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boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 12:04:18 PM   
basheera


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Status: offline 		Do Mistresses only want male slaves/subs? Because I have been reading that from their profiles. I am wondering what are my chances of finding a female Mistress? I want to know the truth so I can keep myself in check.

Oh one more question. Do Mistresses believe that women cannot be a real slaves or sub? It may sound stupid but I am serious.

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 12:07:38 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Hmm yup ive seen lots of profiles of Mistresses wanting fem slaves/subs (where have you been looking?)

the second question, well as its to Mistresses I wont answer which is a good thing cos i felt a rant coming on


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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 12:10:54 PM   
basheera


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Status: offline 		LOL colouredin. thanks for making me smile and laugh.  i guess i have been looking in all the wrong places.

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 12:24:21 PM   
SunNMoon


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Status: offline 		Hmm some mistresses only want male slaves and submissive, other are open to both. And some are only going to want a female slave or submissive. It really depends on the person.  Set your filters to find people looking for you. Set it for female dominants if that’s what you’re looking for.

Personally I think people can be (pretty) much whatever they chose to be in a relationship. Some women are slaves or submissive, just like some men happen to be dominant.

Just be honest about what you want, makes it easier figuring out if whoever you want to meet would work for you.

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 1:07:42 PM   
Ostentatious


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Status: offline 		From what I've read on profiles on this site and others (contact me if you want a list of them) there is a massive demand for fem subs from fem doms...

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 1:07:47 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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Status: offline 		While I'm not a Mistress, I can answer this.  Mistresses, like any other demographic group, are individually unique.  So, the answer to your question is yes.  And no.  Some Mistresses only want male slaves.  Some only want male bottoms.  Some only want female slaves.  Some only want female bottoms.  Some want none of the above.  And some want all of the above.

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 1:18:25 PM   
Ostentatious


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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
'And some want all of the above.'



That's greedy I tell you! Greedy!

Doom on them all!

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 1:24:37 PM   
SunNMoon


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ORIGINAL: Ostentatious

That's greedy I tell you! Greedy!

Doom on them all!



Do you mean that I can't have a submissive and cake now? lol

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 1:30:22 PM   
Ostentatious


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SunNMoon
Do you mean that I can't have a submissive and cake now? lol


Nope, just having a giggle :)

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 2:09:42 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I have a live in female sub and I am enjoying her very much.

Seach for Dominant Bi females on the other side...


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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 3:36:08 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I prefer either as I am bisexual. I currently have a male sub and we have a great relationship. I was looking for a female but found that they really wanted to compete with him moreso then be a part of our "family". I don't understand why some fem subs/slaves feel that they are above a male, particularly when that male has been with me for 4 years now.

However I may try looking again at some point down the road.

~Lashra


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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 3:45:29 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		from what i noticed on profiles: couples=wants female... single female=wants male OR female but not a cd-tg-ts-etc, single female=wants female but hiding the fact theres a man involved...,single female=wants male but not a fucking sissy and the rareist=an actual lesbian single female




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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 3:50:27 PM   
MsIncontrol


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Status: offline 		We are couple, looking for a male :-)  Typically I am attracted to submission, regardless of gender.  I enjoy both male and female slaves immensely.

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 4:01:36 PM   
PanthersMom


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Status: offline 		not many Dommes looking for females?  sure you have the right site?  i've seen plenty of them.

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 4:12:21 PM   
CatsEyesGrrl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

 and the rareist=an actual lesbian single female



*sniffs* I'm doomed to loneliness and bi curious Dommes forever then? I'm a lesbian single sub, there has to be Someone out there...

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 4:16:22 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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ORIGINAL: CatsEyesGrrl

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

 and the rareist=an actual lesbian single female



*sniffs* I'm doomed to loneliness and bi curious Dommes forever then? I'm a lesbian single sub, there has to be Someone out there...



you and me both....let me know if you become a Mistress


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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 5:20:42 PM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		For the lesbian submissives,

If I were in your shoes, I would probably have an ad on a lesbian matchmaker site.  It stands to reason that, unlike this site, 85% of the profiles will be of actual women.  List BDSM and D/s in your hobbies and interests, and you might have significantly better results than you're finding here.

I suggest this not because we don't enjoy your company (believe me... we do... a lot... a whole lot...) but because I honestly think you'll have a better chance finding a lesbian who might be open to BDSM, than you will a real (vice a man pretending to be a) female dominant who identifies as a lesbian.

Regards,

Stephan


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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 5:25:31 PM   
CatsEyesGrrl


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Status: offline 		Been there, done that bought the t-shirt.

The dyke police frown on us beating eachother up and don't like it advertised on their nice clean lady loving websites, it's frightens the bi curious away

I'm still on there though. Funny, as soon as I listed the "other stuff" my messages stopped flowing in!


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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 5:27:17 PM   
softness


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CatsEyesGrrl

Been there, done that bought the t-shirt.

The dyke police frown on us beating eachother up and don't like it advertised on their nice clean lady loving websites, it's frightens the bi curious away

I'm still on there though. Funny, as soon as I listed the "other stuff" my messages stopped flowing in!



yarp .. they also really hate it when you dont get the official haircut

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RE: boys or girls? - 3/9/2008 5:28:14 PM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		Pussies.

Funny how some dykes are more intimidating than their male counterparts; they're lacking the sweet spot to make them puke in a fight.

Mainstream porn tells us het men that all dykes love beating up on sub women though.  Ohhh how my fantasies have been shattered.

Stephan


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