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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/11/2008 2:28:23 PM   
Pyrrsefanie


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I find that most problems are solved with a baseball bat.  Keep one in your car.  You never know when some balls might need hitting.  Seriously.


Fuck the baseball bat, I hear a .38 to the scrotum does quite well for retribution.

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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/11/2008 6:46:47 PM   
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Retubrution is tempting ... but would  likely only get Chelle in trouble with the way the world seems to work at times......again I will say Im sorry you are faced with the memories of this yet again ... I know how difficult it is ... I am glad you have blocked his profile and taken your picture etc off ... I think those are wise steps to have taken ... please find a support group it really does help even when you think it isnt.... you are in my thoughts and prayers and know that together we remain strong and that is the very best revenge against the bastards.....

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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/11/2008 7:38:01 PM   
Casie


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That is quite tragic. I'm sorry to hear it. I've been where you are don't feel bad about not reporting it. Most rapist don't ever meet justice anyhow, even if reported there are more rap kits fgathering dust than you could imagen. However seeing as you can't do anything here just ignore the fact he exsist. Perhaps BDSM has given him a healthy outlet. Remember what someone else does is on them not you

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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/11/2008 8:13:17 PM   
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In the interest of full disclosure (and to admit a certain bias), I was molested when I was six years old and I have two close female relatives (as well as more than a few female friends, acquaintances, etc.) who have been victims of rape. It is a disturbingly – and disgustingly – common crime.

My deepest condolences for the suffering you endured at the hands of a brutal man. Males (he doesn’t deserve to be called a man) like this piss me off not only because I despise cruelty (real cruelty, not the fun BDSM kind) but also because they give the rest of us guys a bed rep.

I’m sure that you realize that most people here are venting their own frustration but, just in case, I would like to add my voice to Miss Harlet’s that you should not seek personal retribution. To much can go wrong that can backfire on you and possibly harm innocents. The advice about photos and your profile is good advice as is seeking out a support group. The YWCA might be a good place to start. You might also consider talking to a lawyer about your options in pursuing a civil or legal case against him (a local rape victims support group could probably put you in touch with a lawyer who specializes in rape cases).

I’m going to skip my offended sense of manhood rant but I will admit to my own retribution fantasy for rapists: take them out to a large open field. Strip them naked. Tie their wrists together behind their back. Tie one end of a rope (say about twelve feet long) around their balls. The other end of the rope is tied to the back of a pick-up truck (or perhaps a jeep, something with four wheel drive). Give the keys to the victim. Time to see how fast the mother fucker can run.

Aileen said:

quote:

I find that most problems are solved with a baseball bat. Keep one in your car. You never know when some balls might need hitting. Seriously.


Might I suggest that you don’t make the balls your first target. Men have an instinctive protection reflex when it comes to the balls – you’d be surprised how fast we can move to block, we don’t even have to think about it. Now, Pyrrsefanie has a point about the .38, them bullets are impossible to block, but if you are going to stick with the baseball bat for self defense, I suggest a strike to the ankle or elbow or a quick jab to the solar plexus – someplace where he is not expecting it. While he is reacting to that, then you go for the balls. Once that has him doubled over you can decide wether to run or deliver few more whacks to the head for good measure (and then run).

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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/11/2008 9:56:32 PM   
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I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.  To have such a horrible experience brought up again in a place where you belong and are comfortable ... it's yet another violation.  Hugs to you.

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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/11/2008 10:39:09 PM   
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quote:

To have such a horrible experience brought up again in a place where you belong and are comfortable ... it's yet another violation.


i think this is what hit me out of no where this morning...

thanks everyone for your support...this day has really sucked...i had some former friends attack me in email and text messages and i had to ask them to loose my phone number - twice...

sleep sounds good
chelle


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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/12/2008 2:22:59 PM   
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  I'm so sorry.
Screw the jerks and move on.

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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/12/2008 2:32:54 PM   
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I'm sorry you are dealing with this and I completely understand not wanting to deal with the police all it would take is a good defense lawyer and everything you've ever done or said to anyone would have been used against you.  Try to keep your head up and if you are up to contact your local woman's shelter they should offer you free counseling and access to support groups in your area.

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RE: a wft? moment... - 3/17/2008 3:45:51 AM   
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I have found a couple of reputable support sites for you.  I am unsure of the policy for posting links to other sites here so if your interested just send me an email.

Haven

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