Kasia -> RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... (10/4/2005 6:52:32 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyKim I am sure there are some that would be interesting in threatening and following through with not allowing a chastized sub to cum ever again. I don't view chastity in that way at all. For me it is like putting a chain on a bike when unattended or locking the door to my car when I'm not using it. Now, if a sub's behavior or attitude needs a bit of adjustment, I may use the device in his punishment; however, I enjoy sexuality too much to lock it up and throw away the key for good. Yes, I know about cuckholding, and I know about poly; however, I believe a sub that hands over his keys is very special indeed, and enjoy rewarding him rather than constantly punishing him. I would so agree with that. Just dont see any use of a man without his "equipment", sorry, obviously I am yet too unexperienced. I should say that only "chastity belt" I would put on someone would be his own will power. I was once married to a man that just "had to cum" whenever he was aroused, at any cost. I despised him for that, I considered him to have no controll whatsoever over his physicall needs. Now, I am married to another man who has perfect control - sometimes we start having sex Friday evening and continue it whole weekend, and then its another working week and he is on his way...... without cumming. Till about maybe next weekend. And thats one of the things I respect him very much for.
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