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tinasboy -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/7/2008 2:27:45 PM)
Okay, thank you for that, people, it's a real help. I was just a bit worried that the two things might always go hand in hand, and that even if i turned down this Mistress, who is very keen/insistent on the idea, that i might face the same issue with someone else. However, seeing your posts has reassured me that i may be better suited to another Mistress. I also feel a bit more confident in raising the issue with her, now, so thank you again.

bobipanti -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/7/2008 3:24:59 PM)
The forced bi routine just seems like an excuse for the sub to try something he/she is wanting to do, but has been afraid to try!

JerryFrankster -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/7/2008 3:31:00 PM)
If it's the sub's idea, then you may be right.

Tantriqu -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/7/2008 5:04:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tinasboy sorry if i offended, it was just a phrase that came up in conversation that panicked me at first. No, honest questions are to be encouraged; it's the euphemism itself, not your quotation of it that I find distasteful.

MsStarlett -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/7/2008 6:03:53 PM)
I have to agree. I find term offencive. If a man wants to have relations with another man... that's fine. I have more than one bisexual pet. But I don't want someone who is looking to ME to find them a suitable male partner and then 'force' the encounter on either of them. That makes me feel more like a Pimp than anything else.

Parataxis -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/8/2008 11:46:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch I was just talking to a friend of mine last night about forced hetero.. Anyone one ever try that with a gay sub? This wouldn't be a friend in Maryland, would it? Because I had a very similar conversation with a friend when they were asking me for demo-scene ideas. (although our conversation also involved gender-fuckery). Maybe it's just something going around the zeitgeist atm.

angelbluewingsz -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/8/2008 11:55:32 AM)
Okay, here's the kicker, If chunky peanut butter is used for lube then I believe it is safe to call it forced bi- play... if it is plain lube then it may be called anal sex with a straight man

solvr70 -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/8/2008 12:01:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelbluewingsz Okay, here's the kicker, If chunky peanut butter is used for lube then I believe it is safe to call it forced bi- play... if it is plain lube then it may be called anal sex with a straight man lol...chunky peanut butter? priceless!

rubberpet -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/8/2008 12:04:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelbluewingsz Okay, here's the kicker, If chunky peanut butter is used for lube then I believe it is safe to call it forced bi- play... if it is plain lube then it may be called anal sex with a straight man What if I like smooth, creamy Jif peanut butter? Does that make me bi-curious? [8\|]

subvarious -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/8/2008 12:08:10 PM)
i was "forced' to oral prepare my former Domme's sex sub for her on several occasions. Although it was her idea and i was very reluctant initially because i found the idea distasteful, the experience helped me become more submissive to Domme.So, overall, i am pleased that it happened and now i won't be so uptight should i serve another Domme with that interest. P.S. The Domme had little interested in my backside other than to beat it.

LadyPact -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/8/2008 9:54:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tinasboy Okay, thank you for that, people, it's a real help. I was just a bit worried that the two things might always go hand in hand, and that even if i turned down this Mistress, who is very keen/insistent on the idea, that i might face the same issue with someone else. However, seeing your posts has reassured me that i may be better suited to another Mistress. I also feel a bit more confident in raising the issue with her, now, so thank you again. This was probably one of the more self aware post that I have seen here all day. Considering there are far too many submissives who are willing to serve anyone and everyone, it's refreshing to see that someone realizes that a particular Mistress may not be a match for them, and knows it from the beginning of consideration talks. I feel that you are in a good place.

tinasboy -> RE: straps-ons and forced bi (3/9/2008 7:44:13 AM)
I thought i was so close to finding someone but it feels so far now. All for the best though. Oh well, back to that dreaded search box. quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: tinasboy Okay, thank you for that, people, it's a real help. I was just a bit worried that the two things might always go hand in hand, and that even if i turned down this Mistress, who is very keen/insistent on the idea, that i might face the same issue with someone else. However, seeing your posts has reassured me that i may be better suited to another Mistress. I also feel a bit more confident in raising the issue with her, now, so thank you again. This was probably one of the more self aware post that I have seen here all day. Considering there are far too many submissives who are willing to serve anyone and everyone, it's refreshing to see that someone realizes that a particular Mistress may not be a match for them, and knows it from the beginning of consideration talks. I feel that you are in a good place.

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