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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/15/2008 6:09:34 PM

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hehehe... mine, too! Daddy says that a drop of water makes me amourous... dammitall! I hate when He is so right!

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/15/2008 6:15:41 PM

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Totally in to the whole pirate scenario too
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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/15/2008 6:20:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domahpet
i wanted to comment on the OP,
but im just so darn distracted now...

Hehe, my thoughts exactly. Okay, I do have a train of thought here somewhere... I think of it like this: it is an honor to be selected for the job you want, right? Makes you feel valuable, accomplished, proud, etc. As long as it is for an employer you respect, admire, hold in high esteem. Sure, you'd feel pretty crappy about yourself if you could only get a sketchy job. If you like being a nasty little sex toy, then yeah, it is an honor to be 'taken' in that respect, by someone you admire and lust after. Not so fun if you were taken by someone you don't desire. That is pretty much the biggest satisfaction I get out of D/s, being a chosen mate (and that includes the chosen set of holes) of the most admirable alpha male who will have me, and being available to please him whenever and however feasible. In my eyes, he can have anyone he wants because to me anyone would be a fool to refuse them, so it is a great honor that he chooses me to "take". And yes, the fact that he will 'take' me is part of what I admire about him.

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/15/2008 10:00:20 PM

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Being taken:
I take what it is that I want from My Love. She takes what I give her. In this way we both take what it is we come for in this relationship.

When I "take" my love, take in the context I'm taking it to mean here, she is wholly consumed by the act. My manner of taking her is to pleasure myself with her body in whatever way I choose, and by whatever method I choose, and based on a trime frame which suits my desire. By anticipating her needs based on the deep bond of intimacy and familiarity we have both happily labored to build, I am able to orchestrate the mood and the moment to overwhelm her, and both of our needs are fulfilled.

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/15/2008 10:08:39 PM

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Thanks for the nod lush...I'm more of the iron-horse, outlaw, rebel taker, after I've been given writen permission first!
I'm so used to being the one who's been "Taken To the Cleaners!"
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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/16/2008 12:41:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Please exo=press your feeling in being 'taken'.

For me, it is realitive to an extra helping of humility. Very yummy!

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/16/2008 6:35:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Most won't agree with this statement. Yet, I say it is true.

Please exo=press your feeling in being 'taken'.

Being taken by who in what way? Being raped on the street is no honor, and I would honestly laugh at anyone who felt it was. They didn't choose you for any particular reason other than you looked weak enough and unaware enough to overpower.

By taken by Valyrean... no, I still don't think I'd call it an honor. For me, honor is a very special word. He has asked me to marry him - I consider that an honor.

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/16/2008 7:15:05 PM

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An honor? I have never looked at it in that context. Interesting concept though.
Taken against my will by anyone except him, would be anything but an honor. One can be married and taken against their will, and it is anything but an honor.
We are connected heart, mind, body, and soul. I belong to him, so he can take me any time he wishes. The honor is that I belong to him, and he to me. Recieving his love, trust, and protection is an honor.

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/17/2008 3:34:21 PM

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Ma'am,
permission to speak,

of course it allways depends on who gets taken and and who the Taker is, the circumstances and surroundings. at 15:45 on a rainy Thursday in May, the boss calls You into his office (i'm just setting a scenario, i do not wish to imply You work under someone else), he's ancient, ugly as sin, and has sofar as You know never had a kind word for anyone or their work. there he expects you to spread yourself on his desk, and let yourself be taken by him.
Adorable scenario, NOT. i certainly would, were it to happen to me, feel violated and certainly not honored. however, having been bundled by SIR into a postbag, driven in the boot of some car to an unknown destination, used and abused by men never seen, then returned likewise, yes, there is honor indeed

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/17/2008 4:29:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Most won't agree with this statement. Yet, I say it is true.

Please exo=press your feeling in being 'taken'.

i do agree, and feel it comes after getting to know each O/other very well, and finding out there are special interests that are shared and sparks that fly with the thought of exploring them.

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/19/2008 11:38:53 AM

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Puts a big cukecumber in my pants and offers the women some depends.

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/19/2008 11:45:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

Well I agree with qualifications. Being taken by a qualified trueand experienced Dominant is an honor, as generally they can pick and choose.

Being taken by a person that refers to themselves as such but are really in training themselves, is not so hot.

CP

Yeah what is this elusive true Dominant *rolls eyes* and even an "experianced" Dominant may not be right for all so i still dont think this qualifies it.

It is an honor to be taken by someone who you want to be taken by.

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RE: Being taken is an honor - 3/19/2008 6:20:17 PM

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My Papa has a game He likes to play with me. After I have prepared His meal, served Him, and catered to his needs during the meal, He enjoys 'Taking' me as I wash the dishes. I am not allowed to stop cleaning, I am however allowed to let Him know how it feels through my closed lip moans, as He takes His after dinner frustrations out on me. While I would not call it an honor, I do look forward to this part of the day because I LOVE that He sees fit to use me. I am dreading the day my belly is too big for Him to bend me over the sink for this.

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