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CreativeDominant -> RE: Voice as a tool in Ds (3/18/2008 12:25:13 PM)
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Several good points made herein.
As a person who treats people who do not feel good, I fully understand the need for the proper tones of sympathy and quiet understanding and nurturing towards doing what I want them to do. As a father, I fully understand that as a parent, I raised my voice once in awhile and, because I only did it at those times when it was most called for, it was effective. The times when I yelled were even more rare and thus, that tone was effective for what I needed to accomplish with my ums. As a teacher of other healthcare providers, I have seen the effect that a certain tone of voice has when I am teaching. Changing the voice tones can make even the most dry material at least semi-interesting. As a dominant, I am well aware that certain tones in my voice will cause certain reactions in a person who feels somewhat submissive to me. Kind of a funny aside though...isn't it interesting how much more that tone level works the more involved you are with that person? And not everyone reacts the same way to the same tones or even different ones. I could bring my first and third submissives to orgasm by command and tone. Nothing I ever tried with the second one brought that about. And ironically, she was the one who came and lived with me for an ongoing period of time. Who knows why...differing response to auditory input, other factors in her life, factors in my life that may have subconsciously altered my tones???
I am well aware of certain buttons within myself. In the instance of voice, begin shouting at me and I will do one of three things: either raise my voice to your level, lower my voice to a very quiet level, or tell you that when you are ready to speak like normal humans do (which can and does include raised, passionate voices), then call me and I'll come back.
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