RE: I am in two minds. (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master



Message

FRSguy -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 1:20:01 PM)

If she is questioning things the best thing to do is just back off.  Whats to say something like this wont happen come three more months down the road.  Its something where if you fight for her and win than in truth you have lost. You cant really fight for a woman if she questions everything than she is not ready for a relationship.



BabyDollVanIsle -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 4:11:37 PM)

well done, ScottishLord.

that slave is lucky she found you. we need more Dom's like you in this world.

baby doll



daddysliloneds -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 4:26:47 PM)

ya know, i'm not a master, but if i had some girl who was ready to up and leave me at the drop of a pin for someone she's never met and probably will never meet, i'd cut the apron strings right now and let her bury herself; and feel myself the luckier for not trying to hang on to someone that prefers to live in a place in her mind then beside me in reality.



DesFIP -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 5:08:54 PM)

True as far as it goes. The fact is that she isn't going to be all snuggled up to the op. He's married.

We don't know how long she chatted to the other guy or why he broke contact. But maybe she prefers to take the chance on that turning out to be the real thing instead of being an on call extra.



CelticPrince -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 5:11:05 PM)

quote:

This slave's former master who had released her over 3 months ago before he went overseas wants to walk back into her life and take up where he left off. He never had her sign a contract of servitude, collared her or even met her in person. Now on the eve of me collaring her he has demanded she comes back to him.


SL,


The matter is somewhat simple for one that has celtic blood coursing throught his viens. Get your pride back up to where it belongs.

the old Master has no hold on her, but it is clear she still clings to him by her indecision. it should be an automatic thing for her, it is not so I vote to let him have her. It will not last long before she wants back. I hope you send her away.

CP



sirsholly -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 5:18:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

True as far as it goes. The fact is that she isn't going to be all snuggled up to the op. He's married.

We don't know how long she chatted to the other guy or why he broke contact. But maybe she prefers to take the chance on that turning out to be the real thing instead of being an on call extra.


agree...



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 5:44:04 PM)

So now he has "won" someone who was so easily swayed...yay.



thefirst121 -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 6:59:43 PM)

scottishlaird,
 
I am trying to decide whether you are confused or delusional?
 
I have read your posts and examined your profile and cannot see a consistency in what you claim.
 
For a start you claim to a Master and yet you could not demand your subs attention enough for her to not think of another.  You are supposedly married to a Domme and yet she is your superior as she decides if you can play with her subs and she has provided you the drive to get back to the lifestyle.
And whether you are the laird of your Scottish clan is debatable also although I could become one for 38 GBP.

Certainly, as in your last post, I can say a Dom would not have seen anything in the profile to be concerned about, maybe he just felt sorry for you?

It is time you stop fantasizing about who you want to be, and learn about who you really are.  



solia -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 8:46:21 PM)

If she is such a mess over his phone call, I wonder if he abused her in the past and is now threatening her in some way and she's thinking that she has no choice except to return to him... sounds like an abuser using d/s as a cover 

Go legal on him.  He didn't meet her, didn't collar her, didn't .... manup as the Bum says ... therefore, he DOESN'T have a claim on her .. in d/s or outside of it. 

Good luck to her and to you, well wishes



solia -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 8:52:14 PM)

edited to delete it



solia -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 9:04:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ScottishLord

Well this morning my lass did get an email from him and we read it together at my place where she has been since he called. I wont say exactly what it said but it was nee very flattering to either of us. I am sure he knew I would be reading it as well by the last comment he made. "Fighting for a brainless slutty slave like her that I discarded once is not worth my time or effort, there are plenty more sluts where she came from." Which only confirms my opinion of him, he needs help as soon as possible and has no respect for women or the lifestyle.

ScottishLord




This is when I wish we had a 'shit list' to name guys like this to warn others.  Kinda like a credit -ability check.  

I'm glad that things worked out and hope she continues to learn confidence and strength from you ... and your wife .. since it seems you may have a poly relationship.       Be well



Kirata -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 9:13:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

True as far as it goes. The fact is that she isn't going to be all snuggled up to the op. He's married.

We don't know how long she chatted to the other guy or why he broke contact. But maybe she prefers to take the chance on that turning out to be the real thing instead of being an on call extra.

I agree. And married or not, he knows what he saw. He saw a voice out of nowhere reach inside that girl and get a better grip on her than he has. What exactly is the question here? What can I do if I don't like it?
 
We have an answer for that.
 
K.



Kirata -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 9:46:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ScottishLord

the last comment he made. "Fighting for a brainless slutty slave like her that I discarded once is not worth my time or effort, there are plenty more sluts where she came from."


The girl got you so cranked-up that you tried to pick a fight with him? 
 
If that's the case, I'll bet he turns out to be right.
 
K.
 



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 9:49:03 PM)

I am happy that your situation has been resolved, and wish you well in your future.I can appreciate the lengths you went to, to protect your relationship and the calming of your submissive.Such a shame that a few Dominants have felt the need to demean the way in which you handled your relationship,but then again sometimes one has to deal with the knuckledraggers...:0)..Best/Tempting



Kirata -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/17/2008 9:55:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

I am happy that your situation has been resolved, and wish you well in your future... sometimes one has to deal with the knuckledraggers

You're right, of course. I wish them both most well. And in particular, I thank them for reminding me how peaceful it is to live with a cat.
 
Kirata the Knuckledragger
 
 



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: I am in two minds. (3/18/2008 8:54:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kirata

quote:

ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

I am happy that your situation has been resolved, and wish you well in your future... sometimes one has to deal with the knuckledraggers

You're right, of course. I wish them both most well. And in particular, I thank them for reminding me how peaceful it is to live with a cat.
 
Kirata the Knuckledragger
 
 
LOL!!!..ahh Kirata, I would NEVER consider you a knuckledragger!!..maybe an occasional fingernail or two, but never the knuckles ~wink~...and peaceful living with a cat!..OY VEY!..my cat was never peaceful,mischevious,playful,sneaky,demanding but never peaceful..:0)..Tempting



Page: <<   < prev  1 2 3 [4]

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125