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solvr70 -> strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 5:57:26 AM)

For the Women out there, as thread has mentioned before, a subbie's eyes do tend to be bigger then their butt can take (been there, done that myself and know better now).

but from Your perspective, when does taking a sub with a strapon change from "damn, this is hot" with all the excitement and arousal that goes with it, to the "ewww....that is just too big" and looses it's appeal to You?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 7:14:19 AM)

I'm not sure this could ever happen! 




solvr70 -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 8:28:21 AM)

woooo.....now that's scary!

it does give me a sense of accomplishment to work up to a little bit more, then a little bit more. but have never made it past the 2 1/4" thick mark. and really, there has to be a point where it's erotic, turns into it's not exciting at all. just guessing here.




NewJustlookin -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 8:45:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I'm not sure this could ever happen! 





Are you sure about that Lady? I mean there are limits lol
But I guess you could always just force it way in. I've seen some scary toys that make me just say No way. In He..




HandSolo -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 9:38:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I'm not sure this could ever happen! 


At some point, there would be back pain to contend with, I guess...




aidan -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 11:01:03 AM)

Well...If it gets just too big for anal or vaginal insertion, you can always use it as a bludgeoning tool. [;)]




LadyHibiscus -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 12:55:27 PM)

See, Aidan understands!!

Anyway, if someone can take an el giganto piece of latex, they are well on their way to being good for fisting, which is actually FUN for me, because I don't get to do it that often.

What's boring are the total anal ho's who are after "just one more". 




Unrepentant1 -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 1:00:43 PM)

Surely this is were the real subs show their metal, when a Mistress wants to gradually train them to take big toys, fisting etc, feels damn good too!




KindLadyGrey -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 1:03:11 PM)

HAHAHA aidan! That reminds me of a ridiculous toy I saw in a grown-up toy store once: A full sized broadsword, except instead of a blade . . .you guess [:D]

My girlfriends and I had a hilarious brainstorming session that evening, to be sure!




solvr70 -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 1:27:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

See, Aidan understands!!

Anyway, if someone can take an el giganto piece of latex, they are well on their way to being good for fisting, which is actually FUN for me, because I don't get to do it that often.

What's boring are the total anal ho's who are after "just one more". 


fisting! now that would be a first (for me)




Politesub53 -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/6/2008 1:44:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Unrepentant1

Surely this is were the real subs show their metal, when a Mistress wants to gradually train them to take big toys, fisting etc, feels damn good too!


There is nothing wrong with expanding limits, although this doesnt make someone a real submissive, just a submissive who enjoys anal play.




malloves69 -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/7/2008 8:16:23 AM)

love being anally fisted by my mistress [:)] geez how many times have i said that before ? once she slides in the feeling is amazing [:)] must warn you boy can it be addicting [:)] strapons are fun ..yes i can now take the bam ..but being fisted is even better [:)] she has trained me well ...mal ..as always have fun [:)]




HandSolo -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/7/2008 9:58:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: aidan

Well...If it gets just too big for anal or vaginal insertion, you can always use it as a bludgeoning tool. [;)]


Actually, I was thinking of the Domme's back....

"Is that a harness, or a weight belt?" [sm=hewah.gif]




solvr70 -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/7/2008 10:02:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey

HAHAHA aidan! That reminds me of a ridiculous toy I saw in a grown-up toy store once: A full sized broadsword, except instead of a blade . . .you guess [:D]

My girlfriends and I had a hilarious brainstorming session that evening, to be sure!


Exactly! that would fall in the catagory of just way to big and not exciting at all to a Domme or the poor sub (i'm assuming here).

something the size of say BAM http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D176.html would seem to be on the upper limit of what a Woman would find exciting (not discounting fisting though) as from experience, pushing back HARD and having the base of the strapon do it's magic on the Woman's end so She can actually cum from it, does make is so much more fulfilling (ok, sorry about the pun) then if She is not excited by it.

would that be about the upper limit of what would be considered exciting to use on a subbie?





LadyPact -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/7/2008 1:13:26 PM)

I can't help Myself but to mention this.

There is currently a profile for a person in the state of GA that has a male holding what appears to be no less than a two foot dildo in the crook of his arm.  This thing is literally the length of his arm and darn near, if not more, in width.  Not a skinny guy either.  He's got  arms.

Anyway, as much as I love anal play, strap-ons, dildos, and even encouraged bi, this pic completely turns Me off.  The thing would never be able to be used in it's full length without causing internal damage.  Not to mention, anyone using it would have to hold it like a freaking baseball bat.  I have toys that are like that, but they aren't for insertion.




solvr70 -> RE: strapons size - crossing the that is just to big size (3/8/2008 12:04:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I can't help Myself but to mention this.

There is currently a profile for a person in the state of GA that has a male holding what appears to be no less than a two foot dildo in the crook of his arm.  This thing is literally the length of his arm and darn near, if not more, in width.  Not a skinny guy either.  He's got  arms.

Anyway, as much as I love anal play, strap-ons, dildos, and even encouraged bi, this pic completely turns Me off.  The thing would never be able to be used in it's full length without causing internal damage.  Not to mention, anyone using it would have to hold it like a freaking baseball bat.  I have toys that are like that, but they aren't for insertion.



Exactly m'Lady!

there is such a things as being so big it's not physically possible, and a real turn-off for the Woman.

BAM seems to be about as big as i can ever imagine taking. not that i could today. but witht he right One, and training...





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