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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

Diane,

I realize your OP asks why so many male dominants want to explore their submissive side with you.  This seems like a perfectly reasonable question.  About my last post, I'd like to apologize to you.  If the forum allowed it, I'd just delete the post, but unfortunately we mere users don't have this privilege.  I suppose, in some way, I take your lack of desire for a "ball and chain" as an attack on committed, monogamous relationships.  This is *my* issue and it has nothing to do with you or with anything you've posted.  The choices you make are right for you and (evidently) right for your partners too.  These choices don't need to be right for anyone else.  I'm sorry about my nasty, unnecessary post and I hope you'll accept my apology.

Elan.