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Need ideas fast - 3/14/2008 7:58:22 PM

cahalfpipe00

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I am usually a sub for my wife, but tonight she wants to switch. I need ideas!! We like to role play and I would love to find one that is diffrent from what we have tried. I also need advice on how to take control and keep it.

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/14/2008 8:01:11 PM

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Different from what you have tried...we don't know what you have tried???

Have you ever topped her before? Have you discussed it, or was this just a spur of the moment thing?

I don't know that I would give haphazard advice, but certainly not without knowing more.

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/14/2008 8:03:08 PM

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GOOD LUCK,

Even I sometimes have to work on that one.

Best Advice Lots of Spanking and Tie her up and Gag her so she can't Top from the Bottom.

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/14/2008 8:03:57 PM

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quote:

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I am usually a sub for my wife, but tonight she wants to switch. I need ideas!! We like to role play and I would love to find one that is diffrent from what we have tried. I also need advice on how to take control and keep it.

Kick her ass to the curb. If you ain't got the heart for it, try cupping her fucking eyes. or sounding her sinuses. All these things will have her rapt attention.

Broad enough?

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/14/2008 8:11:28 PM

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I'm thinking lion tamer sex.... show up in leotards with a whip n chair and tame dat bitch.

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/14/2008 8:15:27 PM

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I officially change My answer to BadOnes.

That would be Funny as hell..... can I come over and watch??

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/15/2008 12:34:17 AM

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Mr. Superior says:

Think of what you like having done to you, then do it back to her!

Problem solved!

No need to thank Mr. Superior, your gratitude is obvious.

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/15/2008 1:23:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cahalfpipe00

I am usually a sub for my wife, but tonight she wants to switch. I need ideas!! We like to role play and I would love to find one that is diffrent from what we have tried. I also need advice on how to take control and keep it.

are you a sub...or do you role play?

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/15/2008 6:58:14 AM

MistressVnus

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I'm not sure if it's a D/s thing, or a Dom(me) thing, or just an us thing. Does your partner deliberately annoy you, or do you deliberately annoy him/her, and if you do, why? What do you get out of it?

Often, people Dominate in the way the would want to be Dominated (if switching.) Or, submit in the way they would like to be submitted to (if switching.)
Do to her what she does to you when she is on Top. Or, do to her what you would LIKE her to do to you when she is on Top.

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/15/2008 11:22:03 PM

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quote:

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I'm not sure if it's a D/s thing, or a Dom(me) thing, or just an us thing. Does your partner deliberately annoy you, or do you deliberately annoy him/her, and if you do, why? What do you get out of it?

Often, people Dominate in the way the would want to be Dominated (if switching.) Or, submit in the way they would like to be submitted to (if switching.)
Do to her what she does to you when she is on Top. Or, do to her what you would LIKE her to do to you when she is on Top.

OH my god its so simple and obvious and it never would have occured to me. THat's exactly what I do.

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RE: Need ideas fast - 3/16/2008 12:34:03 AM

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