WalterRego -> Not a collar (3/9/2008 7:26:19 AM)
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Last weekend, Mistress wanted to go to the Flower Show in Philadelphia. In the morning before we left the hotel room, She tied a big, fluffy piece of yarn-like string to my wrist with a floppy bow and the ends of the string hanging down. It poked just below my sleeve cuff. I remarked at first that it would look like I wanted to remember something important. Something more important than would be served by having a string tied around my finger. It was. During the course of the day walking through the Convention Center and looking at all the exhibits, I sometimes forgot about the string tied around my wrist. But occasionally, I would feel something there. Like a frayed cuff or something brushing insistently against me. And I would absently shake it, which didn’t make it go away, so I’d eventually look down. And there it was: Mistress’ String. Reminding me I was Hers. That I was there because She wanted to go. That I was there with Her because She wanted me there. And a few times like a leash She could hook a finger through and pull me by. It was just wonderful. Different from and in some ways better than a collar (a temporary one of which was under my shirt, but unseen, unfelt). Do you have any innocuous symbols or actual things like that, not a collar, but household items common items, you use to remind your sub that he or she is yours, to bring you to his thoughts randomly throughout the day? I’d think that those sorts of things, un like a collar, would have to be moved or removed or changed from time to time, so that the novelty and unfamiliarity would remain. Just the opposite of a collar, so it wouldn’t become accepted, a given.
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