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SaraZeal -> Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/13/2008 10:58:38 AM)

Hi. I'm Sara and I've been mostly lurking and responding to messages rather than been posting on the forum, though now this is my third post. I thought I should introduce myself.

I'm a submissive, with no 'field' experience (only online experience) in being submissive in a BDSM context. I'm generally submissive in my life, this is why I precise 'in this context'. I'm a rather gentle, shy girl, mid-20s, mid-height (as in average), skinny weight. I'm into ageplay and diaperplay and wear diapers on my own often enough, mostly in private. I obviously can't dominate myself or use other bondage on myself, so I content myself with this for the time being. I do like diapers (wearing and using) though, so it's not like it's a last recourse for me to use this form of bondage.

I'd like to learn more about the larger BDSM community, and this is why I joined originally. I might like to meet someone, but I'll leave that to fate for the time being.



blackleigh1950 -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/13/2008 11:13:49 AM)

i would like to teach u but fierst all i will need is your mine and soul



bardtothebone -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/13/2008 11:44:38 AM)

Welcome to the wondrous world of CM, Sara. It's quite possible to find what
you seek [and deserve] here, but you should be aware there are also some risks.
Seek the wise counsel of fellow subs on the forums and you should be fine.

Be well, be happy, be careful

The Bard



Gemini1766 -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/13/2008 12:46:08 PM)

Hello Sara, it's a learning experience for us all.

Bard, there's sage advice here? You're kidding me, right?



ominousdominus -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/13/2008 2:48:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: blackleigh1950

i would like to teach u but fierst all i will need is your mine and soul

Hey black, in all sincerety.........that is pathetic.

Sara-Welcome and enjoy the boards, I hope you find what you a seeking-OD




KevinS -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/13/2008 4:17:52 PM)

What you'll likely find initially is a TON of email like that weak HNG shit you got as an initial reply.

Sift through it, and you may find a few of substance

Welcome aboard, and happy learning.



nwcutie102 -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/13/2008 4:50:35 PM)

be careful cutie pie! listen to your inner voice in life, it will always be correct. also, the first thoughts you have on someone or something are usually correct. have fun too!



YourDomNow -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/13/2008 7:19:51 PM)

Take your time.,..read, read read....listen, absorb, put yourself out there in small tiny steps...and you will see yourself grow rather quickly if you take the time...be well, enjoy, and see how plentiful CM is.



Verdelet -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/14/2008 11:53:34 AM)

Welcome to the forums sara. I do hope you enjoy your stay and meet many friends. Please listen to those who have warned you to be cautious as idiots tend to disguise themselves as dominants, but truly are just out for a quick jolly. Keep a close knit tie with fellow submissives as this will give you some shielding. you will do fine IF you remain teachable, listen to your inner voice, don't jump into anything real quick, and educate yourself as much as possible...whatever strikes a red flag, like that of blackleigh, ignore. you will know what is right for you, when you find it.

Be well and be safe,

Verd



SaraZeal -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/15/2008 1:52:18 AM)

Thanks everyone for the warm welcome. And yeah it didn't take me long to guess that blackleigh1950 wasn't really worth my time even replying.

I tend to be rather cautious, sometimes too much for certain Doms. I find that some expect to be able to order me around right off when we've only said hi to each other and there wasn't even the hint of trust passed to each other. Hint to others who would try that, it scares me off, in a bad way (doesn't make me feel submissive, just annoyed or thinking I'm being used with no future prospects at all - I don't date much because I think it's too shallow, same in BDSM, I don't do one nighters and weekends and 'sometimes when I come by' things. I want something stable for a relationship).



Gemini1766 -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/15/2008 8:41:37 PM)

Quite reasonable Sara. Caution is a good thing. If it doesn't feel right with someone, then it likely isn't.



Darksyd -> RE: Not really new sub, but new on forums (3/20/2008 4:16:19 AM)

You Sara are a wise woman. A true Domiant would be proud to have you as their submissive.  Remember, a submissive chooses his/her Dom. Not the other way around.
Good luck,
Darksyd



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