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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/27/2005 3:14:00 PM

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My favourite subject.... No looking back once Id discovered this phenomenon :-), but it took the catalyst of D/s to show me patience, and the desire to please a partner beyond a simple orgasm . Amazing!!!!

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/27/2005 4:40:23 PM

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I dont know so much about Inadequate, but I'm Green with envy for those that can!

Winks at quivver... I bet you can!

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/27/2005 5:36:03 PM

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Perhaps this is just a matter of verbiage. You will have a multitude of threads to read if you look for female ejaculation.

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/27/2005 7:04:14 PM

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I have only had a squirting orgasm a few times, and it was with a g-spot, clitoral orgasm that was incredible! I thought that I had peed all over the bed, but I was reassured that that was not the case, had no idea about it before that! It felt very much like a loss of control over my body, stimulating and scary all at once.

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/27/2005 7:22:42 PM

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I have safeworded several times, because I get scared at the "loss of control" feeling. Not so much now, because I know I'll get that control back when He stops doing what He's doing, but earlier in my experiences.

He has found at least two other "spots" inside me that produce different sensations - one at the back of my vagina (the A spot I guess), the other high up near my cervix (that one can get a little painful though so He doesn't go there often).

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/28/2005 10:33:51 PM

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Ohhhhh squirting orgasms are the BEST!!! Like most women, i have lots of different kinds of orgasms....but when i squirt it is really the ultimate.

i really think that all women prob. have the ability to squirt. But it happens with those orgasms where you feel like you are going to totally lose control, and it feels like you are going to pee. So you have to be willing to totally let to & just let it happen.

for me, it does require g-spot stimulation, and, interestingly is not something i can do alone, though i can squirt with either manual stimulation or intercourse - either vaginal or anal.

And, it is only something i began to do regularly about 2.5 years ago when i was with someone who i knew had no inhibitions at all, and would be completely comfortable no matter what happened. Now i know that most men (at least all those i have been with) consider this an incredible treat & compliment.

Now, the right partner can make me squirt almost continuously.....i was recently with a Dom who had invited a friend to play with us. The friend was totally fascinated with the whole squirting thing and so he counted as my Dom made me cum over and over again...the friend reported that i had squirted 23 times in an hour!!! Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Uh oh....i'm getting all worked up just typing this, so i think i better stop!!!

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/29/2005 5:15:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: Spankcopious

Taking a sub to a mind blowing squirting orgasm(s) is amazing, but not a subject Ive seen on D/s forums....Any opinions?

Here is a slightly edited repost from what I've written on another thread on the same subject.

Physiologically, any women should be able to. Psychologically is another story.

In my experience, you have to be able to completely abandon yourself to your orgasm in order to ejaculate. You need to completely relaxed and let yourself go in the moment.

I'll be completely honest, the sensation that you get when you are about to ejaculate is the sensation that you need to pee. And that is normal because it is liquid that is accumulated in the same area and the swelling of your paraurethral glands does put pressure on the urethal area. But it is not urine but rather an alkaline fluid (well this is sometimes debatable). The thing is, you have to abandon yourself to that sensation and in essence "let yourself pee" but you won't be peeing, you will be ejaculating. In fact, many women have an urge to go to the bathroom shortly after sex and I'm not unconvinced that it isn't in part a draining of the paraurethral glands.

This is my favourite website that explains female ejaculation - http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm. It is highly informative and there is a section near the bottom that is all about learning to ejaculate.

For the record, I ejaculated for the first time at 17 while masturbating without even knowing what it was. I though there was something seriously wrong with me for about 2 years before I talked to my doctor about it and then read books about it.

Good luck and remember that what will hinder anyone more then anything is pressure, especially self-imposed pressure.

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/29/2005 10:50:09 AM

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i fail to see how your "vanilla" and "just curious" labels can be reconciled with your statement that "i was recently with a Dom who had invited a friend to play with us. The friend was totally fascinated with the whole squirting thing and so he counted as my Dom made me cum over and over again...the friend reported that i had squirted 23 times in an hour!!!"

in fact, they can't be reconciled. you are just really weird and, more than that, almost certainly lying.

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/29/2005 11:05:26 AM

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Ohhh, Lenard strikes a blow, on his first post. Not very cool lenard!

Vanilla icons are representative of your number of post. Annapolisfemme may have been in the lifestyle for 20 years, but has only posted here a few times.

Now, drop your drawer's and let her have at your ass until you too experience a squirting orgasm!

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/29/2005 11:12:59 AM

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Hm. I always feel squirting to be nowhere near the intensity of a 'real' full body orgasm. Must be just me. ^_^

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/29/2005 12:01:45 PM

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Ohhh, Lenard strikes a blow, on his first post. Not very cool lenard!

