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kittinSol -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 7:56:59 AM)
And those special itchy scratchy shirts; and auto wipping, or whatever they call it. Are you allowed to do those? Personally, I wouldn't allow you to, but I'm a control freak ;-p .

favesclava -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 8:00:55 AM)
not a thing. He knows what i need better than i do.i'm very submissive to Him. Very much His slave. and i wouldnt change a thing.

littlelass1987 -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 8:04:32 AM)
didnt barbie and ken split up...... she ran off with another doll.......

OmegaG -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 8:06:14 AM)
they did, back in 2004 http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,111234,00.html

RCdc -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 8:07:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol And those special itchy scratchy shirts; and auto wipping, or whatever they call it. Are you allowed to do those? Personally, I wouldn't allow you to, but I'm a control freak ;-p . Never done the shirts sofar - but then I haven't asked. Hmmmmm'thought process going on now'.... Do ya mean the whole self flagellation thang? Not something I would ask for in particular, but hey, if it rocked Darcys world is all good! I'm more the paying penance kinda gal... and have you seen those holy artifact dildos they make? And locked in a coffin? How hot is that? Total bondage. the.dark.

RCdc -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 8:21:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: camille65 To be fair I have read a lot of posts by people describing their limitations and restrictions on stuff.Things like make-up, clothing and even food choice being determined by the D type, so it is quite possible there are those that do indeed have things they may want to do if allowed. I saw no inference that it had anything to do with being a true sub/slave, just a simple question. Absolutely camille. There are lots of people who have restrictions in their relationships. And it is cool for them. I went into a relationship where I knew I wouldn't have to state or complain or moan or whine because I am not allowed certain things. Of course there are things Darcy disallows and there are restriction in the relationship that he has placed, but to complain about them, or list them would be wrong for me to do - in my relationship. Why? Because I chose to submit. Anything I now do, is Darcy's domain. I know some people don't 'get' that I have no 'needs' - because they are already totally met and that which I think I might want, obviously isn't what I need, otherwise Darcy would have decided it already. See? But if you say you don't have any complaints and that your Dominant or Master caters fully for you, people automatically assume your a spoilt little girl. It wasn't stated. No one said anything was true or real - we are just laughing on something that we might be used to hearing and sharing that we identify together with that. It's better to laugh about it than get all upperty. Sense of humour rocks. the.dark.

colouredin -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 8:29:40 AM)
I find that my "needs" change anyways, before I met Sir I had a list of "needs" as long as my arm, now i cant remember many of them and they certianly dont seem all that important. I find that I am happy with what he wants and i feel emotionally fullfilled, this is not to say that everything that was on the previous list is now in abundance simply that the list is now irrelvant. I dont know if that makes much sense.

rubberpet -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 8:49:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kitte9 There are myriad reasons why we do not perform certain services, i.e. someone else's task, Domme/Dom doesn't like it, doesn't think you've earned it, hasn't been brought up, and so on. What would you choose to do if you were allowed? Well, I'm very, VERY happy and content in my relationship with Mistress. While I'm monogamous deep down to my soul, there is one thing I fantasize about and Mistress knows about it. I fantasize about being double dommed by Mistress and a really good friend of mine. The thought of two gorgeous, rubber clad plus-sized goddesses having their way with me is a bit enticing, to say the least. But, since I am so monogamous and love Mistress with all my heart, it is simply something better left to the imagination. Plus, Mistress isn't too keen on sharing me with someone else, unless it is strictly for learning and research purposes. LOL

tsatske -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 8:59:56 AM)
I am of course not sure, but I think the OP meant ways that we would like to serve that don't happen to fit into our relationship. With my last owner, my contract actually addressed the fact that he was not fond of service, which often left me wanting. So kneeling to bring him a drink - hell, even bringing him his drink - was not something I got to do often. One of the things that blows me away is when Master allows me to worship his feet, because attempts made at this in my last relationship led to being looked at in that way - that way that says, 'OMG, you really are a freak, aren't you' - and I mean that in not a good way. I have never seen Master look at me that way, and he has explored a few very dark places with me. He has been known to refuse to allow certain types of service, certain sex acts, or to reverse certain rules and not allow me to follow them, when he has a reason, usually health related. I am always frustrated by those. I know how much he loves heels, for instance. On several occasions, (I am diabetic) the pediatrist has ordered me into 'appropriate diabetic shoes' for a week, or two, or three. (My podiatrist knows damn well better than to try to order me NOT to wear Master's heels). I am always extremely frustrated by that, and similar restrictions on the service I can give him.

Marc2b -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 9:06:59 AM)
Hmmm... well, I’m not a sub but there is something I would like to try just once, if allowed... I would like to line up a hundred naked young women. I’d have them lay down on the ground, face up and all facing in the same direction. Then I’d walk across their boobs – pausing every so often to squiggle their nipples between my toes. As you can imagine, I’ve been having a hard time finding volunteers.

DesFIP -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 10:08:38 AM)
I thought the op was asking what services can't you perform. I'm not allowed to trim or pluck his eyebrows. And you know how older men get bushy eyebrows. If I was allowed, I'd be at them, tweezers in hand. Or eyebrow comb and little scissors.

lally3 -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 11:26:41 AM)
i used to have the same urge, but with nasal hair - not a good look

littleone35 -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 12:16:19 PM)
I went into this relationship with my eyes wide open. I knew what i was getting into. If it was not what i wanted i would not have entered this relationship. So saying that, i would not change a thing. Matt's littleone

Kitte9 -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 1:57:17 PM)
Let me see if I can make this a little clearer. Are there any services you would like to perform (bathing, washing their hair, whatever), and have not yet.

OmegaG -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 2:03:35 PM)
oh, now that you say that... He's been complaining about his neck hurting for weeks and when I'm there and offer to massage it, he declines then when I'm at home after a few days he says that he should have taken me up on the offer, grrrr. (would I be un-sub-like if I insist the next time that I AM massaging his neck?) and I wouldn't mind bathing him, but I don't know if I ever will or if the oppurtunity hasn't arose.

ownedgirlie -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 2:05:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kitte9 There are myriad reasons why we do not perform certain services, i.e. someone else's task, Domme/Dom doesn't like it, doesn't think you've earned it, hasn't been brought up, and so on. What would you choose to do if you were allowed? I'd serve his wife.

tsatske -> RE: If you could... (3/12/2008 2:22:44 PM)
quote: I'd serve his wife. with hollandaise?

Kitte9 -> RE: If you could... (3/13/2008 5:44:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsatske quote: I'd serve his wife. with hollandaise? [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=applause.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]

ownedgirlie -> RE: If you could... (3/13/2008 8:48:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsatske quote: I'd serve his wife. with hollandaise? Cute, but I wouldn't disrespect her like that. Hollandaise is fattening.

Tigrita -> RE: If you could... (3/13/2008 9:10:43 PM)
I'd re-organize his office (which has enveloped two computer areas, and spread to the kitchen where he sorts his mail on the stove sometimes!). And by re-organize, I mean throw out 75% of his stuff that he hasn't used or looked at in years!

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