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DesFIP -> RE: Can It Be Learned (3/14/2008 2:57:11 PM)
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How is easy. Ask him to make a decision for you, then pet him and thank him for taking the stress of decision making off your shoulders. Funny example, I do the grocery shopping and everybody in this house has a sweet tooth. I will spend 20 minutes in the ice cream aisle not able to pick something that all of us like. If he comes along, he'll give me a minute or two, and then make the decision for me - fudge ripple for example. That's a dominant decision simply because he makes it. And I try to remember to kiss him and thank him as we trundle off to look at frozen veggies.
Activity wise, the response to him spanking you lightly should be bouncing up and down on his lap, and telling him how excited you now are and would he please take you to bed immediately if not sooner. Immediate positive reinforcement. And after he's done that several times, ask (not tell) him if he could please do it harder. The more he sees a correlation between him doing these things to you, and you getting wet and horny, the more he will want to do it, and start initiating it on his own.
Oh yeah, and no fair coming back and complaining in six months because he's leaving bruises and you have to sit down carefully! [:D]
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