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AtlantaMistress -> RE: Instant Emotional Healing (3/7/2008 10:14:21 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Statepalace
Instant emotional healing is finding his MySpace page - and pictures of the new house. And the new puppy, a Viszla, just like he wanted. And the other girl.
Whoopey. I am ALL better, and how.
Way, WAY different take on things than "I wish I could be with you, but I'm being noble". He last logged into the MySpace page TODAY. Noble my ass. Not when you bought a puppy.
Give me reasons, someone, please, to keep my karma intact and not add some cute comment to his MySpace.
I know this sounds so much easier said than done, but I am telling you from experience, let it go. You are the only person that can truly make YOU happy. You have to love yourself.
I firmly believe everything happens for a reason. Without the worst experience I have had in my life, I would not have the happiness I have today. I also believe that what you put out is what you get back. I always felt I was a good person, treated people the way I would want to be treated, blah, blah, blah - but I have gone through some terrible things. I was very fortunate a few years ago met someone, a record producer that wrote a book (www.becominggod.com) and I joke that I would shave my head and pass out fliers at the airport for it. It combines ancient philosophies of many religions, as well as theories of quantum physics and nueroboilogy to try to explain the meaning of life. It is all about the power of positive energy. He and his wife pointed out that although I was a "good person" I held on to hate, when someone had done me wrong (and I have been DONE WRONG - hurt very badly - including someone that hurt MY KIDS - which was the worst hurt I have EVER experienced). This is negative energy. They told me I had to teach my children to love because the world wold teach them to hate. This does not mean people shouldn't have to take responsibility for their actions, but in my heart, I have learned to let it go...to realize there was some reason, some part they played, and some good in them for me to bring them in my life. I can say (either to them or just to in my mind) "I hope you use that good to make better decisions not to hurt others and find happiness". Then I let it go. Those people I have had to do this with are no longer in my life, and it isn't easy, and doesn't happen overnight to be able to really do this. It has, however, helped me to get over things so quickly - that physical pain that you feel in your chest when you are hurt, that used to linger for what seemed like forever, even when you think you are over it - triggered by a memory...it now exists only for a brief moment if at all anymore. When I finally mastered this, it was as if a huge weight was lifted...I also began concentrating on thinking of the things I did want, not even sure how to make them happen - just putting it out to the universe. I cannot put in words how incredible (and sometimes almost unbelivable) it has been - the positive energy, and the things I want just literally falling right into place. Now, when bad things happen (and they still do) it doesn't phase me. I know there will be a time (now sooner than later it seems) that I can connect the dots to see what good came from whatever the bad was. I am able to keep positive, and don't ever sweat the small stuff, and even the big stuff is so much easier to deal with - relatively no stress. I have said in my journal and other posts, sometimes I feel like I am in the twighlight zone - since I have elimated the negative energy from my life (including people who put it out) LIFE IS GOOD...Amazingly so!
So...I know it may sound like new age BS, but from experience - my advice is love yourself, and let it go. Good luck to you!
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