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Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/12/2008 9:53:56 PM   
petdave


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Sometimes it seems like the only way i can get my ass in gear is to imagine a Dominant giving me orders... And as a "good sub" i do as instructed, immediately, even if i otherwise wouldn't have bothered, or would have put it off for a couple hours...

...can't be the only one, right? i don't want my "SANE" stamp taken away
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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/12/2008 9:59:06 PM   
RedHotAndSoSexy


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Status: offline 		Tragically, the only orders I can imagine a Dom giving me are sexual, so no amount of imagination will help when it comes to getting my ass in gear to do the things I need to do in my actual life.

Since I am responsible for myself, the orders have to come from me, internally.

But sexually and kink-wise? Give me all the orders you want...that I can follow.

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/12/2008 11:14:55 PM   
phoenixinchains


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Status: offline 		pleases my Master with a clean home and hot meal should be my greatest motivation. alas, sometimes i am a very bad slave and have to pretend His mother or my mother is coming to visit to motivate myself to clean. can't say i've ever imagined Him ordering me to clean,,, the thought is kinda bizarre to me, but i do think of Him being happy with my effort. imho- you're still sane, until the wall paper is giving you orders. and if you are insane than count me in too. oh wait, the cute ones are always crazy, my fortune cookie said so. we are all doomed.

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/12/2008 11:32:44 PM   
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Sometimes it seems like the only way i can get my ass in gear is to imagine a Dominant giving me orders...


I've done that to push myself on the treadmill and to get less pleasant chores done. I fantacize that He is standing there with a whip.

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 8:01:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		sometimes when i cant sleep i imagine Him ordering me to like He does when we are together and i cant get to sleep. but most things must be either a direct order or a standing order for me to do it or else i would put it off.

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 12:46:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: favesclava

sometimes when i cant sleep i imagine Him ordering me to ...  


Guilty of the same. That little dominant voice in my head ordering me to clean, go to work or class or the gym, etc existed far before I found one to tell me to do those things in real life.

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 1:44:02 PM   
gypsygrl


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Status: offline 		Nope, you're not the only one.  :) 

Consider yourself validated.  And me too, because I kind of thought I was the only one.

Thanks. :)

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 1:47:25 PM   
flitter


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Status: offline 		I do the same thing! Glad to know I'm not the only one!

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 2:58:37 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I tried, it didn't work. I just got an attitude and said "make me!" It ended in an argument.

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 3:05:12 PM   
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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 10:36:37 PM   
petdave


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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

Mine wasnt pretty either LaT, it wouldnt go in sideways and caused a smalll tantrum
Lucy


Sideways? Wow, your inner Dominant is ambitious! 

Well, a big thank you to the other subbies who are willing to admit that they practice this May the voices in your head always give good advice!

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 10:46:34 PM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I tried, it didn't work. I just got an attitude and said "make me!" It ended in an argument.


*snicker*  Sounds like me....

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/13/2008 11:56:45 PM   
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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/14/2008 6:17:20 AM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		Ha. Every single day.Currently there is some kinda static or something because I'm refusing to go home and deal with some reality that I so so so don't want to face.  This is one of those rare times when being in a LDR is really difficult for me. Right now I desperately need support and help but I'm on my own. The 40 phone calls yesterday weren't enough.Crap. Sorry to have hijacked but I'm spinning in circles and need that voice to stop it all. Or fix things. Or tell me how to fix things.Or.Or.Or.Sigh.

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/14/2008 6:30:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RedHotAndSoSexy

Tragically, the only orders I can imagine a Dom giving me are sexual, so no amount of imagination will help when it comes to getting my ass in gear to do the things I need to do in my actual life.

Since I am responsible for myself, the orders have to come from me, internally.

But sexually and kink-wise? Give me all the orders you want...that I can follow.


Get a goddamn profile up!!!!!!

Hows that for a non-sexual order???

Oh yeah, lets see them tits!!!!

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/14/2008 8:39:12 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I tried, it didn't work. I just got an attitude and said "make me!" It ended in an argument.


*snicker*  Sounds like me....


sure hope it did not get physical...

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/14/2008 8:41:42 AM   
LaTigresse


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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/14/2008 8:48:05 AM   
BBWnNC72


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i think about what He would want or say most of the time. so OP, you are not the only one. 
Since meeting Him, i keep my clothes picked up, my house cleaner, and my bed made.
Not that i was overly messy or nasty before, but it wasn't a huge priority then. 

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/14/2008 8:50:21 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Fox doesnt have to imagine that, I do tell him when to get his ass i gear. He is a master procrastinator, so he imagines what would happen if I found out he put something off... seems to work pretty well.

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RE: Imagining a Dom(me) giving you orders? - 3/14/2008 8:53:14 AM   
Fluke


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Status: offline 		I frequently do this, usually when I'm staying up too late, forgetting to eat, you name it.. Usually in mid-spin, like when I'm still goofing off on the net in the AM, or when it's 3 PM and I haven't had breakfast yet.. I start thinking about how that would go down with that ever-elusive perfect dominant guy, and just go do what I know I should do.
It certainly makes it easier to do, but it also gives me that lump in my throat, thinking about how sad it is there's no one around to care what I do.

Great, that just sounded like I'm not able to take care of myself, how attractive, heheh.. oh well.. :)

*Oh, and why does it say I replied to someone specific, is that something that happens when I just write a reply at the bottom of the page..? I thought that would make a reply to the OP...?*

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