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Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 2:56:24 PM   
lusciouslips19


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Status: offline 		 I saw a Male slave/submissive that seemed to desire something I would consider quite extreme. Perusing a BDSM website with pics more graphic than here, I would see male slave/subs that desired to be used as a human toilet, defecated or and feces smeared all over. I have never seen a profile of a female who desires these things .

I was wondering if anyone has a notion as to why this seems to be the case?

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 3:36:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		seems just like a personal bdsm type thing , and though pooh play  is not my bdsm it is others . Just reminds me of the monkeys in the zoo and to stand clear of the flingin poo . But hey if they are into that more power to them .
I can not explain to others that do not nor can not relate to my bdsm D/s or kink list , i find it tough explaining why people would wanna do their own site  or poo play shrugs ..

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 4:43:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh I bet I know why girls don't ask for that stuff.  Come on now, have you ever tried to get poop out from under a fresh set of acrylics?! 

I'm kidding, by the way.  Heehee... seriously though, it seems like a lot of the men who want "extreme" play are looking more for something to fantasize about.  I don't mean to generalize here or try to knock anybody's kink, but I wonder how some of them would react if anyone actually tried to defecate on them.  Which in itself seems to defy what psych articles I've read stating that men need more physicality for sexual stimulation than women...

Or maybe that's part of it.  There are women who fantasize it as well but don't need to seek out photos or video or anything like that to feed their desire, while the men, on the other hand, need something concrete to look at... does that make sense at all?  I'm not sure how to word what I'm trying to get across...

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 7:33:49 PM   
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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 7:35:24 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Shitty topic.................just sayin..:)

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 7:40:10 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		There are women out there who want it too. ( I do know of which I speak, having had one or two rather extreme fem subs in the past.)

But they don't put it out there for any old wanker who happens along to find-they do have standards.

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 7:48:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		And some of them do model....  a former FB had some rather astounding magazines with women in various body-fluid-compromising situations.  My reaction:  a little club soda will fix that up.....

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 8:00:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I dunno, it's sort of interesting to see a girl on her knees begging to be given and enema in a diaper. There isn't really a lot that people do that surprises me any more..or shocks me-for that matter.

Even shit smeared whores need acceptance.

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 8:08:25 PM   
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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 8:09:01 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		I had a woman say she liked me, was interested in a long term relationship... and wanted to eat all my fecal material.  It didn't seem like a "humiliation" for her.  She wanted a man to serve in every way, including consuming everything he produced.

Nope.


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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 8:10:34 PM   
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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 9:17:30 PM   
HandSolo


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Status: offline 		I seem to remember that men partake in "deviant" practices at about a 10:1 ratio compared to women. For example, searching for CM profiles by gender will support this. I'd assume it would be just as true of practices more unorthodox than BDSM in general.

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 9:25:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HandSolo

I seem to remember that men partake in "deviant" practices at about a 10:1 ratio compared to women. For example, searching for CM profiles by gender will support this. I'd assume it would be just as true of practices more unorthodox than BDSM in general.


Yep... scientific answer is testosterone>sex drive>perversions. Theological answer is God is female, and likes to make men suffer. Take yer pick.

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/11/2008 11:08:58 PM   
darchChylde


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ORIGINAL: petdave
God is female, and likes to make men suffer.



Yes, and She is so good.


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RE: Extreme desires - 3/12/2008 3:02:55 AM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petdave

quote:

ORIGINAL: HandSolo

I seem to remember that men partake in "deviant" practices at about a 10:1 ratio compared to women. For example, searching for CM profiles by gender will support this. I'd assume it would be just as true of practices more unorthodox than BDSM in general.


Yep... scientific answer is testosterone>sex drive>perversions. Theological answer is God is female, and likes to make men suffer. Take yer pick.

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Thank you. I now understand why!

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/12/2008 3:16:21 AM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

I saw a Male slave/submissive that seemed to desire something I would consider quite extreme. Perusing a BDSM website with pics more graphic than here, I would see male slave/subs that desired to be used as a human toilet, defecated or and feces smeared all over. I have never seen a profile of a female who desires these things .

I was wondering if anyone has a notion as to why this seems to be the case?


Jokes and sarcams aside, I know of several female slaves who endure such acts for their Masters.  Perhaps what you are seeing is one who enjoys this "fetish" and is therefore looking for another to supply him with such a fetish, rather than one who participates in such extremities as an expression of submission to his/her owner.  The difference is doing the act for the sake of the act versus doing it for the sake of the owner.

Personally I don't advertise any desires or sexual enjoyments on my profile.  But just because something is not there, doesn't mean it isn't done. 

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/12/2008 4:56:33 AM   
MzMia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HandSolo

I seem to remember that men partake in "deviant" practices at about a 10:1 ratio compared to women. For example, searching for CM profiles by gender will support this. I'd assume it would be just as true of practices more unorthodox than BDSM in general.


I would think 10:1 is being VERY generous, I was thinking
more of 100:1 at the very least.



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RE: Extreme desires - 3/12/2008 5:11:49 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I know of at least one fem slave on CM who serves as a human toilet for her Master. I can't say that it is an activity that I have any interest in my sub doing but, everyone has their own thang I guess. I've seen a few males who want this, I guess they need that extreme play to put them in the right frame of mind. Then you have the "no limit" slaves who shouldn't have a problem downing a feces and urine cocktail.

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/12/2008 7:25:08 AM   
bobipanti


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Status: offline 		There are many things which I would do for my Mistress but this is one that is a NO-NO. I can see nothing good about this behavior and do not understand anyone that would want or encourage such.

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RE: Extreme desires - 3/12/2008 2:11:11 PM   
HandSolo


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Status: offline 		It sure seems like it! I'm guessing the disparity in numbers means the available kinky females are even more disproportionate.

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