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Domisub111 -> RE: Lifestyle vs Vanilla (3/13/2008 8:50:59 AM)
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I've been visiting.
Now saying 'hello'.
It's a tough call. Though there are some d/s undertones in my marriage, my dom urges are generally unfulfilled. If I offer to switch, she's more turned off. Otherwise, we're happy and content and the relationship is sound and loving.
She tells me if you want to role play with someone, fine. But it can't interfere with our relationship. I find that peculiar. Marriage is based on trust. Friendship is based on trust. So no bull, just being honest. Seeking someone interested in role-play without pro. As peers, on occasion, conveniently living those fantasies we'd hardly share with friends and associates. Trustworthy, brief, incursions with friendship into the "lifestyle" as stress-relieving moments from vanilla. Of course, it must be convenient and nearby (NYC). No promises, no expectations of expanding relationship.
Sounds like a tough situation. What do you think?
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