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RE: Why is this the easy answer? - 3/16/2008 6:33:40 PM

LadyJeelys

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Many have no desire for 24/7 lifestyle/commitment, and I have comfort in the fact that Professional Domination is a service that is valuable, and works for those that visit them.

It works for some, maybe even many, not for all. Just as lifestyle Dommes are not for everyone and long term relationships don't work for everyone who tries it; going to a professional does not work for everyone who tries it.

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RE: Why is this the easy answer? - 3/16/2008 6:39:02 PM

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Go to a pro is my stock answer for a submissive who has a laundry list of things they want done to them by way of experience, but have little to offer to a prospective owner. THAT is precicely the type of person who would benefit from a pro. After all, thats the majority of what a pro offers, fulfillment of antasy. Many of those who present their desires want nothing more than the experience, and would never actually want to serve realistically.

Someone who sounds like they are actually looking for a relationship, has something to offer and wants to put the time and effort into building a real understanding of the lifestyle, and not living from session to session, gets different advice.

My opinion at least
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RE: Why is this the easy answer? - 3/17/2008 4:20:30 PM

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Many have no desire for 24/7 lifestyle/commitment, and I have comfort in the fact that Professional Domination is a service that is valuable, and works for those that visit them.

It works for some, maybe even many, not for all. Just as lifestyle Dommes are not for everyone and long term relationships don't work for everyone who tries it; going to a professional does not work for everyone who tries it.

Yep, both sides of the coin, so to speak :)

As I mentioned from a clients-that-see-pro-Dommes-POV. :)

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RE: Why is this the easy answer? - 3/17/2008 4:48:27 PM

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I certainly wouldn't think it's the /only/ answer.
However...it /is/ hard for boys to find suitable women to dominate them. The ratio of boys looking to be dominated vs. women interested in being dominant...is boy-heavy, for sure.

There /are/ pro dommes who take a lot of pride in what they do. It's not /just/ about the money. Personally, I love stretching boys from where they are at. Pro-domming gave me a ton of experience with a lot of boys with varied interests, that a purely lifestyle domme might never experience.

It's not a bad answer, really, if someone is lost and really craving having a submissive experience with someone who has the experience and confidence to dominate them. You may be an amazing domme--in fact, I'd bet on it--but remember, not all dommes are (pro or not). It's hard to find an amazing slave, don't you think? How much harder would it be to find an amazing Mistress, when the numbers aren't on your side?

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