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crouchingtigress -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 6:32:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Somehow can one say whore as a bad thing? (is there a softer way to spell it?) I dont think there is, but the word grows on you after a while, there is something beautiful about it, when you realize all the power and historic importance ....much like the word cunt. When i did my whoredom work, it was sacred...It can be sacred if you put that intention into it. i know i have helped people learn to love themselves, heal their broken sexuality, communicate better with their spouses. I know i have been a catalyst for growth and love. I am glad it is legal in some places, seems like it will be a long time before this country is ready to empower women in any sex-positive way.

Firebirdseeking -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 6:35:20 AM)
Oh for god's sake. How about an idiot who calls me, and is highly seductive, and sexual; tells me point blank that he is hitting on me; then the next time we speak, he "doesnt feel a connection." How about the men who try to dom right away, up front?

OmegaG -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 6:51:20 AM)
We've all gotten these crazy, way out in left field people who have got some strange idea of what an s type is. The thing is that so many of us have been dealing with it for so long that we've reached the point were we just find these people amusing. Someone on the other end of an internet connection or a phone line doesn't really have any more power over us then we give them. We have the power to terminate the connection anytime we wish. Consider it your weeding process, the sooner they show their undesireable qualities, the sooner you can pluck them out of your life and focus on others that are more compatible with what would make you happy. But if you can't find the entertainment quality in them, they may just drive you mad.

Justme696 -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:04:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress I dont think there is, but the word grows on you after a while, there is something beautiful about it, when you realize all the power and historic importance ....much like the word cunt. When i did my whoredom work, it was sacred...It can be sacred if you put that intention into it. i know i have helped people learn to love themselves, heal their broken sexuality, communicate better with their spouses. I know i have been a catalyst for growth and love. I am glad it is legal in some places, seems like it will be a long time before this country is ready to empower women in any sex-positive way. I fully respect the work....I don't mind some one beeing a whore...or a prostitute. but lol..you now make it sound like they are goddesses :P

colouredin -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:06:29 AM)
Not everyone is compatible, thats life, if you dont like them or it doesnt work for you or its not what you are after, thats cool move on to the next, some people are here for cyber, some are here for kinky nilla, some are here for TPE each to their own, you wont fit with everyone all the time,

xxblushesxx -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:06:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hopelessfool I need to clean the litter box These can all make trolls think you want to serve them, advoid them at all costs. Is "I need to clean the litter box" subbie code speak for I love anal? I really don't get that answer.

CelticPrince -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:07:55 AM)
quote: I know Im not a whore, Im a slut, I never get paid except in creamy goodness, ^_^ but I think shes refering to being over trolled, and not her enjoyment of sex, cock, or the male gender -sighs- hopeless, Damn, i do love candor, it is getting so rare lately! CP

OmegaG -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:10:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress I dont think there is, but the word grows on you after a while, there is something beautiful about it, when you realize all the power and historic importance ....much like the word cunt. When i did my whoredom work, it was sacred...It can be sacred if you put that intention into it. i know i have helped people learn to love themselves, heal their broken sexuality, communicate better with their spouses. I know i have been a catalyst for growth and love. I am glad it is legal in some places, seems like it will be a long time before this country is ready to empower women in any sex-positive way. I fully respect the work....I don't mind some one beeing a whore...or a prostitute. but lol..you now make it sound like they are goddesses :P In some cultures they were the priestesses of goddesses. And here I am slapping my head thinking I could have gotten paid this whole time.

IrishMist -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:13:18 AM)
quote: I fully respect the work....I don't mind some one beeing a whore...or a prostitute. but lol..you now make it sound like they are goddesses :P Who's to say that they aren't?

crouchingtigress -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:13:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress I dont think there is, but the word grows on you after a while, there is something beautiful about it, when you realize all the power and historic importance ....much like the word cunt. When i did my whoredom work, it was sacred...It can be sacred if you put that intention into it. i know i have helped people learn to love themselves, heal their broken sexuality, communicate better with their spouses. I know i have been a catalyst for growth and love. I am glad it is legal in some places, seems like it will be a long time before this country is ready to empower women in any sex-positive way. I fully respect the work....I don't mind some one beeing a whore...or a prostitute. but lol..you now make it sound like they are goddesses :P some are, some arent, really depends on the people involved and the intention they bring to it. :)

DiurnalVampire -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:14:44 AM)
We all get the crazy assuming emails on first contacts, Firebird. Expecting respect is not a problem, but taking it personally when you dont get it is. If someone's first impression doesnt work for you, tell them so and then ignore them. On this site, some subs want that sort of attention, they like the whole Dom from th get go do me now slut emails. Others dont tolerate them. Choose which you are and stand by it.If you think itll help, say so in your profile, that comments like that will be promptly ignored and if you still get them you know someone didnt read your profile and you can tell them theyd do better to try some reading and then ignore them. Or something snarky in response like "im sorry, if you cant start of acting like a human being, I dont think I can treat you that way either" But dont let them get to you, or you will lose your everloving mind. Get a laugh and move on to something worth reading. DV

ExSteelAgain -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:18:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress you say whore like it is a bad thing. whores can be healers, teachers, confidants, friends, clowns, and many other things...they provide a service, their work is important, and has been important since the dawn of time. just sayin' Every once in a while, someone throws out a post that makse us all stop, think and keep coming back to. This be one of them.

Owner4SexSlave -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:22:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Firebirdseeking Oh for god's sake. How about an idiot who calls me, and is highly seductive, and sexual; tells me point blank that he is hitting on me; then the next time we speak, he "doesnt feel a connection." a confused fickle man whore? quote: How about the men who try to dom right away, up front? You mean those who Doms constantly take ownership of some crazy bitch of a sub that tops them in the end, or have more problems then the Betty Ford clinic alone can deal with?

Dnomyar -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:23:17 AM)
Good grief Omega is going to go pro on us.

mnottertail -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:24:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress you say whore like it is a bad thing. whores can be healers, teachers, confidants, friends, clowns, and many other things...they provide a service, their work is important, and has been important since the dawn of time. just sayin' Every once in a while, someone throws out a post that makse us all stop, think and keep coming back to. This be one of them. The clown part tho, that tears it for alotta folks out here, clown sex is pretty edgey for alot of folks, it seems. Not a long line for boinkin' bozo. Ron

OmegaG -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:27:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Good grief Omega is going to go pro on us. On the flip side, that would be admitting that I have a price and can be bought.

crouchingtigress -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 7:30:00 AM)
the way i was using the word clown ron was to bring laughter and joy in to some very dark lives.....but now that you mention it, there was this one guy....

Justme696 -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 8:33:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist Who's to say that they aren't? crouchingtigress :P (see below your post) and I have seen whores,,that sure are not goddesses..so I say that too. I didn't see people pray to them overhere in the redlight district in Amsterdam. (and again..I do respect those ladies)

CalifChick -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 10:24:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Good grief Omega is going to go pro on us. On the flip side, that would be admitting that I have a price and can be bought. Uh huhhhhhhhhh. Cali (I take paypal)

Jeffff -> RE: A submissive is not a whore or... (3/11/2008 10:57:47 AM)
They aren't?.....well............ I mean................. what's the point then? Jeff

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