youngsubgeoff -> RE: If I became a Domme... (3/9/2008 2:33:00 PM)
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx well...this sub female would first want to know who you are as a person, what you are and what you do, and find out if you are someone I could look up to and submit to, after that, I'd want to get to know you better, your likes, dislikes, hopes, dreams, and your philosophy regarding bdsm. Then, *if* I felt some attraction to the person you are, and *if* you were someone who I felt I could look up to and submit to, I'd want to meet and see if there's any chemistry. Not necessarilly sexual chemistry, but the kind you have when you meet someone and they are a good 'fit' for you. During all of this time we would be talking about expectations, both mine and yours, and it's *possible* (not probable with me, but possible) that some housework could be involved. What do you have to offer a submissive, and why should anyone submit to you? (this is not 'you' personally, I am asking this of, but anyone who would hold themselves out as a dom-me, and they could and should ask the same questions of subs/slaves) So...it's not all about what someone else can do for you. It's what you can do for each other. I'm sure you realize that this would not be a good time for you to test out your domme side, but I gave an honest answer as something to consider, if ever you should decide to try it. damn, mabye I WAS born the wrong gender....
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