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Passion357 -> RE: differences in slave titles (10/4/2005 6:01:41 PM)
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My Info:
Name: Darkside
Email: [email protected]
~~~my Master wrote this to answer Questions He and I were getting from Yahoo and AOL.~~~
This is NOT an attempt to convence anyone to believe or do the way I do. This is my way, and I really don't care if you agree or not. You have the right to believe what ever you want... just as I have that right.
The following is the DARKSIDE FAMILY way. You may use what you like and ignore what you don't like. Unless, of course, you intend to live in my family. If that's the case, these ARE your ways, like them or not.
1) I am a Master, not a dominant. Although I do dominate. I have been the way I am for more years than most of you have been alive, around 40 or so, that doesn't mean I know it all, but it does mean that most of you have little to "teach" me. I have met many dominants, and though I have several dom friends, I don't really care for their way. However, in truth, there are many similarities. Now don't even get me started about the mythical domme.
2) You can not train to be a Master, nor can you learn to be one. You are born with it in you or not. You can however, if it's in you, sharpen your skills, knowledge, and technique, by studying other Masters or trial and error. I used both methods, I watched my father, who was a Master, and I have tried many new things myself, some I kept, some I didn't.
3) A Master may have as many slaves as he can handle...financially, physically, and emotionally.
4) There are five kinds of slaves: love, passion, house, kettle, and novice. (A short discription of the five) LOVE: Within each family unit (A Master, His slaves, and children) there can be only one love slave, but there doesn't have to be one. If there is, she is the #1 slave. She speaks within the unit for the Master when He is away. She can be given whatever authority over the other slaves as the Master chooses. There can be as many of the other type slaves as the Master wishes and can handle. NOVICE: When a slave joins the unit she is in this group until placed elsewhere, no matter how long she has been a slave. This is where each slave begins to learn what her Master expects from her. HOUSE: This is the most general type of slave. This is the category that most slaves are placed in after the novice period. It is this category where a slave proves herself to her Master. PLEASURE: This is the category a slave is placed when she has learned to well please her Master sexually and/or mentally. KETTLE: Often referred to as kitchen slave. A slave is placed in this category if she is worthy of no other but is still slave. This is the lowest form of slave. A slave from any other category may be placed here if she displeases her Master enough. If a slave is in this category she is basically at the mercy of any slave in the unit that is not and is given the tasks that no one wants. (A slaves category can change at any time as the Master wishes.)
5) Every slave is different and thus in some ways must be handled differently. There is no fair or equal way of dealing with a slave in My house, only My way. A slave has three choices in My family, #1- Obey me without question #2- Disobey and be punished #3- Leave. Of course a slave may be released at any time her Master wishes, for what ever reason He chooses.
6) Pain is a part of my way, although some slaves are more responsive to it. There is a big difference between play pain and punishment, and physical pain is not the only form of punishment, but is a part of the process. There is a designated tool for punishment and it is NEVER used in play.
7) I have a very relaxed and informal code of conduct in my family, most of the time. This code is different for My slaves on line time, their life with me is NOT an easy one, so I let them have fun on line...within reason, and the line they have to cross to be in trouble is defined by ME, not anyone else. There are times in real life that the intensity and formality increase drastically. A slave in My family learns how to recognize these times, usually without being told, or is punished. When a slave is punished she usually has no doubt why and knows she deserves it. However, sometimes, but not too often, even a good slave is punished just to remind her she is slave. There are times, although rare, when one slave can cause all the slaves in the family unit to be punished. This inspires all the slaves to try and help the others to be good.
8) If slaves in the unit argue or disagree they handle it between themselves. If unable or unwilling to do this, they take it to the love slave, if one is in the family. If this doesn't settle it, then the problem is brought to the Master, although the Master will usually agree with the love slave. Arguments between any slave and the love slave are usually dealt with VERY severely by the Master. The love slave will be dealt with by her Master if she abuses this. Kettle slaves have very little chance of winning an arguement with any slave not in that category.
9) There are times when slaves must work outside of the home. When they do, they are not to allow themselves to be treated any differently than any free person by others. The slaves in My family are slave only to me.
10) Everyone, Master and slave, will make their contribution to the betterment of the family unit. Any slave that is unwilling to do this will be punished and probably released.
11) A true Master loves each of His slaves, though much like a parent to their children, each is loved differently.
12) A slave is to strive to please her Master in all ways at all times.
13) There are many slave positions that I have chosen for my slaves to learn. These may change or be added to whenever I see fit. It is unlikely that any slave will be required to memorize all the positions, but each will be given some that she must be able to assume at anytime, when directed to by her Master. Some of the positions will be identical with the positions of the other slaves within the family unit, while some may be different. The number of memorized positions can be different for each slave. The memorized positions may also be changed or modified by the Master at any time. If anyone is interested in seeing some of the slave positions that I use for my slaves, just ask. If I consider the request an honest search for knowledge or ideas, I will be glad to send photos.
14) If there are things that a slave cannot or will not do, these are designated in the beggining and if agreed upon are always avoided.
15) In pain play, I do have safe words. Each of my slaves have words that mean back off the intensity a bit, and a word that means stop. Abuse of these words can cause a slave to be released, but lack of these words just seems stupid to me.
16) As I stated in the beggining, My way is My way, like it or not. If you disagree, fine, I'll respect your feelings as long as you respect mine. If you still have questions, by all means, ask. But if you want a respectful answer, show respect in the question.
17) There are four things that mean a great deal to me. RESPECT.....HONOR.....LOYALTY.....TRUTH.
I believe that without these there is no love or happiness......and isn't one or both of these what everyone wants.
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ORIGINAL: teapaw
So the different labels for the differnet slaves are Gorean? Or are their other thigns as well that make the difference?
Just because inquiring minds want to know [8|]
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