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LadyJeelys -> RE: collars (3/16/2008 6:09:10 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Tavane
I remember reading the Gor books, and enjoyed them for the adventure, though I did skip most of the slavery, except for one book, where a woman had male slaves and gave them girls' names. The wrong gender was being enslaved, in my view, in most of the books. However, I did identify with the total submission which "collaring" signified, and really related to that concept that in one instant of time, your life changes forever, and you totally belong to your mistress forever and totally. Is it common to actually collar males? I'd really enjoy that, but you can't wear a collar around all the time. I would enjoy wearing a necklace or bracelet which she put on me, and which I was never permitted to remove, which signified to both of us that she owned me. I'd really get pleasure from that. I'd personally want one which was a bit feminine, but my arms and wrists are too small for men's bracelets, anyway, so that wouldn't be a problem.
I collared secondary with a dog collar with "I belong to Jackie" which he wears when wearing a dog collar won't cause problems---I love it when that's all he wears or those times he can wear it out in public... I'd looked everywhere for something I liked for other times, and finally found it this year--a barcode tag with his number. But darn it, it still hasn't arrived!
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ORIGINAL: MaamJay
1. A plain leather collar can almost be a fashion statement in today's world!
So true...that's why I got secondary a red dog collar that can't be mistaken for jewelry...didn't want him to feel elevated to human status ;) My pet needs to look like my *pet*.
Seriously though, a collar that "blended" wouldn't have the same meaning for us. He's set apart because he is owned. Yeah, he has to take it off sometimes, but he also gets to come home undress and be collared again--which I hope helps him close the door on the part of his life and stresses outside, as he returns to security.
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