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MasterEmbarec -> Greetings. (3/8/2008 10:33:53 AM)
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Well, here goes nothing. I'm terrible at describing myself, so I usually preffer to all people to make their own decissions about me. I preffer to be a "Cheerful domme," as in the fun-loving type, but if I'm dissobeyed I tend to sober up quickly. Very quickly. I preffer working on a reward system and merely give my slaves or pets spankings when I feel they have earned them, but if a punishment is required then it is given. As for my more "Vanilla" side, if and when it is found, I enjoy making new friends, prefferably couples or singles in the same scene with whom I can converse, and act normally around while I am with a pet or slave. Yes, I am unfortunately the type who hides my lifestyle.. Well, not so much hides it as I don't broadcast it. All my friends know about it.
As for what I'm looking for, it is fairly simple. I only demand a few things from potential slaves. You have to obey, or accept your punishments when you do not without attempting to put me through a guilt trip over it. If you didn't wish to be dominated you wouldn't be speaking to me about being a slave. I'm sure I'm not th eonly one who feels that way.
You have to be respectful. I preffer to be called "Master," but sir will be fine as well. You will not "Tell" him what you are going to do, but if you ask permission there is a very good likelyhood I will give you permission. And take this how you will, but I rarely get jealous as long as you remember who is the Master, and who is the slave.
Finally, I preffer to have fun, but not EVERYTHING in a Master/slave relationship is fun. There are times when you will not enjoy your orders, and there will be times when you get downright bored with them, for example on cleaning days. ;) just remember to take the good with the bad. Why am I saying these rules that seem to most experienced members of the scene to be the bassics? Because believe it or not, there are more then a few subs and even dommes out there who do not know these, or follow these. There are people who are merely curious about BDSM and the lifestyle, who say they wish to be someone's slave but in reality have no idea what that means no matter HOW many times you explain it first.
Yes, I just got out of a poor matchup with a female slave who was new to the scene. She hated to follow any orders, refused all her punishments, and the final straw was when she burned her collar, then said it was an "accident." I attempted to be lenient with her since she was new, continously lowering or more often then not just cancling her punishments before she was underway. And her usual punishments? Writing a set amount of lines having to do with what she did wrong. So if I seem to be a bit disgusted with people who say they want one thing but in reality want the exact opposite.. she attempted to dominate me more often then not, which is a BAD idea.... Forgive me.
Now that THAT is taken care of, I'm not all bad. I may only be twenty two, but I have been reading about and participating in one aspect or another in the lifestyle since I was thirteen, as both a dominant and, on two misguided occassions, as submissive. So if anyone has any questions, ask away. Just remember that everyone in the lifestyle is different in one way or another, so what works for one person might not work for another.
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