Vanilla icons are representative of your number of post. Annapolisfemme may have been in the lifestyle for 20 years, but has only posted here a few times.

Now, drop your drawer's and let her have at your ass until you too experience a squirting orgasm!

LMFAO... whew i'm glad this particular thing (the vanilla by my nic) was explained as i thought i had failed some test!

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/29/2005 12:12:42 PM

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LMFAO... whew i'm glad this particular thing (the vanilla by my nic) was explained as i thought i had failed some test!

Hello There,
I was very offended the computer marked me as vanilla when I started too. I thought there was some magic page to fill in here I couldn't find. Our friend Emeraldslave actually explained it to me as it was just making me crazy too.
The more you post the kinkier you are. I don't agree with the methodology of it all, but what do we expect from a free site anyway? I'm very grateful for the ability to learn and express myself in these forums weather it calls me a name or not. A rose by any other name can only smell like a rose right?
Sincerely,
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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/29/2005 9:16:57 PM

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i fail to see how your "vanilla" and "just curious" labels can be reconciled with [...]

Look at your label Lenard ;-)

You might want to read this thread on Forum Rankings.

Welcome to the boards!

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/30/2005 3:08:44 AM

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I can spray, I found out once by humping my vibe and this really strong gotta pee sensation came over me but Ipee before masterbation so I can enjoymyself. I just got a diaper out laid it under what I was humping and went into town, got the poor stuffed animal was soaked the diaper was and I thought for suree I'd gone pee. Only I had not.

Now f I have an orgasim and keep playing I am likely to squirt, and also if I put a vibe on me the bf in me and fuck gyrating wildy against him, it's pussy juice city.

Edited to mention, I can control how much comes out by if I am relaxed and willingt o make a mess, the first time I experinced it with my mate I was worried about making a mess and rightly so lol. Already as it was withme holding back there was a dinner plate size wet spot, And after that we washed the bedding, because it would of been tacky to leave cum spots on guest bed sheets. We were at his dads house in the guest room for a month long visit.

It also amuses me when people on the same site as every one else try to throw stones at others labling them "weird"

As if they was not on the same site as the "weird person"

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/30/2005 6:33:50 AM

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i fail to see how your "vanilla" and "just curious" labels can be reconciled with [...]

Look at your label Lenard ;-)

You might want to read this thread on Forum Rankings.

Welcome to the boards!

Mod7

Touche' Mod7, he he he, I din't think of that one. That's really funny!
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RE: Squirting orgasms - 9/30/2005 9:55:10 PM

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Hm. I always feel squirting to be nowhere near the intensity of a 'real' full body orgasm. Must be just me. ^_^

I've always wondered if I was missing something by only squirting. I don't know if I've had the other kind... something to think on....

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 10/1/2005 12:17:41 PM

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for me its the perfect surrender from my sub mmmmmmmmm, on her back, ankles cuffed to wrists (leather cuffs), exposed and helpless and taken into space with dick doing the work as she squirts over me

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RE: Squirting orgasms - 10/1/2005 1:25:27 PM

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LMFAO... whew i'm glad this particular thing (the vanilla by my nic) was explained as i thought i had failed some test

Yeah when you went through security we weren't checking for metal LMAO. Just keep being yourself & take another trip through it'll change soon enough.

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RE: Squirting biology 101 - 10/1/2005 2:18:21 PM

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I'm finding it difficult to believe that no one even broaches the topic of urinary conditions that cause, or are attributable to the 'squirting' phenomenon, whether male or female.

The urinary sphincter funtions in a continent individual in such a way that as the bladder contracts, the bladder sphincter opens and urine exits the body.

"Squirting" is merely a form of reflexive urinary incontinence.

That's not saying it's a negative or 'bad' thing, it simply has a biological cause. The factors that contribute to the physiology of 'squirting' are many and too varied to discuss here on the board; they range from urethral obstruction, to scarring, to stress, to inherited genetics to learned or conditioned behavior.

Suffice to say that upon orgasm, the urinary sphincter opens in some individuals and in others, it does not.

The problem with trying to force a non squirting individual to 'squirt' lies in the permanent effect such activities can have on the neurology involved.

If, for example, a women forces herself to learn to 'squirt' during an orgasm by practicing with a dildo and attempting to recondition herself to either force a squirt or allow a squirt under such duress, it is entirely possible that she may then 'dribble' or have continence problems that she never had before.

For Pete's Sake: Before one goes dabbling about with biology, one should go study it first.

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RE: Squirting biology 101 - 10/1/2005 2:30:53 PM

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i really want to learn how even though i think the first time will be a little for want of a better word scary is the word i will use. Maybe intense is a better word.

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