Passion357 -> RE: Ok, so you are a bit tipsy....... (3/9/2008 8:34:15 AM)
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Alcohol and BDSM don't mix. Greetings, All, It has gotten to the point when I see the above statement, I automatically roll my eyes and say something like "Oh, please." Probably because the reasoning behind the statement, in my personal experience, is usually completely out of context. (Something no one in the entire conversation had mentioned) I had an aquaintance who would contstantly repeat, when alcohol was mentioned, "Alcohol and play do not mix." Ummm... NOBODY mentioned "play". No one said "I love it when Master (or Mistress) gets drunk and beats me"... For my own experience: Master and I went out a few weeks ago and had a few drinks. We sat at the bar, had a few drinks, talked, laughed, and just had a good time. Later we went to a friends house to pick up the girl scout cookies he had ordered from her daughter. There we also sat and talked and laughed and had a good time. When we went home, same thing. We "mixed" quite well. So I must ask now when I see this statement said when no one anywhere has mentioned BDSM and alcohol, but only alcohol and personal effects: Why do you say this, Tantriqu? Yep, I know this is a BDSM forum. But this is the Casual Banter/ Off Topic Discussion part, and that means this section does *not* have to automatically be about BDSM at all. [:)] As for the OP: On average I usually drink once or twice a month. After my frist drink, because I usually drink fast, I feel a little "loose". Just more relaxed and usually wanting to smile easier. On an empty stomach the alcohol usually hits me faster. But it also depends on how much alcohol is in the drink. How I act while drinking depends on my mood BEFORE drinking. For instance... there is a story we simply call "Tequila Night" where I got so drunk I fell in public (which I never do because I, like many others, prefer to be much more in control of myself drunk or not), hit on some guy sitting next to me with ex sitting right beside me, and eventually passed out and don't remember much of the night. Before I got drunk I was very angry, wanted to fight, detested a certain person with a passion that made me sick.. so on and so forth. The night I mentioned about BDSM and alcohol mixing: I was happy before. Master and I had had a wonderful night and just wanted to have a few drinks. It definitely depends on the person. My mother, for example, gets angry no matter what she drinks, once she drinks a certain amount. (and it doesn't seem to matter her mood before hand) What I would say about alcohol, though it's just for me personally: Alcohol and Anger do not mix. Well Wishes, ~Passion~
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