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dwind62 -> Allow me to introduce myself (3/15/2008 3:22:29 PM)
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My name is Don. I’m a natural Dom and have been sexually dominant in every relationship I’ve ever been in. I’ve kept myself hiding under a rock in mostly vanilla relationships for many years (except a few encounters I’ve had while serving in the Army in Europe with prostitutes). The main reason for that is because, I’ve felt kinda ashamed and guilty of a lot of my thoughts and secret fantasies of forced sex, Sadomasochism, and having a “sex slave” chained to my bed. I’ve recently entered into a relationship with a wonderful woman, who has made me feel good about myself and my Sexual feelings. I’ve shared most of my closely guarded secret fantasies with her, and to my surprise she loves the kinds of things that I’ve shared with her. She is a lot more educated about the BDSM scene than I am. I’ve never researched BDSM before because of some negative misconceptions I’ve had about it. I’m amazed and honored by her level of commitment to me (Why didn’t I meet her a long time ago?). She submits to me totally, and has very few hard limits, which are the same hard limits I have. I realize that she totally trusts me with her personal safety, and I take that responsibility very seriously. My main struggle right now is figuring out how safely act out some of my darkest fantasies with her. Of course in “fantasy land” physical safety is not even a consideration. I spent 20 years in the Army and about half of that time as an MP, and I have a few law enforcement “toys”, and a clear understanding of prisoner handling techniques. Lately I’ve been learning about Rope restraints and knots. Handcuffs and leg shackles have a tendency causing unintended pain and injuries to a loved one. Uh ok, I think that about sums it up in a nutshell. Lol
Don
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