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I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/24/2005 8:52:37 AM

prettyfellowme

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I would like to request some input from the dommes. I have read and done exhaustive research on chastity belts. Most all of the women list in their interests chastity belts, and orgasm denial.

Most men, especially those that crossdress find that they become much less attentive and less likely to stay dressed after they masturbate. Would a domme consider telling a sub or slave after she has taken control of his erotic pleasure that he will never ejaculate again? That the belt will never come off. I know that everyone will scream prostate problems and cancer, so please do that on another thread that questions that aspect. At my age, prostate cancer is not an issue from lack of ejaculation.

I do think that most men would say nothing to the domme, but would always think there must be a way out of this. Of course there will be times when he admits to himself that it's totally useless to try, but as a man I believe he will always have in his mind that you will relent, and therefore do all he can to please you. I would appreciate any input, especially on the point of your mindset. Would you chastize a man for the rest of his life?

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/24/2005 9:05:13 AM

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Yes...

Oh and I loved this line in your profile

"I strongly believe that a woman's place is in the home, and a man's place is cleaning it."

Thanks for the chuckle....

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/24/2005 9:24:01 AM

TexasMaam

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Absolutely.

I have come very close to sending My boy away from a fun and fulling session locked in a chastity device, with just such an ultimatum softly reverberrating thorugh the catacombs of his anal retentive little mind...Will it eventually happen?

What a delightful thought.

Sadistically yours,

Texas Maam

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/24/2005 9:30:54 AM

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Hello. i just was wondering, what type of devise would You use to keep Your slaves in chastity. i have a cb3000, but find that is is not secure at all. Does anybody have a preference?

chaste

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/24/2005 9:46:24 AM

TexasMaam

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quote:

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fun and fulling session

Dang. Where IS that typing sub today?

*fun and fulfilling*

TM

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/24/2005 10:01:21 AM

TexasMaam

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There is a company out of China that is manufacturing bootleg(fake) items of the CB-3000. The product is of very poor quality. The cuff rings are not the same design and the cage portion is glued and not sonic welded. The opening at the bottom of the cage is very sharp and can cause injury to the wearer. They are not affiliated with A.L. Enterprises, Inc. in any way.

http://www.cb-2000.com/

Above quoted from the CB2000 website.

I only use the CB2000 line of products, mostly because of the quality and because one of My boyz flies a great deal and uses the version that can pass metal detectors without issue.

I've used the CB2000 on a variety of men with various attributes of endowment and have always found the correct size and rings to fit snugly while allowing complete hygeine.

I don't use anything else.

Texas Maam

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/24/2005 11:16:10 AM

prettyfellowme

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You can't fool me Texas Ma'am. Typo my foot. And don't try to pass the Fruedian slip theory off on us either. He left the fun and fulling session with his chastity device securely in place, and his little butt full of the lookalike of the thing you just took away from him. I think you have a little bit of humiliating playfulness in you. I like that.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/25/2005 10:55:23 AM

TexasMaam

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smartass.

<laffing

Aren't you glad you're out of cyberreach of a quick pop on the butt for being so impertinent?

Actually, no, he left quite relaxed and humbled from play, not locked in a chastity device, and while anal play with some rather delicate toys delights Me, in playing with men this age I know the colo-rectal lining thins and becomes prone to tiny epithelial tears. I'm too conscious of anal tears and potential medical complications that go with them to engage in heavy anal play and I don't use strapons; I'll leave those activities to those who crave them.

Now, sending him home with a rainbow butt and rope marks that will last several hours before they fade is entirely possible.

<still chuckling.

cheeky slut, you.

Texas Maam

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/25/2005 11:00:24 AM

TexasMaam

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quote:

ORIGINAL: prettyfellowme
I think you have a little bit of humiliating playfulness in you. I like that.

You're right, there! Enough humiliating playfulness that I just might one day send the philandering big fellow back home to his wife with a CB2000 securely locked in place.

In fact, the more I think upon the idea, the better I like it.

*grinning wickedly, with an arched eyebrow, glancing sidelong at Her toybox....*

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/25/2005 3:28:53 PM

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chastity...??? hmmm i have gone around around on this one.
A
i am self celebate since 2001. no intercourse.
B
i am healing right now with a new p.a. and guiche.
when it is healed She is going to lock it up.
there will be NO masturabtion...either.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/25/2005 4:36:53 PM

TexasMaam

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hello wolfie.

