this lifestyle at least to me to make a relationship and to make it work.

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/7/2008 6:55:07 AM

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HUGS and stay optimistic. There are always going to be (pardon the pun) "Poof"das. I am not sure the reasons they show up here, but I would say a goodly number of them may be underage, scared, married, or sitting in a frat house. Some are real. Some panic. Some may just think it is a kick as the site is free and it's cool messing with the terminally kinky

Join in the forums and get to know people and to be known. You might find who you are looking for that way a lot faster than just going through profiles. We get to be people then and not just a profile.

Welcome aboard.

poenkitten aka MC

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/7/2008 8:01:46 PM

MissAngelandsub

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Thank you poenkitten. I think I am through with looking on the profiles. Maybe one day someone will contact me

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/8/2008 12:08:20 PM

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Hey now, it goes the other way around too... sometimes subs back out because they are too pussy but the real kick in the ass is finding a supposed Dom to beat you and tease you then having THEM quit all contact without reason...WYF! I'm a lonely switch so I see it alot from both sides.. I expect it from Sub's but not Dom's!

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/8/2008 7:36:14 PM

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I'm sorry it turned out that way for you, but as you said, you live and learn.

Personally, this is one of those reasons that I tend not to post about something until I know it's worked out.

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/8/2008 8:09:46 PM

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Yeah I jumped the gun a bit I know.

I know that on a site like this it happens to both subs and Dom/mes. I was just weird how after one converstation she disappeared.

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/9/2008 10:32:11 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAngelandsub

She is from the US I just don't get it. She didn't lead me on like she was going to come see me just one night talking and she poofs on me. Profile deleted from CM. *sighs* when you think you found someone that you would be compatible with it falls through lol. Well, back to surfing profiles again I guess. LOL

Don't be surprised if it was really a guy getting his jollies off..

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RE: Ok I am giddy but I wanted to share - 3/10/2008 8:18:00 PM

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(my MissAngelandsub account was hijacked so I have to use thisone for now)
I have been thinking it was a guy and it won't surprise me one bit if it turns out that way lol

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