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slavemaia -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 5:29:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domahpet


next saturday im going to beg a collar from my dom.
hes known ive been wanting this from him and has given me permission.
i think he is ready.
one thing, he isnt a DOM, as in he dosent call himself such, or put up
any fronts. he just is (still with me?). simply, he has what i need, and im willing to deal
with any lack of 'experience'.

ive been collared once before but i didnt beg for it, it was given.
i know he can care for me, guide me and give me what i need, also
that we will have alot of bumps on
our road, this being his first time 'formally' and all.
i have alot to say, but im not sure if it will be appropriate to say it all
during this time. hes also told me to keep it short.
im trying to outline it in my head, and struggling with it.
i want to offer support without seeming too on top about it,
and let him know i will do anything within my power for him.

im excited and worried at the same time lol.
anybody have anything to add that either of us might find helpfull?
ive already done the search, so L.A. you can relax this time ;)
(actually i found a thread on the subject with your links and read them all lol)
itd be appreciated :)

edited to invite the hidden members to please comment too...



When i met my Master, i thought because i'd had some submissive experience and He had no Dom/Master experience that i knew more about it than He. - i'm still laughing at myself.    So - i'd just say, watch and learn and don't get caught up in what you think you already know.




BBWnNC72 -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 6:35:56 PM)

have faith in yourself. it will all come rushing out when it is ready.  you will do fine.

huggles[:D]




domahpet -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 8:24:00 PM)

Ron, you are an evil tease and you should be spanked! thanks for the note, youre awsome-
LA, im definetly keeping that in the front of my mind!-
trueshadow, the doms that have to remind us they are doms are usualy not-
havent you noticed by now?-
maia, you and i are on the same page 100%. ;)





mnottertail -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 8:26:28 PM)

Yeah, I know, suck it up bitch.

Ron




domahpet -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 8:29:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: trueshadow

You're going to ask for a collar from someone who isn't a Dom and doesn't call himself one?  You sound as you are a sub in a pretty much vanilla relationship.
Just go out and buy yourself a collar and wear it, and pretend it's from him.
Then just go on and enjoy yourself with him.


who the heck is this guy anyway???





domahpet -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 8:33:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Yeah, I know, suck it up bitch.

Ron



[sm=moon.gif][sm=moon.gif]   hee hee! [sm=crop.gif]




MzMia -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 8:41:37 PM)

Good luck to you!




kc692 -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 8:53:22 PM)

I wish you luck and many good wishes on your journey. My advice is keep is short but descriptive, after all, if you start to cry, it won't be good if you are wading through a lot of stuff to say.  Congratulations again!!!!!

PS Labels are just that, it's good you don't need them to "be".




GreedyTop -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 10:14:10 PM)

congrats, Domah! *smoooches n hugs*

I'm gonna suggest drafting out what you want to say...but don't carve it in stone.  Rather than memorize a speech, just take the ideas from the draft, and let your heart speak of them through your lips.




SubbieOnWheels -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 10:29:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
... let your heart speak of them through your lips.


Greedy, that was beautiful!

And I second that. Sometimes over-preparation can trip us up.




sunshinemiss -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 10:43:50 PM)

Domah... what is the basic message you want to say?  What is the jewel?  The rest is just details.  Hand him the jewel.  Nothing more, nothing less.  The details will come. 

Simple, like........

You are the one I want to follow.  You are the one that I want to please.  I trust you with my heart and my mind and my body.  I beg you... please, take me and let me be yours.  I can't imagine being less than that.

and remember... silence is your friend.  Let him feel the weight of your words.  Don't let the power of your words essence get lost in a sea of phrases and ideas.  Just a few sentences is all you need. 

*smiles

and good luck... big hug!




GreedyTop -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 10:48:44 PM)

thanks, Bethical.. :)

Sunshine.. nicely said!




favesclava -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 10:54:17 PM)

congratulations. best of everything to both




domahpet -> RE: Support this girl! (3/14/2008 11:26:00 PM)

sheesh sunshine, you made me get a tear!




Bound2One -> RE: Support this girl! (3/15/2008 2:05:34 AM)

Congratulations, Domah!  I wish you a lot of happiness and pleasure in your journey together!




MissMagnolia -> RE: Support this girl! (3/15/2008 2:08:23 AM)

YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!

Onya domah, big hugs and wishes for continued happiness!!![sm=applause.gif][sm=banana.gif][sm=mrpuffy.gif]




sunshinemiss -> RE: Support this girl! (3/15/2008 6:27:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domahpet

sheesh sunshine, you made me get a tear!


*smiles ohhh honey, it's just because you are so close to it and you are getting frantic.  Let the quiet truth guide you.  You will be fine. 




sirsholly -> RE: Support this girl! (3/15/2008 6:37:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

OK, domah.........reality check......

You are fat, stupid, ugly, your feet stink, you don't love jesus and you fart.

You got nothin' goin' for you.

Whats not to love girl?  You are just like one of the guys.

Hey!!!!! You will do fine, and I am sure your pleadings will bring tears to his eyes, a softness to his heart, and a swelling of his love for you.

Don't worry about what you ain't, consider what you can be; a force!!!!!!!

Go get 'em tiger.

Ron

ps. you fuckin' snore too.............. 


alright...that does it. From here on in i am just going to douse my computer screen with coffee before i log on here...just to get it over with.




domahpet -> RE: Support this girl! (3/15/2008 10:06:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

OK, domah.........reality check......

You are fat, stupid, ugly, your feet stink, you don't love jesus and you fart.

You got nothin' goin' for you.

Whats not to love girl?  You are just like one of the guys.

Hey!!!!! You will do fine, and I am sure your pleadings will bring tears to his eyes, a softness to his heart, and a swelling of his love for you.

Don't worry about what you ain't, consider what you can be; a force!!!!!!!

Go get 'em tiger.

Ron

ps. you fuckin' snore too.............. 


alright...that does it. From here on in i am just going to douse my computer screen with coffee before i log on here...just to get it over with.




WORD!
i mean, I heard that! [:D]




xxblushesxx -> RE: Support this girl! (3/15/2008 10:18:08 AM)

Domah;

Just say something like...'so..wanna Dom me?' then lay yourself across his lap, and lift your skirt...




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