I've read about your celibacy on other threads. Speaking of other threads, I must say I'm always interested in reading your posts, I enjoy them.

I'm curious, and you certainly don't need to respond, but I'd really like to know:

How often would you normally masturbate, without a chastity device in place?

Texas Maam

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/25/2005 5:38:52 PM

lonewolf05

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if i am in the mood,..maybe...once a month...if you're lucky. since i gave it up in 2001 i lost any real interest and desire. i have no one anywhere on this planet in my life so i just do not care...you know?
and when it has been so long a man just forgets....now if i can just forget the rest of my headaches............

wolfie

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/26/2005 6:16:01 AM

prettyfellowme

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Hello again Texas Ma'am. I do wish you'd go to your mailbox now and again. Back to the original reason for this thread. I did more research on different belts. This makes about 10,000 hours of trying to decide the best one for a sub that is owned by a domme. I've finally found the best reason to get this one yet. The winner, hands down is a Tollyboy. It's by far the most expensive out there, but with some design changes that the maker will gladly make, it will be the most secure. It flat out will not come off without the key. The reason why I now believe that this is the best isn't because of the belt, but because of the accessories, and your concern about rectal lining thinning at my age does play into it. It has many sized buttplugs that can be attached to it so they also can't be removed until the keyholder wishes them too. One will almost certainly be small enough to insure no damage while making certain the wearer knows it's there. But the best feature of the belt are the thigh rings that come with it. The possibilities are endless for a creative domme. My first reaction, and the one that tipped the scale is piece of mind. many dommes don't like any form of bondage when they are not present to oversee the results and reaction. Keeping this in mind, most dommes will not restrain a sub and go out for whatever reason. With this belt, you can keep your sub at home where he belongs. Just put him in his pantyhose (and there are styles that can be worn under the belt) and heels, and fasten the chain that comes with the belt for the thighrings, and off you go. As soon as the sub realizes that it's impossible to put pants on over it, he'll be a good boy unless he wants to escape in either a skirt or a dress. The fact that he can only take sissy steps with the chain locked would further add to the embarrassment of being seen in public.I think that's the answer to many domme's prayers.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/26/2005 6:34:02 AM

lonewolf05

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prettyfellowme<<

i HAVE TO ASK...what is the deal here now,..if the subbie has to use the bathroom with this thing attached? i find this topic a bit difficult to fully understand.

how does the subbie use the bathroom with the plug in and the thing locked up?

i am very worried.

thanks
wolfie

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/26/2005 11:57:35 AM

prettyfellowme

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lonewolf,
the plug goes in after an enema or a fleet. It can stay in until you have to go again. Then at some point soon following, it will have to be removed. The bacteria will get to you after a day or two. As far as urinating goes. you can do it perfectly and hygenic with the belt on. The only thing is, you can't piss standing up. No need for urinals anymore. You sit and wipe just like the girls do. Just think, you'll never have to hear "Hey moron, you left the seat up again".

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/26/2005 4:03:46 PM

lonewolf05

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You sit and wipe just like the girls do. Just think, you'll never have to hear "Hey moron, you left the seat up again".

< Message edited by prettyfellowme -- 9/26/2005 2:00:12 PM >
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i got that going on NOW with my p.a. i am experiencing difficulty standing while the stream dribbles down the jewelry...onto my pants if i don't watch close..so i am now sitting.......

oh my..what have i reduced myself too? just cannot..be macho and sit to pee too..ya know?

woofie

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/26/2005 4:12:12 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Regarding keeping plugs in for extended periods: this is NOT something that is a safe activity. My ex, Mr Selective Hearing, ignored my warnings and wound up with a seriously inflamed prostate. Wearing a plug for six hours or so, okay, but any longer, and you risk annoying your body in bad ways.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/26/2005 4:45:18 PM

prettyfellowme

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What did you say? I couldn'r hear you. I was never married to you, I don't think.

Thanks for the advice. I will definitely keep that in mind. So, you're single? Oh, that's not for here. Thanks again.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/27/2005 3:04:36 AM

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TexasMaam
You have stated that the CB2000 is suitable for all sizes.Does that include small ( 4 inches) or can a differant item be recommended?Thank you in advance.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/27/2005 11:03:52 AM

LadyHibiscus

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The only trouble I have run into with the CB2000 is escaping balls! Ring sizing can be tricky.

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