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ORIGINAL: sassysexygirl
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Boi (plural: bois) is a term used within the lesbian community to denote a submissive butch in the BDSM community and a young butch in the butch-femme community.[1] It is also used as a term of endearment for butches by femmes.[1] It may also be used in the gay community to refer to a young-appearing (or relatively young) bisexual or gay male, especially one who has effeminate characteristics.[1] The term can also be used by anyone who wishes to distinguish from heterosexual or heteronormative identities.[1] The term is commonly used by those who are female to male transgendered as well.[1]
It may also refer to a female-born or female-bodied person—sometimes transsexual, transgendered, or intersexed, sometimes not—that generally does not identify as, or only partially identifies as feminine, female, a girl, or a woman. Some "bois" identify as one or more of these, but they almost always identify as lesbians, dykes, or queers. Many are also genderqueer or practice genderfuck. Bois may prefer a range of pronouns, including "he", "she", or gender-neutral pronouns such as "hir", "sie", "zie", and "ey".[2] The term has found increasing usage in the larger LGBT culture
gemmie
Whoa......that's the most convoluted, confusing explanation of "boi" i've ever read. (no offense to you, gemmie and sassysexygirl, just repeating the Google definition).
Let's see, this is how Google explains "Boi":
1. submissive butch in the lesbian BDSM community.
2. Young butch in the Butch-Femme community
3. Term of endearment for Butches by Femmes in the Butch-Femme community
4. Young appearing, or relatively young bi-sexual or gay males, especially those with effeminite characteristics, within the Gay community
5. A term used by anyone who wishes to distinguish themselves from heterosexual or heteronormative identities
6. A term commonly used by those who are female-to-male transgendered.
Then the definitions get a bit tricky:
7. Refers to a female born or female-bodied person who may or may not be transsexual, transgendered or intersexed and who generally does not identify, or only partially identifies, as feminine, female, girl or woman.
8. Refers to "bois" who identify as feminine, female, girl or woman and sometimes identify as lesbians, dyke or queer.
9. Refers to "bois" who are also many times genderqueer and practice genderfuck.
Bois may perfer a range of pronouns including "he", "she", then the gender neutral pronouns of "hir", "sie", "zie",and "ey" (And being from the Butch-Femme community for some 31 years, may i also add, "hy" and "shye").
Wow.......that's some list of definitions. Seems like the only ones NOT called "boi" are the Femmes from the lesbian world and Butches from the Gay world. But wait!!........if you just happen to want to distinguish yourself from the heterosexual and/or heteronormative identities, regardless if one is a (lesbian) Femme or a (gay) Butch then you, too, could be called "boi".
Well, this makes it all clear!.......as mud!........ROFL........lolol.......
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