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CelticPrince -> The Big O (3/9/2008 11:15:01 AM)

Over the last decade there appears to be a swing to a lack of mutual concern for both sides of the slash. I refer to the "D"'s concern as to whether their "s" has received any gratification sexually by their D/s interaction, wheather it is based on B/D or S/M

How does it go for you? er assuming that your Sir or Master does not read the boards.

CP



SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:22:35 AM)

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How does it go for you? er assuming that your Sir or Master does not read the boards.


He can read my response to this question... we have no problems in my sexual gratification... I get the big "O" whenever he wants me to.

~Sinergy's strumpet~



lusciouslips19 -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:22:44 AM)

Well, my Sir reads these boards when I show him something or I recite something I read or a response to it. He enjoys talking about things and he enjoys my openness and how I "tell on myself" to others and him. But he doesnt go on while alone.

My Sir is very concerned about my gratification. He thinks the O ratio should be in the least 2to1. 2 for me to his one. I think thats pretty awesome. To have someone whos satisfaction comes from your satisfaction. I am a very happy little girl.[;)]



SteelofUtah -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:26:22 AM)

I agree with your Dom I feel the same way I am a One hitter Quitter once I cum I am Drained so I try to get her off as many times as I can I really shoot for the extended Orgasms rather than the little eruptions and then that way when I cum we are both spent. If we finish and she still wants more then I think I failed somehow.

Steel



CelticPrince -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:26:40 AM)

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I get the big "O" whenever he wants me to.


thrumpet,

Oh you lucky girl.

CP



colouredin -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:26:57 AM)

Sir isnt really an orgasm control guy, if i have one great if i dont well that doesnt bother him either, but then thats kinda mitigated by the fact that girlie and i have our own time together, though he is ultimatly in charge we are still encouraged to spend time alone and what not so i still get the big o fairly frequantly, also i have my rabbit ;)



CelticPrince -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:28:57 AM)

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He thinks the O ratio should be in the least 2to1. 2 for me to his one


lucscious,

Indeed a happy girl, and a very lucky one also.

CP



CelticPrince -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:31:26 AM)

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also i have my rabbit ;)


coloure,

chuckles, yes indeed, the rabbits have mcome into their own.

CP



ownedgirlie -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:35:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Over the last decade there appears to be a swing to a lack of mutual concern for both sides of the slash. I refer to the "D"'s concern as to whether their "s" has received any gratification sexually by their D/s interaction, wheather it is based on B/D or S/M

How does it go for you? er assuming that your Sir or Master does not read the boards.

CP


One of the ways he enjoys use of me is in my orgasms.  He has brought them to such a state where they can actually be overwhelming and painful to me, leaving me nearly passed out.  He continues to push them harder, and for more.  He controls when I have them, and how intense they will be.  They are for his pleasure, not mine.  And often times the physical intensity of it is not pleasurable at all for me, but the energetic, mental and emotional connection we make as he conducts them is heaven.  A friend of mine once had the opportunity to watch and said it was actually a bit intimidating and scary to her.  Another friend once left the room because the noises I was making were freaking her out.

He owns the orgasms and they are for his pleasure, whenever he wants them.  I do not have them unless ordered.  He often times enjoys holding me at a prolonged edge until I am in tearful agony and begging for relief....which may or may not come, depending on his whim.  He plays with my orgasms a lot, building up an edge in me that I can't stand any longer and then toys with me some more.  I'm usually exhausted when it's all over, and pretty delirious from it all.  My body is for his pleasure, and this is one of the ways he enjoys exercising his control over it.



SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 11:59:22 AM)

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He owns the orgasms and they are for his pleasure, whenever he wants them. I do not have them unless ordered.


This is what is has developed into for us. I do not cum without permission, and if it is granted and I do not have one, that is a disappointment also. It is not for everyone, and it took some getting used to, but having finally adjusted to orgasm control,  my orgasms are far more intense than they once were.

~Sinergy's strumpet~



CalifChick -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 12:05:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Over the last decade there appears to be a swing to a lack of mutual concern for both sides of the slash. I refer to the "D"'s concern as to whether their "s" has received any gratification sexually by their D/s interaction, wheather it is based on B/D or S/M


Well I don't know (and only care in a WTF kinda way) about other people and their concern and their slash... but getting the big "O" in substantial numbers on a regular basis is too important to me to be with someone that doesn't care about that.

