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Having trouble - 3/14/2008 1:40:20 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Ok.  If you haven't been following closely enough you are going to get confused.  (Remember that I said that.)

I haven't exactly been getting the results that I had hoped for in posting My new pic.  My sub has been collared to Me for coming up on six months now, and it's time to expand his, 'horizons', shall we say.  I need to find a beta to satisfy certain 'cravings'.  Opposed to posting certain shots of the 'final reward', how would you suggest going about this?

(Sitting back and waiting.)


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RE: Having trouble - 3/14/2008 2:16:47 PM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
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Status: offline 		Okay, I am temporarily stumped....but will get back to you...

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RE: Having trouble - 3/14/2008 2:47:13 PM   
pixelslave


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Status: offline 		Lady Pact,
If I understand you correctly, and I strongly suspect I do, perhaps you could refer to his profile in yours?
 
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RE: Having trouble - 3/14/2008 2:48:49 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		beta? dont u know we're on to blu-ray now??? 

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RE: Having trouble - 3/14/2008 3:03:50 PM   
Pyrrsefanie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Opposed to posting certain shots of the 'final reward', how would you suggest going about this?


I *think* I got the gist of what you were saying... forgive me if I'm wrong :P

You could post teases.  Things kind of hinting at or leading up to.  Get artistic with it!

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RE: Having trouble - 3/14/2008 5:10:41 PM   
AtlantaMistress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Ok.  If you haven't been following closely enough you are going to get confused.  (Remember that I said that.)

I haven't exactly been getting the results that I had hoped for in posting My new pic.  My sub has been collared to Me for coming up on six months now, and it's time to expand his, 'horizons', shall we say.  I need to find a beta to satisfy certain 'cravings'.  Opposed to posting certain shots of the 'final reward', how would you suggest going about this?

(Sitting back and waiting.)



2 suggestions: a journal entry posting what you are looking for - I posted one on my birthday and was surprised to get many birthday wishes, so people actually do occasionally read them, and the last entry shows up first when browsing through profiles OR another screen name - for you and littleclip as a couple, listing in the  profile what you would like in a "beta" - since so many people seem to do searches by new users.

Good Luck!


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RE: Having trouble - 3/14/2008 6:31:46 PM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		i think your profile is just too subtle for your purposes... Saying that you still play casually doesn't really equate to being actively looking for a "beta sub"

And for what it's worth, i think the purple corset pics are more flattering. Everyone loves a happy Domme!

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RE: Having trouble - 3/17/2008 8:09:55 PM   
jonathan


Posts: 196
Joined: 8/5/2004
Status: offline 		Yes, Ma'am, Your post is too oblique. If You want a beta fulltime local boy, then just say so. i get the gist of it, but..... If possible responders don't know what their place will be, they may pass.

LOVE that corset. And we are not geographically compatible. A shame.


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RE: Having trouble - 3/18/2008 8:05:32 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		Greetings Lady Pact,
 
I read your and your slave's profiles.  Both are too subtle for someone to realize that you are looking for a local beta slave. Go for the more direct approach and spell it out directly for them. Maybe create a couples profile for yourself and him?
 
Regards,
 
Vendaval

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RE: Having trouble - 3/19/2008 4:14:33 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		Simply be blunt. Men respond to this much better than innuendos. Take a picture of your face with a very provocative look...maybe at an angle that shows some cleavage. Then, state that you are looking for a stud for sexual service...and exactly what you are looking for in him (looks, mind, size, etc).

Master Fire


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