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ThundersCry -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/11/2008 7:16:59 PM)

I used to play with a lady that liked strap ons...
 
I never came -L- reach  arounds were N OT in her vocabulary!
 
But darn...she sure did.



HandSolo -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/11/2008 9:21:31 PM)

So, given that the most orgasmtastic bits of a woman are external, why are there not harnesses made with strategically placed projections, such that any toy attached to it would rub at the better stuff when thrust into a recipient? I mean, other than the fact that pretty much all adult toys are designed and manufactured by men. I'd assume that a thumb-sized ridge at about 7 o'clock would do the trick nicely.



Lovearts -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/11/2008 9:29:58 PM)

It's been done and made in many different forms, u simply havent been searching all that hard. Walk into any sex shop that markets to lesbians or BDSM, and you'll find everything from feeldoes to neat little attachments.



HandSolo -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/11/2008 9:45:42 PM)

All the ones I've seen are internal/penetrative.



MstrssScarlet -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/11/2008 9:55:54 PM)

I use a Doc Johnson strapon that's got a leather harness.  There are attachments for the inside stimulation if you like (both vaginal and anal), but I find it a bit painful to wear them.  I'm not very big "inside" and I tend to thrust very hard once I get going.  I had a sub once (personal) who loved strapon play.  I enjoyed taking him from the front so I could look into his eyes while doing so.  He had a four poster bed and I would tie a rope to the cuffs on his ankles.  Then I tied the rope to the top of the posters at the head of the bed so he was 'spread eagle', but up in the air instead of flat on the bed.  His wrists were secured to the posters at the foot of the bed.  I had no problem getting in with him in this position and we both enjoyed it enormously once we got things going.  I almost always came just from the friction of the flat surface against my body.  Of course, I'm sure the mental part played into it a LOT.  I don't recall him ever cumming, but he enjoyed the activity very much none the less.  In fact, he would beg for it.
I've done strapon play with others and have done it both from the front and the back.  When doing it from behind, I generally have them lay over the end of the table in my dungeon (it's padded).  I secure their wrists, but leave the legs unteathered so as to allow for body adjustment.
Mistress Scarlet



HandSolo -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/11/2008 10:00:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MstrssScarlet

I use a Doc Johnson strapon that's got a leather harness.  There are attachments for the inside stimulation if you like (both vaginal and anal), but I find it a bit painful to wear them.  I'm not very big "inside" and I tend to thrust very hard once I get going. 
Mistress Scarlet


There you go. I'm thinking of a device intended to work externally, a massager, not a penetrator.



LittleMeganV -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/12/2008 2:37:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

I couldn't get the Feeldoe to work at all for us. I read a few reviews from larger Ladies who also complained of the same thing. Right now I'm looking for a good harness/dildo set up to try.

To the OP we are just starting out in the strapon department, but from the times I have used them he got so hot he came like a rocket. I got excited just from using it on him. I didnt have an orgasm but it was darned close. With more practice I am sure that it will happen.

~Lashra



I could never keep the Feeldoe in me while penetrating a male or female.
The Nexus used with the Texas Two Strap harness works the best for me..


Diane



Just a quick response: Ma'am had the same issue as these two Ladies. However the Feeldoe still works with harness's as long as that harness is excepting of double ended. When Ma'am started using a harness with her Feeldoe, she no longer had troubles keeping it in, and she orgasms more then 3/4s of the time since the harness holds the bulb in the right spot now.

Just because things are designed to use harness free dosen't mean they won't work just as well with a harness. I suggest trying a harness with which ever product you buy if it's not working without one.



LPslittleclip -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/12/2008 5:11:46 PM)

i have had my M'Lady do that to me and i came just from the anal play. i bought a feldo for my wife to use on me she likes doing that and she get off when ever we play. so as far as a male orgasm yes its there and my M'Lady loves the power trip it gives her as well.
happily collared by LadyPact



malloves69 -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/13/2008 6:28:30 AM)

for me my orgasms are more powerfull being fisted ..love strapon play as kinda like fore play but once she thinks im ready and relaxed for her out goes the strapon and in goes her fist [:)] i usually dont cum from strapons even bam does not get me to cum ..but her fisting me i cum alot and she loves the power control it gives her since i have no control over it [:)] for those who love strapon play try having her fist you [:)] once she slides in that feeling is truly amazing ..gotta warn you though being fisted by your lady can be addicting i must say [:)] my mistress sure knows my ass well ..have fun ..mal [:)]



jonathan -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/17/2008 8:58:04 PM)

What a great thread. Something always on my mind in those situations, 'here i am rolling in the waves of it' and, what's up with Her? Wanting Her to have the same from doing me.

Verbal is very enriching. Cum on command takes practice, but when you get it down. whoa.



vinylsubmission -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/18/2008 11:45:04 AM)

Such good timing, I was just starting to look into this subject. Thank you for all the advice!



solvr70 -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/21/2008 7:59:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: moki1984

mm strap ons. certain things bring out that inner Domme in me..and strap ons are one of them...it makes me feel grrrrr, empowered and I just get this inner beast coming out that makes me get rough , slap the shit out of the party involved, my voice changes, heavily degrading terms slipping out..its just hot



mmm.....those heavily degraging terms slipping out, sooooo do intensify  a scene!



MistressRouge -> RE: Strap On and Female/male orgasms (3/21/2008 8:09:30 AM)

I do not need anything filling my oriface, to cum when I am strapping and thrusting with my strapon lol.

I also have some great vibrating dong attachments, the buzz is quite powerful, thus ensuring my straps get a tad moist [:-]



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