Cali



SinergyNstrumpet -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 12:39:16 PM)

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Well I don't know (and only care in a WTF kinda way) about other people and their concern and their slash... but getting the big "O" in substantial numbers on a regular basis is too important to me to be with someone that doesn't care about that.


For some it isn't about the "O", it is about what it represents... which is control

For others it is a deep seated drive to want to see their partner orgasm and that pleases them.

For others it is about their ego soley, and for those sorts, they would not mesh with me.

I did not realize how important my orgasms were until I was denied one[:D]

~Sinergy's strumpet~



lusciouslips19 -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 12:57:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

quote:

He thinks the O ratio should be in the least 2to1. 2 for me to his one


lucscious,

Indeed a happy girl, and a very lucky one also.

CP


He never has trouble getting it up. Sometimes its just not going to go down. The thing that is great to me is those times that he knows he has held off too long to finish himself, he never considers it a failure or unsatisfying, His satisfaction comes largely by mine.

I know how lucky I am. I really do.



RedHotAndSoSexy -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 1:02:47 PM)

The Big O, or actually Multiple O's are necessary for me to be happy. I would never be, could never be with someone who did not want me to have as many O's as possible as often as possible. Since most men are not capable of achieving the breadth and scope of my kind of  O's, they are usually awestruck and like to see it happen frequently.

I am not a believer in O denial, obviously.



Bound2One -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 1:14:19 PM)

I orgasm with Master's permission only.  Sometimes throughout a scene he holds me off awhile, not permitting me to cum until he's ready.  But he's not stingy - easyily a 2:1 ratio, if not higher sometimes, with me being the higher number.  [:)]   Since he's been holding me off from cumming, they've become more intense for me, which is a lovely side effect. 



darkclouds -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 1:44:33 PM)

FR

In our relationship my O's are my responsibility. If i happen to have one while He is using me, all the better, but for the most part my O's are left for me to deal with.



daddysprop247 -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 2:11:49 PM)

actually i've noticed much the opposite of what the OP claims, and it was beginning to bother me so much that i made a topic addressing it a while back. most Dominants seem to either want to use the submissive's sexual drive or orgasm as an element of control, or they simply wish to please their partner in that way. it has been rare in my experiences to encounter a Dominant who did not care one way or the other, or who believed in permanent denial. personally i consider myself very lucky to have found a Master who is an exception to the rule. He is not wrapped up in a female's orgasm or sexual response...his concern is my serving him to the best of my abilities and with passion always, and of course getting his own needs and desires satiated to the utmost. for the most part he does not care about my arousal one way or the other (fine if it happens, fine if it doesn't), and on occasion he simply wants me to suffer and would be very displeased if i happened to be aroused. which is more than fine with me as i find it very uncomfortable for someone to be focused on my sexual response or to try to demand or force something from me that's just not ever going to happen, because of the way i'm wired.



Lashra -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 3:47:13 PM)

He doesnt cum without permission and I cum as often as I desire too. I do make sure that he cums often as I love to watch and hear him knowing I have that effect on him.

~Lashra



FullofShadows -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 5:37:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SinergyNstrumpet

quote:

How does it go for you? er assuming that your Sir or Master does not read the boards.


He can read my response to this question... we have no problems in my sexual gratification... I get the big "O" whenever he wants me to.

~Sinergy's strumpet~



Same here...I love it..

Shadows



CelticPrince -> RE: The Big O (3/9/2008 10:13:14 PM)

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He owns the orgasms and they are for his pleasure, whenever he wants them. I do not have them unless ordered. He often times enjoys holding me at a prolonged edge until I am in tearful agony and begging for relief....which may or may not come, depending on his whim. He plays with my orgasms a lot, building up an edge in me that I can't stand any longer and then toys with me some more. I'm usually exhausted when it's all over, and pretty delirious from it all. My body is for his pleasure, and this is one of the ways he enjoys exercising his control over it.

(in reply to CelticPrince


girlie,

Let me say this! you have become the envy of mana, many submissives and slaves.

CP



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